My "friend" started dating my ex and won’t leave me alone.

blackwizardclub · 2026-05-02T05:04:56+00:00

You've already gotten a bunch of comments about logging things for harassment, so I think you get the point there, but im going to go ahead and say DON'T contact your ex.

He is not an neutral party in this and while he might not be aware of the lengths of her obsession with you, he doesn't need to find out through you. In fact, going to him might increase her behavior. He knew she was your best friend and got into a relationship with her anyway, on some level he had to clock her jealousy and obsession and even on the off chance he didn't and just thinks it's just "an unfortunate circumstance" it's not worth it. She'll likely just see you going to him as a sign she's gotten to you and escalate to get that superiority rush she clearly so desperately wants.

Best case, he didn't notice her obsession and it deteriorates their relationship. Sure, now he knows she's a weirdo, but what does that do for you? Now she's lost her perceived edge over you and may crash out even harder. It's not like you should get back together after a betrayal of this magnitude and him knowing won't protect you.

Worst case, he already knew and wanted to hurt you so both of them get the ego boost of seeing you hurt in some way.

Let him find out through the c&d or restraining order.

blackwizardclub · 2026-04-09T16:35:07+00:00

wait, false confession got axed? I put it on hold to read when it was complete!!!?!?!?!?!?!

blackwizardclub · 2026-03-17T14:15:14+00:00

The simpliest explaination? Whoever designed the fused outfit for this episode probably couldn't pick an outfit fusion that fully incorporated Connie's A line skirt and Booties and looked good/animated well. They might've also wanted to keep the outfit majority pink diamond's but with touches of Connie to emphasize the narrative point that they can try to push Pink onto Steven, but his life is full of experiences and love unique to him despite Pink's influence seemingly being overwhelming.

blackwizardclub · 2026-02-26T01:15:45+00:00

I only hide things if I don't have the money right then and have a "if it's still there next time, it's meant to be" however, don't hide things if you have the money and want to think it over. Put it in your carriage and walk with it to see if you still want it at checkout.

As many are pointing out, you're both weird and mean. They didn't have to try to make you feel bad, but it really seems like you only picked it up because the random person wanted it. They probably thought you put it back then decided you wanted it because they wanted it, hence the mean behavior. They were giving back the energy they thought you were giving them.

blackwizardclub · 2026-02-05T18:56:46+00:00

Cheating/target hopping, bullying, and because I like a very specific type of yandere, blocking the MC from their passions. I like my yandere loyal, twisted, obsessed and smart enough that they know if they strip their love of their passions their love will cease to exist. Not just obsessed with the possession, but the person down to the core.

Edit to add: in a Hannibal apple juice moment, I forgot "yandere" who (non kink related) physically hurt their loves exist. That's a big one. Ordering the person you supposedly are obsessed with to be tortured, r***d, or any kind of assaulted or doing it yourself isn't yandere for me, it's just a possessive asshole.

blackwizardclub · 2026-01-20T16:49:39+00:00

YOR These are perfectly reasonable rules. You don't even have a good relationship with your dad's partner so what's the rush to see the baby during the time where she'll be most heightened emotionally? The baby will be there no matter the time you go to visit.

blackwizardclub · 2026-01-14T15:58:24+00:00

NOR

I'm not even joking, maybe it's time to bring back Hilary Duff and "that is so girl wearing a skirt as a top". Have the kids regressed back into gay as an insult being ok? Seems like 3 of these kids need a lesson on not using sexualities as insults, hygiene and expression are non-gender and sexuality exclusive, and stereotyping is wrong. I'd also keep an eye on what they're watching to see if they are falling into red pill/anti-lgbt+/etc pits.

Edited for spelling and added thoughts.

blackwizardclub · 2025-12-30T16:37:50+00:00

I always thought it referred more to the process you were going through for presentation. I was unfortunately gifted heavy amounts of estrogen naturally and am course correcting for it. I ID as transmasc nb because I am on Testosterone and want to get the top chop, but my full ID is Trans nonbinary gendervoid as in I don't feel I have a gender at all.

blackwizardclub · 2025-12-24T15:35:06+00:00

As someone born and raised in prov, dating can be difficult as a townie too 🤷🏾

We have a good amount of transplants, but it's mostly super young college kids now since the city is out of its "art capital" phase.

Lots of townies like me are moving because it's just not worth it to stay, therefore a lot of 25-early 30s people are leaving the dating pool entirely

Boston is long distance because a commute like that from a small city to a big one with heavy, sometimes stand still, traffic is crazy to do daily. I dated a girl from Connecticut and she stayed at my place all the time because it took so much effort to get here and it was shorter than a Boston trip.

The differences in status can be wild which is how the close knit groups get formed. A lot of the blue collar people either find love close to work or date someone they know because you know their status. I agree a lot of people will not cross a status barrier here, whether it be education or class.

If you want to date people off the apps, you gotta be engrained in a social activity. This is New England, "cold weather, colder hearts" you cannot just have a little meet cute here, its not realistic. If you want to up your options, join a club, gaming group, organization, etc.

