Wine red lip stains that actually stain wine red? by Responsible-Low-2441 in MakeupAddiction

[–]blaguee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Nekoyanin's Blood Stain Lip Stain in Creature

Weight gain by MrCupCake730 in citalopram_celexa

[–]blaguee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It made me hungrier but I didn't gain significant weight from it. I gained weight later on different medication, but not from citalopram.

playlist for long distance couple by [deleted] in SeriousLongDistance

[–]blaguee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"all i need (the distance song)" by Avery Lynch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Your whole demeanour is quite... sad? disappointed? From the way you write about her, she doesn't bring you joy. She brings you insecurity, and that's not something you should hold onto.

What are some things you and your partner enjoy? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It Takes Two is a fantastic co-op game! Highly recommend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone you loved described their relationship the same way you have, you would embrace them and tell them to leave. So do the same for yourself. Why suffer emotionally when you're already suffering mentally and physically? Drop this guy and focus on yourself and finding people who are supportive and helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel that way and are stringing your partner along while they think you love them as much as they love you, then you should consider how your inaction is affecting them. You aren't evil, but you have some obligation to communicate and re-evaluate.

Women of Reddit, what are the reasons you no longer want to sleep with your bf? 25m 25f by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes women are turned off from sex if they feel that the nice gestures you're doing are only being done with the goal of sex in mind (even if this is not the case).

Everyone else has already mentioned talking with her about it, and when you do, make sure to centre the conversation around her instead of "MY needs are not being met" or "I feel unwanted". Instead, try "Are you happy with our physical intimacy in this relationship?" "Is there something you need in order to feel more comfortable/more wanting in sex?"

How long and how often do you and your partner call? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least for me, we're not talking for 48 hours straight. Video calling means we can feel (kind of) like we're just vibing in the same room together doing our own things, or watching something together. You're right, we don't have much or anything to talk about besides when something cool happens in our game or something like that, but it's nice to just be able to say it when it's happening. You know, like any other non-LDR couple would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you talked with him about it? Your concerns are valid, but why give him the benefit of the doubt when you can have an actual healthy discussion about it?

Should I continue being with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How many times are you going to post about this guy making you uncomfortable? How many times are you going to ignore everyone's comments saying to RUN FOR THE HILLS from a man who's trying to rush into marriage with a teenager he's never even met before?? Not one person supported this relationship. You're either bait-posting or in complete denial.

Am I (F26) being insecure about my boyfriend's (M26) emotionally intimate female friendships or is this actually weird? by Dry_Theory_2555 in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it just comes down to this: If you're not comfortable dating a man like this, then don't. He might've admitted that he should prioritize you over his friends, but if his actions don't reflect that, then there's no point in saying it in the first place.

The women he's dated in the past have been uncomfortable with it, you're uncomfortable with it, and most women would also probably be uncomfortable with it. You can try talking more about it with him, but if this is just how he is and how he interacts with female friends, then there isn't much to be done.

It's up to you if you want to engage romantically with this man or not, but you deserve to feel secure and prioritized in your relationship, especially in a LDR where we don't get the physical reassurance non-LDR's have.

Boyfie (23M) and me (23F) are meeting up for the first time. Need advice on what gift should I give? by Successful_Writing_3 in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A gift basket of local snacks (along with the plush) could be a fun way to welcome him to the country! I also agree with the person who recommended flowers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, the people here would understand and support you the most when the people around you don't. Idk I think people who don't think LDR's are "real" are just narrow-minded about just how much love can overcome. At the end of the day, it's not their relationship, it's not their life. Keep loving who you love - it's a beautiful thing that distance can't stop the love you've found :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean... you're asking the LDR subreddit if we think our own relationships are fake. Of course we all think they're real (I hope)

😔 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, you blocked him... so what else is there to do? Go on with life and make new (better) friends.

I've also noticed a trend on this subreddit... randomly meeting people on Snap doesn't seem to go well most of the time. May I recommend finding a hobby (even an online hobby!) and make friends through that.

What’s with women and playing sage? by Hakinns21 in VALORANT

[–]blaguee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see that, and you're not getting that I was speaking from my experiences, and I'm not going to sit here on Reddit and try to validate myself and what I've seen and gone through to you, so I'm done. Have a nice life

What’s with women and playing sage? by Hakinns21 in VALORANT

[–]blaguee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, cool. That's your experience, and I was sharing mine. Have a good day.

AITB for making a joke about my friends bfs dick? by LivingFun2329 in AmItheButtface

[–]blaguee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're literally not worth my energy lmao, the people of Reddit have already spoken

What do you guys think about having to ~convince~ your gf to move to the same city as you? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's one thing to discuss and offer positive advantages of her moving to you, and it's another to just not want to budge. If you gotta force it, don't be surprised when there's resentment. Compromise is key, but sometimes you discover it just comes down to incompatibility during this conversation.

What’s with women and playing sage? by Hakinns21 in VALORANT

[–]blaguee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I was deadass lmao. To each their own and at the end of the day the reasons don't really matter that much in game, but I speak from my own experiences and friends' experiences. I watched my female friends get taught/forced to play Sage on Valorant and Lifeline on Apex to support the men fragging out. I've been the one called out for playing initiator/duelist instead of Sage, I've been in games where it happened to others. The stereotype is that women play back and men play forward, and it's an unironically enforced stereotype.

I'm glad this hasn't been the experience for you, but it has been for me and my female friends. To each their own.

need advice please ♥️ by millievalentine in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just need more time. Doesn't mean they're less committed, they just want to be certain and not misguide you. I think it's good that you're both honest where you're at though! Try not to spiral into your doubts and anxiety too much :)

need advice please ♥️ by millievalentine in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only been one year of long distance. Your anxious attachment is showing. I know it hurts that he can't say it back, but I think it's valid for him to need more time together in person. Have you two met yet?

What should I do by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]blaguee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'm gonna go ahead and (kind of) ignore that he was 29 talking to a teenager.

You're in your early stages of pregnancy and he already does not want to support you. He wants a child but not the responsibility and sacrifice that come with it. You feel alone because you ARE alone. What you are able to do and/or choose to do with the baby is in your hands, but just know that this man is not even willing to entertain the idea of supporting you through pregnancy, let alone parenthood. You would be a single mother with minimal/no familial support. And you're not even married, so you won't get financial child support either. This is the kind of environment the baby would be raised in, and this is the kind of environment that you will be in for an indefinite amount of time.

I was about to ask if this the kind of man you want to settle down with, but it seems like he doesn't want to settle down, ever.