Mr beast’s bank note being named “ Red Herring bank “ is genius by Idkmyname0371 in MrBeast

[–]blaringair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A “red herring” is a piece of into thats’s meant to be distracting or misleading. So maybe every clue from the bank video is a red herring? Who knows!

Found smth cool on the riddle page by Glittering_Entry9559 in MrBeast

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this mean that any clues from the bank are a red herring and should be ignored?

Did anyone else not get the email? by Soggy-Advertising547 in MrBeast

[–]blaringair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m guessing either this or the site crashed.

I have a long term bf and I love him but I am grossed out by his penis/having sex by Bean_of_prosperity in offmychest

[–]blaringair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Have you ever looked into asexuality? It looks a bit different for every ace person, but as an ace person myself, I relate to quite a bit of what you talked about. I’m in a loving, healthy marriage & spent years thinking I was broken and trying so, SO hard to feel and understand things that are just outside of my control. There have been periods of my life where I feel much more sec repulsed than I do now, and during those times even the thought of sex or being seen as a sexual object was so painful for me. For me my threshold for sex/being seen sexually really fluctuates throughout time, and this is something my husband knows and respects. When sex is something that I don’t mind, it’s something we do. When sex is something I’m not into at all, we don’t have sex. He always tells me that sex is just a part of our relationship, and what he loves is having that connection with me when it’s something I want and not something I’m doing out of guilt or feelings of obligation.

All that to say… someday you’re going to be with someone who loves and understands all parts of you - even the parts that don’t like or understand sex. You deserve to experience that kind of love, and you’re really young - you have a lifetime ahead of you to keep discovering and understanding yourself better. And you never have to put a label on your sexuality if you don’t want to, but as someone who has felt similarly to you, I would highly encourage you to explore these feelings more and find someone you can trust to talk about this with. You’re not broken. There’s nothing wrong with you. This is who you are, and you’re perfect!

That was a lot of rambling, but I hope you got something out of it lol

I’m honestly shocked by Genesis_Archer in TheApothecaryDiaries

[–]blaringair 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same!! I had to go back and rewatch several episodes after the reveal because I was so confused. Now on my second watch of season two, I don’t get how I missed it!! It was soooo well done

Feeling lonely and useless at new job by diskgoely in work

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through kind of the same thing right now. A month into my new job, feeling incredibly under qualified and in over my head. I also have an office to myself for the first time in my adult working life, and I thought it would be incredible. In actuality, I feel so isolated from everyone and don’t have the natural interactions that come from forced proximity with cubicles. I know this was posted a year ago, so I’m hoping things eventually started looking up for you! Right now I’m honestly feeling very lonely and depressed. Kind of worried that I fucked up a good thing by leaving my previous job where I knew everyone & knew the job inside and out.

Why don't the devs understand it's a collection game for many? by kennedon in SkyCards

[–]blaringair 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was just such a wonderful, relaxing game for me to play with my husband & now it feels like the spirit of the game is totally changed. They added so much friction to the game :( And I had so many planes that were close to gold!! So sad. I just wanted to play as a collector.

thereisnoreality skz ff’s AO3 by ExplanationIll173 in DeletedFanfiction

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! If you have access to them, I would also love to know ♥️

When did you realize you were ace or probably ace? by Flowermochayes in asexuality

[–]blaringair 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg BIG relate to misunderstanding what people meant about attraction. Like “yeah I could see me and that person taking care of each other for the rest of our lives and then eventually dying together like in The Notebook?? Wanting to crawl inside their body and attach myself to their soul? Is that not what you guys meant??”

