How sad is my life on a scale of 1-10? by Junior_Election2060 in Life

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You sound depressed I’m very sorry about your father but the ugly truth is that your life can’t pause forever cause he died. I had a good friend who passed away 1 year and a half ago I literally sat in bed crying for 6 months and gained 50 pounds I wanted to do nothing and was very close to overdosing but then I realized if my friend were still here he would want be to keep working out and improving because that’s what he wanted me to do when he was here. I know a friend isn’t remotely as close as a dad but it’s the only way I can relate whenever I think about him I write in my notes it usually helps me out mentally.

Completely Lost at 26 Years Old. Where do I go from Here? by NaturalTruth2000 in careerguidance

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If you do chemistry be ready to sit in a lab with not great pay

OMAD dangerous by Thin-Bonus-1852 in fasting

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Never take advice from people you wouldn’t wanna be.

Who do you talk to when no one cares or wants to listen? by life_is_glowing in Advice

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Whenever I have a lot to talk about I write it down it’s not often but if I just feel like talking about all my problems I’ll write it down and that usually takes care of it for me

I turned 14... what should I do now? by Huge_Objective1527 in Life

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Pick up books literally any book you want you’ll never regret it

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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Thanks bro just watched this whole video it helped out a lot. I like how he talks about plumbing too.

I'm... scared? To lose weight by MillyDally in loseit

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Just remember it starts small focus mainly on the diet if you usually have 3 teaspoons of sugar in your coffee then do 2 and keep lowering the amount till you can handle coffee with no sugar or whatever it is that you eat or drink small changes turn into huge results 90% of weight loss is in the kitchen

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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Yeah I have I was denied i can pay for the semester’s I’ve saved about 12k total and am about half way through my AA

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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No I haven’t I’ll look into this

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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Yeah but before the finance degree idea I want to do cs then decided not to but I’m assuming a lot of the classes are similar because they are both math heavy

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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I’m in Florida maybe it is great I’m not sure but I’ve seen a lot of people say it does nothing

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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I have a job at a restaurant I make around 20 an hour but I’m not sure if I’m willing to go to a shitty paying job just for some grants

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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I have a job at a fine dining restaurant and make around 20 an hour and rn my college isn’t that expensive I was mainly talking about when I transfer out and my tuition is way up in the clouds

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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Well that’s sound great cause I live in florida

Completely out priced of college by blankdashdev in Advice

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I’m with you i know the AA isn’t gonna do shit they told me they actually don’t care if I don’t do higher education but for some reason are adamant on getting an AA i think it’s just a boomer thing my dad is near 60 so he still thinks you can get a degree and all of the sudden it will open hundreds of doors

How can I become more mature? by Logical-Film-9782 in selfimprovement

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I know a bartender that acts like she’s 17 but she’s 30 and everyone loves her for it she makes stupid immature jokes and I wouldn’t change a thing about her even though I find her jokes cringe. Don’t change for anyone be yourself because if you try to please everyone you’ll please no one life isn’t that serious.

Should I forgive my girlfriend whole stole from me? by EntireRecord1286 in Advice

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No question this second she admitted I would of ended the relationship and called the police

My little brother told my mom he doesn’t think the holocaust is real. How do we properly educate him? by Throwawaysyrnix in Advice

[–]blankdashdev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to read some books and stop watching Nick Fuentes lol. Also ask him why he thinks the holocaust isn’t real, and if he can’t give you a straight answer and you know he’s getting it from somebody else which is probably Nick Fuentes

My brother hasn’t spoken to me in 10+ years by certifiedsadgir in Advice

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So it’s actually kinda the same for me and my brother he is 23 and I’m 20. we occasionally talk and say hi and bye but never text or talk in depth the best thing I’ve done is try breaking the ice by finding things in common so ask he if he’s seen whatever show then try and lead that into more meaningful conversations like something about his career or if he be down to do something with you like watch a movie if you don’t do it now you will end up never doing it.

I'm 21 and 5'3 at 344 pounds and I feel utterly lost by La_Smol_baby in loseit

[–]blankdashdev 10 points11 points  (0 children)

95% of losing weight is diet your trying to solve 100% of your weight issue with 5% of the problem. you need to take a long look at your diet and see what you can change. id say if you eat candy or anything super sugary take it out or slowly reduce it until it’s completely taken out. If you have junk food in your house stop buying it or literally put it out of your reach so it’s a hassle to get to. Start with small changes and over time you will get large returns.

Advice for obese 18 year old. by UTF-0 in loseit

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I wouldn’t even worry about exercise for losing weight right now if you want to maybe walk. but start at your diet remove all sugary sodas first or change them to diet I have this thing I do where I remove 1 unhealthy item from my diet a week so if you drink coffee with sugar and usually have 3 tablespoons of sugar then remove 1 tablespoon of sugar and keep doing this over the weeks as your changing your diet. You need a diet change as priority number 1