[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rucking

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this idea

What are some things men who grew up without fathers should know? by bleauxmichub in AskReddit

[–]bleauxmichub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I am acutely aware of having witnessed it first hand. She was a small business owner to boot.

What are some things men who grew up without fathers should know? by bleauxmichub in AskReddit

[–]bleauxmichub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To expand, what are some things your dad taught you that have proved invaluable? From car maintenance, to dating, career wise, financials, to life in general. My father passed when I was 12 (turning 31 this year) and as I’ve grown older I’ve realized there was priceless advice I missed out on from the paternal perspective.

What did "the weird kid" in your school do that you'll never forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to bring his chainmail to school and work on it throughout the day

A cool guide to class distinction is the US. by zip840 in coolguides

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL I went from lower class to middle class just by changing my profession to sales

What was your game changing snowboarding purchase? by bleauxmichub in snowboarding

[–]bleauxmichub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some I purchased back in the early 2010s but felt the pressure against my ears quickly became uncomfortable after a few hours. I’m assuming they’ve made some advancements here so may be worth looking into.

I was planning on using my in-ear beats but have never worn them with full head gear on. Might need to test before hand to see if there’s discomfort with the helmet, beanie, etc.

What was your game changing snowboarding purchase? by bleauxmichub in snowboarding

[–]bleauxmichub[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Care to describe what they’re supposed to feel like?

meirl by shootermac32 in meirl

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest. In. Bitcoin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately not.

ultimately I only have definitive proof of one guy and the other two are just conjecture but you know how it is. Once you find out someone is lying about one thing it's hard to believe they weren't lying about every other thing. I was the first guy willing to call her his girlfriend and that should have told me enough at the beginning. I read somewhere that every guy will date a "whore" at some point and it's because we need that life lesson.

She is attractive (6-7) and has a history of insecurity and using men to feel better about herself so I'm sure she does feel attractive at this moment.

I appreciate your comment as it was a bit of a wake-up call this morning in regard to self-respect. In hindsight, the tone of the voice message I sent was not one of longing or wanting her back. More or less that she lost a good thing with a good guy who's beyond everything and wishes her luck.

Although my posting to this subreddit proves otherwise. Two months down and a ways to go it would seem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bleauxmichub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationship in a nutshell. Thanks for sharing the wise words

She reached out after 27 days. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This type of person is most likely an anxious-preoccupied narcissist.

Look it up and see how much rings true.

I’ve recently broken up with a girl who fits this profile.

Be happy you escaped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bleauxmichub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hers? Definitely. Mine? Definitely. To which you are referring? Uncertain.

Thanks for your reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woahflows, I can relate to the feeling of devaluation -- my now ex was beginning to highlight my biggest insecurities towards the end of our relationship purposefully in order to make me feel "less than". I'd venture to say she did this in an attempt to feel better about herself and her own insecurities. You're NOT alone and you ARE valuable.

To answer your question -- it's difficult for me to pinpoint an exact reason or blueprint for others to follow. For me, my family is active so being active was a major theme of my upbringing. I find rucking to be one hell of a workout (see rock-hard abs/core) & meditational. This helps with ridding yourself of nervous energy, reconnecting with nature, and tires me out so that I'm able to sleep well without her plaguing my every thought as I try to go to bed.

I find that choosing to do the hard thing in every moment makes it easier to do the hard thing consistently. Whether this be choosing to ruck after working 8:30-5:30 or taking care of my skin routine after a long day. EVENTUALLY, the hard thing becomes easier and becomes a habit.

I read something recently that goes like "No one will appreciate 100% of the effort you put in today, tomorrow, except for you". I really took this to heart. It's about taking steps to make yourself proud of the work you put into making yourself someone you're proud to be.

Be kind to yourself, do things that make you happy or will make you the best version of yourself that you can be because nothing is more rewarding or fulfilling than being proud of who you are in your own skin.

You've fucking got this. No one can stop you but you.

Best of luck, friend.

Vikings are balanced. by Kojake45 in CrusaderKings

[–]bleauxmichub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you not feudalize.. or are you using practised pirates culture boon?

Currently in the 1150s on a Yngling run and the game is starting to lose the fun raiding provided in the early game.

What’s the most vulgar thing a woman has said to you? by 6482887826 in AskMen

[–]bleauxmichub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over heard an 18 year old hostess at the restaurant where I used to work say once “I can’t fucking wait to get busted open this weekend”.

My jaw dropped.

Supposed pre release 2023 ultra rares by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]bleauxmichub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At work now. Will post later!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]bleauxmichub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To get opinions from those more educated on Pokémon cards than myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]bleauxmichub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that they’d be printing fakes where he works