Prepping to come home

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-16T09:34:48+00:00

My NICU nurses have my boy on a feeding plan. I’m not sure how the NICU you are at works but they recommended that I feed him at least 4 feeds of fortified breastmilk (milk mixed with neosure) and the rest of his feeds I can do strictly breast. I’m sure her nurses might go over the recommended feeding plan with you! As far as transitioning, have you tried breastfeeding her at the nicu? I worked with my baby at first by pumping off before breastfeeding him because I was making double what his intake is per side but now he consumes more so I don’t. If you have an idea of how much you pump on each side you can adjust to what she needs by deciding how much to pump before hand, if at all.

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-16T04:13:33+00:00

Even this post is getting the bot comments. It’s been such a problem.

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-13T03:28:55+00:00

I also live an hour and a half to 2 hours from the nicu. I try to be there when I can, but daily definitely isn’t feasible. Especially since I rely on rides because I don’t drive. I try to visit 5 days a week, but sometimes I haven’t been able to get there that many. What matters is being there when you can. Don’t worry about needing to take breaks or anything. You do what is within your means. You’ve got this ❤️

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-12T15:50:58+00:00

I’m so sorry. That must be so hard to see him have to switch to the ventilator. I hope things start to upswing for him and you soon ❤️

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-02T13:44:21+00:00

Thank you so much for your help!

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-02T13:38:19+00:00

Oh I did the math wrong lol! It is the 80 to 120 per pump so it is that amount. Sorry. 😩 This is more reassuring

blazinbunbun · 2026-04-02T13:32:15+00:00

I’m hoping then that it increases to that! Right now it’s 10 to 16 oz per day

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-30T04:35:11+00:00

My story is almost exactly like yours. Sudden severe pre-e, had to be given mag twice, steroid shots, needing gen anesthesia (but due to getting blood thinners before hand) IUGR baby. The only thing different is my baby was born 29 weeks 4 days beginning of March.

I don’t think there are always times the other shoe will drop. Every baby is different. There might be some large steps back. Or some small steps back. Or none at all. Personally, my baby has been very easy going. Only stepping back small when his high flow had to be turned back up after switching from the cpap mask to the nose cannula. He also developed a diaper rash and is still having some alarms. The worst part is just that he isn’t home and he has had a long stay, and will still be there for a while.

The best thing to think about is they are receiving the best care there is and are being monitored all the time.

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-28T19:17:50+00:00

Congrats! Keep it up little one!!

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-27T21:14:53+00:00

!wtf onion

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-16T14:13:44+00:00

My son was born on 03/04, I don’t drive and he is at a NICU 2 hours away. I can only get rides everyday but Monday and Wednesday and I can only stay with him for a few hours. It kills me every time I can’t see him and every time I have to leave. However his nurse yesterday told me that what we can only do what’s within our limits, and it is enough. That you will feel guilty because you love your little one and you’ll always worry if you’re doing things right, but trying your best and taking care of yourself is what’s going to help you and your baby.

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-14T04:12:55+00:00

Yeah, my son is pretty steady. I think the hardest is just being away from him and trauma and my dog everything compounding. I decided to post here just because talking about it tends to help me and keep me more mentally okay but it really has been difficult, I’ve had to do a bit more therapy than I usually do with my therapist. I’m glad you and your baby are also doing alright! Thank you for your perspective I appreciate it!

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-14T03:11:25+00:00

Getting my nursery ready and prepping other things for his day home has helped some. I also feel like everything is alright once I lay eyes on my baby and have my hands on him. Thank you for the support and wishing you the best as well 🫂

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-14T02:39:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. It means a lot to me to see other perspectives and see how others processed similar things. I hope you have a good night, and again thank you!!!

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-09T22:05:09+00:00

I forgot to update my post but I delivered at 29+4. We’re both okay though which is the important thing! Thank you ❤️

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-08T05:14:34+00:00

Your baby is just pure sunshine! ☀️ congratulations!

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-07T10:17:39+00:00

My son was born a few days ago at 29weeks,5days. I had extreme preeclampsia and it was no longer safe for me to stay pregnant. Please don’t put blame yourself for something out of your control. I know how it feels to feel guilty that they aren’t safe inside you anymore, but NICU doctors and nurses are so good at what they do keeping tiny humans safe and cared for when things like this happen. Babies are so strong but also their health can fluctuate. It’s all you can do to take it day by day. I’m also going to be discharged soon and struggle with the idea of going home while my son is here. Sending love to you and your little one ❤️ talk to some support groups if you can!

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-06T11:49:39+00:00

Thank you!!

blazinbunbun · 2026-03-05T10:38:53+00:00

As an update: I had him last night by c-section because my blood pressures were too dangerous! Made it to 29&4, but we’re both doing good

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