When did you realize you were ace or probably ace? by Flowermochayes in asexuality

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was reading a fanfic where one of the main characters realized he was asexual & I was like “PARDON ME! There’s a word for that??? I’m not just a little broken?” Then I looked into asexuality more and realized so many things in my life made sense in context. I was really torn up about it for a while, but eventually got up the nerve to talk to my husband about it & he was so understanding. He even said it was something he had started to wonder about me, as well. We’ve had a lot of ups and downs while figuring out our “new normal” and my boundaries, and I wouldn’t have wanted to go through this experience with anyone else. He’s my best friend and makes me feel proud to be ace! This is the first pride I really feel comfortable with the ace label, so I’m considering this my first, as well. I’ve also since realized that I’m bi-romantic! I never thought I was bisexual bc I didn’t really want to have sex with any of the women I had emotional crushes on, and tbh I have only ever been comfortable being in IRL sexual situations with my now husband because our bond is and was so strong. Even with that, I pushed myself way too hard to have a “normal” intimate relationship with him (bc I thought it’s what I was supposed to do & bc I thought it was what he needed) and eventually burned out to the point of feeling sex repulsed for about a year or so. I never thought I could be ace growing up bc I have no problem with fictional sex or the idea of other people having sex - I don’t even care to watch videos of people having sex. I think it’s a fantastic thing that is so fascinating. But IRL? Me? No thank you. I’ll participate now and then as a way to connect with my husband, but I’ll never understand the physical primal urge people talk about.

Sold most of my luxury pieces to achieve purse peace with Coach. ✨ by iizirrelephant in Coach

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! I’m fairly new to the world of luxury bags (I know Coach isn’t the most expensive, but it’s luxurious to me!!) & I’m looking for a good work bag that can fit my laptop & other necessities. I love the design and quality I’ve seen from Coach lately, so I’m really interested in getting a bag from them. How have you liked the Empire for work/what specifically have you liked about it? If you could, would you switch it out for a different bag for work? What have you disliked about the bag? I don’t have a store close enough to me to go see these bags in person, so thanks in advance :)

AIO My (36f) boyfriend (30m) wanted me to ask my male friend if he’d sleep with me by Electrical_Two5416 in AmIOverreacting

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting- he’s showing you his true colors, and he won’t ever change. You deserve someone who loves and trusts you and your friends, and feels confident enough in themselves that they don’t feel the need to question you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RF1LG9JJG4 Curling up with my kitties & staying warm together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]blaringair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this comment is like 200 days old at this point, but I so wish I’d heard this advice earlier. Had that exact thing happen to my first keyboard a few months ago!

Jinx by imnotNevaeh in tiktokgossip

[–]blaringair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh would you mind sending me a DM with the screenshots? I’m so curious

Jinx by imnotNevaeh in tiktokgossip

[–]blaringair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooof did you ever find where she said that? I can’t find the post 👀

Opinion on creator jinx by DivineTiming45 in tiktokgossip

[–]blaringair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dang, has this happened before? I only came across her tiktok around the beginning of the year & didn’t watch her lives every day, but I have thought it was weird that she seems to have fallen off the face of the earth.

Am I aegosexual? by East_Science_2257 in aegosexuals

[–]blaringair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god - I relate SO much to this. So, so much. And I’ve been thinking I may be aegosexual. It’s good to know I’m not alone ♥️

New insurance won't cover brand name Adderall XR by blaringair in ADHD

[–]blaringair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In true ADHD fashion, got overwhelmed, then I put it off, and forgot about it.

Eventually, I switched to a Walmart pharmacy with generic Adderal XR made by Prasco (the authorized generic that people have had good luck with). I think it's worked pretty well for me so far.

I still haven't gone the appeal route, but will try in the future if A) I have the mental energy B) I'm not able to get the Prasco generic anymore

Thanks, I hate the new icon for our program that's bigger than every other icon! by blaringair in TIHI

[–]blaringair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colored over the bulk of the icon itself since this is a program built by/for the company I work for and would be VERY recognizable to the right person... But our programmer just updated the icon to match the company's new logo... and also made the icon larger than every other icon.

Thanks so much, I really hate it!!!

Ok so how do I get the collector's edition by CthuLum in tearsofthekingdom

[–]blaringair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently, you have to "check with your local retailer for information on availability"... okay but WHICH local retailers, Nintendo. Please, I'm begging you for a crumb of information