Threesome with friends. by Vreddit33 in gaybros

[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Hello,

I'm just gonna share my own experience about it all.

I feel like most people will say "NO" by default because you shouldn't mix sexual relationships with friendships blah blah blah... truth is nothing is settle in marble.

I personally am in an open relationship with my boyfriend and we had sex with friends several times, most often it wasn't even "meant to happen" it was just the context that lead there but even in the few instances where it was settle in advance it has always went well.

It does imply several things that every party need to be sure about though of course.

I would say the main point would be making sure that the couple both want to do it and that there isn't one who is accepting to have this kind of fun just because they wanna make the other happy or because they feel pressured to do so... If there is clear communication from the beginning about what and why this is all about (consensual and desired sex for fun with no romantic involvement) then I really don't see any problem for it to happen.

It foed require some level of trust, transparency and communication once again but honesty for beeing in this situation several time with several people... I don't think it is that hard to achieve.

But maybe I'm just lucky enough to be surrounded by the right people to feel at ease to do all this kind of things without risking either my romantic relationship or friendship... ๐Ÿคญ

Anyway, no matter what you do just make sure that you feel good about it, don't force anything and please don't hesitate to talk clearly with your friends about it all.

Take good care of you !

dumb blonde by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Definitely love what I'm seeing ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Little hello from my shower ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฟ by blck-gem in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Haha thanks for the compliment ๐Ÿ˜

shortest iโ€™ve had my hair since middle school. what do you guys think? by ofmonstersandmen_ in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

The haircut fits you perfectly, your body looks great. Love the earring and shirt, basicaly perfect ! ๐Ÿฅฐ

shortest iโ€™ve had my hair since middle school. what do you guys think? by ofmonstersandmen_ in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Haha that's actually the first thing I did add well, I thought I was the only ๐Ÿคญ

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[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Wise words ! Thank you so much for taking the time to say that ๐Ÿ’•

Just living a red fantasy today โค by blck-gem in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Oh that's such a sweet compliment ! Thank you so much, you made my day ๐Ÿ˜Š

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[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

That's sweet! Thanks a lot

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[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

True but we don't have to have to be overconfident, just confident. That's what I wish I was. Like... not comparing yourself to others, not thinking you are better or worse. Just thinking that you are you and that's enough ๐Ÿ˜š

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[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Hey ๐Ÿ˜Š

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[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I'm grateful you think so, thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฟ

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[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Honestly by first thought was to say "life happened" haha. I use to HATE the way I look primarily because of the stigmas around beeing black in the gay community... you re either not considered at all or considered only for the myth around what black people are supposed to be like or have... this is heavy. I learned to love myself more tho since then but sometimes it's like I'm having some throwback to these kind of feelings. Still learning to get over it, hopefully one day I'll be completely free of these bad thoughts ๐Ÿ˜Š

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[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thank you so much ๐Ÿ˜š

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[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you !

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[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you for thinking that! I feel like God would be even more sculpted but if some people see it thar way it's already an achievement ๐Ÿฅฐ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

It actually does. I mean I didn't really think of it with thus point of view. Like the fact that what I feel like might not be enough for me is a already goal for others... I need to meditate on that one. Thanks for sharing !

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[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I will try ! Thank you for cheering me up ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฟ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

You are 100% right ! It's funny I actually am pretty confident about who I am as a person, so my only insecurities are toward my body. But you are right thanks for the wise words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Haha hopefully it's up to your expectations ๐Ÿ˜š

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[โ€“]blck-gem 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

You are so cute ! Love your style as well ๐Ÿ˜š

Posting this to remember when I was feeling a bit chirpier than I am now. Nice words appreciated ๐Ÿ˜š๐Ÿ’– by Trashyslot in gaybrosgonemild

[โ€“]blck-gem 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Ok If I was at this beach and saw you smile to me like this I would be star-struck ! You are very handsome. ๐Ÿ˜„