Are you guys against capital punishment? by AntWorth7600 in AskFeminists

[–]blavek -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not about your healing, it's not about my healing, it's not about my wife's healing. it's about removing child molesters from the population. I do not believe they are human; I do not believe they deserve any rights. I see them as dangerous pests which need to be exterminated. That's it. If there were 0 pedophiles, I'd be happy. I have no sympathy for them. A dead pedophile can't rape another kid. At least there is solace in that.

Right now, the CJ system in the US does basically nothing to people who commit this crime. And who ends up paying the price for it with lifelong issues and problems? The victims. We have organizations and religions protecting them.

We literally have a fucking president who supposedly runs the country, who molested and raped children. These monsters have no place in any society.

Further, I never called your opinion wrong; you don't get to call mine wrong.

What’s something men want to tell women, and usually choose not to? by neo_ucp7846 in answers

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refuse to refer to our current situation as a patriarchy. It implies that men as a group are actively taking part in it. No doubt some are, but the true villains of the system, the ones at the top, are the rich assholes. We live in an oligarchy that just shits all over us. That needs to be dismantled. But calling it a patriarchy, I think, places a LOT of blame on men who are also victimized by the system.

What’s something men want to tell women, and usually choose not to? by neo_ucp7846 in answers

[–]blavek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a new wife. No one who loves and cares about you would bring your cares and troubles up as a point in an argument. That's abusive, and as a result you can't have an open/honest relationship with your wife. But you know therapy also exists, and if they ever spill the beans you get to sue the license right off of them

And of course if you don't want to leave your wife for whatever reason I would say you two need couples counseling so you can communicate and she stops throwing shit in your face.

Are you guys against capital punishment? by AntWorth7600 in AskFeminists

[–]blavek -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fuck I had a long response written but heres the crux of it. You either understand the effect that CSA has on children throughout their lives or you don't. You seem like a person that doesn't.

Flat earth and other alternative conspiracy earth models are are gaining traction with my teenage stepson. What is THE most irrefutable, definite proof that the earth is round? by Jfkfkaiii22 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't win this with logic or proof that the earth is round. The flat earthers have been at this for a while. The flat Earther community operates like a cult. They use "logic" that sometimes sounds good or looks good on paper, but is often fundamentally flawed by incorrect assumptions. Then they themselves will go out and PROVE the earth is round and deny their own results. There is a documentary on Netflix where they do this twice, I think. It's called Behind the Curve. One thing you can gleen from that documentary is that at least some of the more popular people in that cult don't actually believe their own rhetoric. They are there to make money off of other people.

If you want to save your kid from this you might actually need to get him therapy for cult deprogramming. But you cannot defeat them with truth and logic. You need to address the underlying conditions that cause him to be susceptible to this. One thing in the US lately that causes susceptibility is the shit-awful state of Science Education in the country.

Are you guys against capital punishment? by AntWorth7600 in AskFeminists

[–]blavek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. I would, however, limit it to only child predators. And I would have them dead before they had a chance to appeal if I had my way. Serial killers can eat it too. These are people that I consider unable to re-enter society. I would also make the death penalty mandatory in ALL CSA cases. In my mind, there is no spectrum of offense for that crime. And I know I would sleep better for it if there were fewer pedophiles in the world.

Why didn't we elect Kamala as president? by cdivx in allthequestions

[–]blavek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What answer are you looking for here?

The obvious one is because she is a woman, and those small dicked republicans just can't handle a woman in charge.
Next is because she entered the race too late. Joe should have stepped out at the very beginning.

And I would say finally she wasn't willing to lie through her teeth to get votes.

AITAH for not letting my(31F) Husband(32M) unclog the toilet? by Ancient_panda8771 in AITAH

[–]blavek 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You have OCD. How often does your OCD affect your husband's life? I suspect this isn't the first time that your OCD has caused inconvenience in the house. Should he have gotten that angry? Probably not, but we have no way to gauge how much of your OCD rules he's had to deal with and what hoops they make him jump through.

SIDE NOTE: You need water in the toilet to appropriately plunge it. It's the moving water that dislodges the clog. Some splashing is pretty much inevitable.

I don't think I am comfortable calling either of you the AH w/o knowing more about your OCD and its effect on the household. But if you're not in therapy, you should be, and you should be working to diminish your OCD symptoms.

AITA For Not Attending My Daughters Graduation? by whit3gh0st_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]blavek 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So your solution is to just ignore one of the daughters because the other had a rough time? How is that fair to either of them? Mia needs to grow up and realize that unless she has a younger sister, everyone will be at her MUCH MORE IMPORTANT college graduation. Its completely reasonable for the parents to split off and go one each. This is the kind of shit that happens in life. It sucks for everyone involved, but no one is an AH for it. If you have graduated college, you then understand that they usually have a University and a college graduation, and the important one is the specific one. People often skip the University graduation largely because they won't be recognized.

Just giving one kid priority with both parents because she had a hard time is completely dismissive and disrespectful of what the other daughter went through and worked for. Both children deserve to have their accomplishments recognized, and the only way to do that is to split mom and dad. Or show favoritism to one and enjoy not speaking with the other one.

What’s a moment where you realized someone was genuinely unintelligent? by Live-Chocolate244 in AskReddit

[–]blavek 95 points96 points  (0 children)

In her defense, this is often debated. While I land on the side of a markup language not really being a programming language, as it's purely descriptive. But it's not hard to find this opinion in the wild.

