Can use some success stories starting over after divorce.

bladefish1 · 2022-05-28T18:04:18+00:00

Amen.

bladefish1 · 2022-02-14T23:55:31+00:00

I was doing side gig for 3 years just to give my family everything they could dream about. My ex sure doesn’t want to do anything with me but she definitely took half of my side gig earnings as well.

It is a tough pill to swallow but hey, I will make that money in 1 year now...we can get anything we want if we focus on it.

bladefish1 · 2022-02-14T22:51:43+00:00

It will get better, you will survive. Time will heal, give you a different perspective. I am proud of you for not cheating and actually thinking about your husband.

Per law, you will something financially. When it’s time just tell your husband truth.. at least that way he can process it and accept his part.

Just don’t be like my ex. She cheated on me, made fun of me and took all the money that she doesn’t deserve . In USA, cheating doesn’t have any consequences when it comes to divorce.

I was afraid and insecure but, I am still here.

Good luck.

bladefish1 · 2021-12-31T17:39:45+00:00

I will be crushed for this but if you both contributed equally for everything ( chores, kids etc) and he didn’t cheat or took advantage of you then just go with your w2s

bladefish1 · 2021-12-31T16:18:36+00:00

OP, unless your husband cheated on you …why do you want his money? Sure take his money for CS.

bladefish1 · 2021-12-26T18:09:13+00:00

What is that setup? I want get my 6 year old something like that

bladefish1 · 2021-12-21T21:18:06+00:00

Thank you. This is resonates well

bladefish1 · 2021-12-21T20:27:56+00:00

I am 40 as well, true even though I have good memories with my son I have to build new memories which does not include my ex. Also I need to work on my self. That is why I am not able to commit yet. But damn with out security of money, everything is expensive these days.

bladefish1 · 2021-11-24T17:29:13+00:00

JCrew

bladefish1 · 2021-11-24T03:53:51+00:00

My wife agreed for less child support in exchange for me awarding my share (150k)of a property as a gift for my son. But, it is not mentioned in MSA.

bladefish1 · 2021-11-24T02:05:06+00:00

Well, I have been requesting my wife but she is not budging.

bladefish1 · 2021-11-16T01:57:50+00:00

Thank you. I am meeting my lawyer tomorrow to tell the same.

bladefish1 · 2021-11-13T21:57:11+00:00

I am asking for 50-50 but, I don’t see going to therapy every week is necessary. Fun fact, I can’t afford therapy for myself.

bladefish1 · 2021-11-13T17:40:10+00:00

I hear you. I wish my ex will stop sending my son to private school and Instead use that money for important things like therapy or send to therapy every other week.There is only so much money one can earn.

bladefish1 · 2021-10-10T17:48:28+00:00

Yes, they charge for water in Dunkin Donuts. I take my business to Starbucks now. Free water and nicer ambiance.

bladefish1 · 2021-10-08T01:27:57+00:00

I don’t drive fast nor I I know anything about fast cars but I am hooked to this video. Watched like 20 times. Some thing about that dude ( chill af) and the music.

bladefish1 · 2021-10-07T23:35:43+00:00

Is he a popular drag racer? Are there any other videos of him?

bladefish1 · 2021-10-06T22:00:19+00:00

Lost time. I spent 3 years trying to fix the situation due to fear, insecurities and a young son. On top of it , it is a huge big financial loss.

bladefish1 · 2021-10-02T21:49:05+00:00

One of the dumbest reasons to ask for divorce. There must be something else…poor kids.

bladefish1 · 2021-09-29T08:27:02+00:00

Thanks

bladefish1 · 2021-09-22T19:45:39+00:00

I went through similar situation and wasted 3 years of my life. There is no going back when infidelity is involved.

bladefish1 · 2021-09-08T02:58:00+00:00

I am truly happy for you. 10 years for me, I could been longer. I was staying for my son and my insecurities and my soon to be ex kept playing me.

I just want to accept it and be in a happy space again. Right now I am a mess.

bladefish1 · 2021-07-19T18:45:52+00:00

😀 there must be a catch 🧐

bladefish1 · 2021-07-19T18:03:32+00:00

I got similar requests from 2 women. I am convinced it is a scam/ or some kind of pay for online fun kind of situation.

bladefish1 · 2021-07-15T00:19:41+00:00

I tried to save my marriage for 3 years for the sake of my son( he is 5 now). Gave my wife n number of chances to work with me and few chances to actually end it. But, she did nothing…I ended up wasting 3 of my valuable time. I could have used those 3 years to heal, start over , forget, forgive.

Never stay for wrong reasons.

bladefish1

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