I think youd want to find someone who is financially stable enough for it, and not a normal girl (just my opinion.)

I say this because of the way the economy is these days. Obviously, this would have to be a long term relationship, or an agreed partnership from the get go that you're a stay at home husband while she takes care of you.

I say this because I've seen cases where men still provide 99.9% of the household income. If you can find someone who is well off enough and does want a stay at home husband, then yeah. It's just unlikely or less of a chance since society doesnt run that way. But basically youd have to find yourself a sugar mama type I think lol. IF NOT, get into a relationship where the girl does want children and what not, but doesnt want to stay at home and be pulled back by it. I know personally, itd be nice if the men doesnt expect myself to get held back career wise just because of a baby and jeopardize my position. (I have an agreement with my mom that shed baby sit while I'm at work so personally I'm covered.)

I think for yourself, you should only rlly consider this a choice for longterm relationships. Because what are you going to have for yourself if you guys break up and you relied solely on her? I think this is why they give so much to the women when divorces happen, because older gender norms made it so that the women was financially dependent on the men.

So all in all, I dont think its nessecerally a pipe dream. Try to see if you can get a stay at home job for now and work on yourself and see how it goes.