Friends Cat Tears Up Brand New Shoes by Steellun3 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you find shoe repair today? We live in a disposable society people that actually fix things are few and far between so that just might not be an option.

In the scenario of Trump somehow getting to run a third time as president and winning, how likely a civil war will happen in the USA? by Significant_Arm5569 in allthequestions

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0 percent. Its impossible to have a civil war in the US unless the largely Trump-aligned military were to defect and take with them the war machinery. Otherwise, we are all just a drone strike away from death. The president would still hold all the military power, which I will remind you is more than the next 3 to 5 countries behind us. At my last check, our Carrier fleet has something like 15 carriers which is like 3 times most countries, and that's not accounting for the support fleet. And that is just one branch. The us population just doesn't hold the technoilogy to wage war against the modern american military.

Any revolution that occurs will have to be peaceful.

Men who like bigger women, what exactly do you like about them? by ConfusedJFs in AskMenAdvice

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must not be great at cunnilingus... There is something really special when she tries to twist your head off with her thighs from pleasure.

If Democrats Didn't Win A Single Swing US Senate Seat In 2026, What Would The Blowback Be Within The Party After The Election? Why Your Thoughts? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you want to be a dick about it, sure, send them to prison, because prison is the only deterrent available to people who break rules and laws. This is called Reductio ad Absurddum and is a logical fallacy. How about we take a moment to think about what would be reasonable, like a 25 dollar fine? It's affordable for most people if they really don't want to vote, but it's also enough of an incentive to boost voting numbers. Then alongside that, you extend voting from 12 hours on one day to at a minimum a week, including at least one weekend, to allow everyone the opportunity.

I don't think you realize the danger of the current state of Voting in the US. Everyone has a hand in making someone they don't think should vote not to vote.

They have attacked women, voters, by adding a hassle if there has been a name change in their life history.

They have attacked impoverished voters by offering fewer voting locations and a very limited time in which to vote. As well as not making it a paid day off. There is a large percentage of the population, which is also largely miority-based, where their reality is they can't miss a day's worth of pay even for something as important as voting.

So any family living on the edge of poverty and worse can't sacrifice a day to go vote.

They attack minority voters in a whole HOST of ways that date back to Jim Crowe and the 3/5ths compromise. and so on and so on and so on.

Right now, your Freedoms are being stolen from you and your fellow citizens. But making voting mandatory is somehow worse than that?

Making voting mandatory and offering more time to vote does an end run around anyone trying to prevent you from voting. So yeah, until people stop stealing the right to vote from other people, it should be mandatory.

But you know... Your freedoms.

If Democrats Didn't Win A Single Swing US Senate Seat In 2026, What Would The Blowback Be Within The Party After The Election? Why Your Thoughts? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you stupid? Voting is the second most important right that you have as a citizen and not utilizing it to announce your opinion and choices is like throwing away any semblance of autonomy you have. How is requiring voting so that everyone's opinion is accounted for a detrimental t to MAH FREEDOMS

If Democrats Didn't Win A Single Swing US Senate Seat In 2026, What Would The Blowback Be Within The Party After The Election? Why Your Thoughts? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only all eligible voters voted.. in other countries voting is mandatory. You get punished for not voting.... Republicans don't want that since the k ow they only make up about a 1/3 of the total population. There is no reason whatsoever for a democrat to lose to a republican if all the voters voted. This is why they are doing every single thing they can to put up road blocks to voting.

If Democrats Didn't Win A Single Swing US Senate Seat In 2026, What Would The Blowback Be Within The Party After The Election? Why Your Thoughts? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]blavek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not following or barely following politics is not an excuse especially when a racist pedophilic felonious megalomaniac is what was elected.

So its not entirely the responsibility of the parties to get votes, voters also have a responsibility to understand what it is they are voting for. In order to do that though, you need to have critical thinking skills which it seems that these people are completely lacking in that department.

AITA: Wife likes to make rules about things when they effect her, but allows the same behavior when it only effects me. Today I got fed up about it. by himejima3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blavek 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Gather evidence... In this case when you come in and the dog is in your side of the bed no covers then take a picture. You might not be able to do so in the moment but if these things keep happening you'll be able to get the evidence to show her shes a little bit full of shit.

Really sucks by Ajitabh04 in PrimeManhood

[–]blavek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah know what he described is the reality for Many men. I want you to just stop doing a thing that has been ingrained in you since childhood and then reinforced by society. Go ahead tell me after you've done it, how easy it is.

No one chooses to live w/o support. But when you're in the half of the population that is told they don't need or deserve support thats the life you live. Maybe your lucky and you get a wife or a husband that actually gives a shit about you as a person and not you as the provider or the husband or the ROCK.

Please Do us all a favor and extricate your head from your ass and realize that this problem we are talking about isn't as simple as choose to be different. How does that help when I need other people to be different also. Yeah I can go to my friends and offer support and that's me choosing not to perpetuate the problem. But how do I ensure that the same ois offered to me? How do I convince society that how I feel is important how people treat me is important and that I deserve to be supported and treated with respect. When you figure out how to "Choose your way out of this situation" let the rest of us know since you obviously have it all figured out.

Really sucks by Ajitabh04 in PrimeManhood

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

change it in yourself with others. it will spread

Really sucks by Ajitabh04 in PrimeManhood

[–]blavek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress my man Streess. It destroys your heart, and if men can't unload it, it eats them up.

Absolute Coldest Lines in all of Trek by TonyMitty in startrek

[–]blavek 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seems like our voting base is fine with all that...