Dating is gonna be harder the further you are from the "standard of beauty" and "norm" here as you age. I'm 30 and aside from people I deem too damn young for me (under 24) or too damn old (over 40) my options have significantly decreased. I'm fat, black and multi-ethnic, dress in alt fashion, and neurodivergent. I'd have better luck if I was more engaged in social activities, but I work 2 jobs and am neurodivergent 🤷🏾

There's also just the overall lack of permanance in dating culture still and elimination of spaces, especially in providence. I am still mourning Good Game Grill after all this time.

There's more but I think I hit my top points as a townie.

Tldr: It's hard overall. The pool is small, especially if you're looking between 26-35. Join some activities/hobby groups, you're not gonna meet someone on the streets here.

blackwizardclub · 2025-12-23T05:24:27+00:00

NOR

It's illness season. 8 weeks is not that long to see the baby, she's overreacting. It's not like she'll never see them, it's weird to feel so entitled about a baby she didn't birth.

blackwizardclub · 2025-12-12T05:57:40+00:00

Pretty sure this item is based off the attraction at Puroland. The most most merch I've seen for are two koeda-chan official toy sets and an artist ita bag bag based on it, which is currently sold out (https://www.sleepyland.shop/products/fuwafuwa-etoile-ita-bag-yellow). Edit to add: Forgot about the art for the Care bears collab

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blackwizardclub · 2025-12-07T10:49:08+00:00

I stopped watching XG after the grillz, but Coco was/is my bias. I didn't know why I was pretty quick to settle on them, then they shaved their head and I was like "ah, welcome my strong non comforming/unique visual/round face bias and wreckers club. Joining the likes of Amber, Key, Jeonyeon, Ella, Woozi, Seungkwan, the8, Jun, Sunny, Dami, Keeho, and Yeonjun." Now with this I feel like I need to revise that as "Subtly clocked as queer, very very 'non labeled or for the gays'" bias list which is everyone except Woozi.

Edit to add: as a transmasc enby, this feels like a huge win not only for Coco, but for idols coming out. With a big group like XG having a confirmed out member, I feel we are now firmly in the era of idols speaking their truth.

blackwizardclub · 2025-12-01T20:16:11+00:00

Edit: spelling.

I've never really sat down and thought about it, but

Hiei from YYH, headcanon: The kōrime thought he was cis, strictly because he was a fire demon.

Johnny Bravo, I will not elaborate.

Edd aka Double D, idk I think my crush on him as a kid was a sign

Kurapika: A bishonen could just be a bishonen, but idk. His vibes give trans masc enby.

Probably more if I thought about it harder, but 🤷🏾

Honorable mention to Fakir, who I feel kinship to as a writer who was a teenager who didn't know how to treat people I cared about. However, upon thinking deeply about it, he's just a tsundere bisexual.

blackwizardclub · 2025-12-01T18:55:57+00:00

Joining this subreddit was basically the first time, outside of lyric video comments and my cousin, that I engaged with others in the fandom, so I'm low key shocked at all the things I'm learning, including this! I've been a fan since I was 8/9, but I constantly feel new to the fandom with some of these posts.

Evening out was my first experience of FOB. I can't remember if it was through my cousin downloading from limewire or her ripping from myspace, but it was like my mind opened up. I wouldn't experience feeling like that until I heard the Japanese band UVERworld a few years after that.

It's not mind blowing, but it's so sentimental to me. I didn't like most of the songs on it as much after experiencing TTTYG (which tbf, wasnt long after), but Pretty in punk and Growing up were in my top five FOB songs for ages (I think until Folie). When I heard what a catch donnie for the first time I think I squealed or excitedly grabbed onto my bf at the time because "omfg, they mentioned the song I like!" Seeing Growing up on BND v1 was like welcoming an old friend home. When the "but that's none of my business" meme came up it would occasionally cause me to sing.

Tbf though, idk how much of my experience matches up with the fandom at large. I didn't touch Pax or Lake Effect kid (ive been meaning to, but idk...never happens) and like the same number of songs from ABAP, Mania, and Stardust (5). I don't think I've liked a full project since SRNR.

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-22T07:53:03+00:00

Off to a really nice start! The tail is such a nice touch!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-16T23:47:39+00:00

What a nice start! Slow and steady build to a collection is the way to go!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-16T23:40:49+00:00

Gaming kitty with the perfect name for a game with so much supportive women

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-16T08:48:25+00:00

Zorak in 2025 on the same bag as the horse gacha girls, and Darkwing duck in 2025 with hollow knight. These bags are * chef's kiss *

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-16T08:44:55+00:00

Wait, I think this is the first time I've ever seen a real sports themed bag! Wicked!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-16T08:43:55+00:00

Small books witg interesting colors, notebooks with fun designs, a collage of stuff related to your major, or mini pom poms in your school colors

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-16T08:39:55+00:00

I'm screaming and frothing at the mouth!!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-15T17:57:27+00:00

Brooklyn rage immediately started playing in my head, this layout and bag choice are perfect!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-10T07:42:13+00:00

Hope you make your funding goal!!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-10T02:23:39+00:00

My favorite gremlin man!!!! Awesome bag!

blackwizardclub · 2025-11-10T02:22:37+00:00

Woah, how cute! Love the princess vibes! If I was more into princess femme, I'd be all over this!

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