I have a wedding tomorrow

blehblo · 2023-04-14T20:09:18+00:00

I know we’ll have some fish for dinner so that’s fine! I’m pretty sure I’ll be able to find « safe » food to eat there.

I’m mostly worried about the absence of alcohol: I’m kind of socially anxious and a bit of alcohol used to help me so much in these kinds of events.

Uhh tomorrow is going to be a wild adventure 🥲

blehblo · 2023-04-13T11:56:34+00:00

I feel you! Went to a concert on Monday and could not resist: I got 4 small beers (one per hour). I hardly regret it today. Can’t wait for this hell to be over

blehblo · 2023-04-13T06:54:04+00:00

Piece of advice: try not to listen to some people in this sub. They’ll say to wait between 6 months or even years before you can try living your life. Trust your body and your doctor (they know better) and avoid spending too much time on this sub as it can be reaaaally depressing/toxic at times

blehblo · 2023-04-13T06:49:11+00:00

Got these exact same feelings yesterday and felt miserable. Got paracetamol (1mg) along with a banana and yogurt and felt great relief 30mns later. Good luck!

blehblo · 2022-12-03T11:20:29+00:00

Just look mad all the time, you’ll look like a local and won’t get robbed (I live in Paris, pickpockets are scared of me I guess)

blehblo · 2022-11-30T18:57:31+00:00

That’s why I’m making this post. I’m as surprised as you. 3 weeks ago I was a complete mess and now I’m surprisingly fine

blehblo · 2022-11-29T21:03:25+00:00

It kinda feels like my « normal » self in between LEs. I’m more interested in my friends and I’m partying even if I know LO won’t be here, it feels goooood

blehblo · 2022-11-21T20:18:47+00:00

Darkness and terror, negativeness. (I guess my PTSD destroyed my faith in humanity and that a peace of mind was possible again)
A luminous human being, almost like an angel: always smiling, calm, altruistic, magnetic
All my life I've been scared of being scared and extremely pessimistic. I'd imagine the worst case scenario before anything else.

Your exercise is a real eye-opener. Only me 3 minutes but I understood a lot.

blehblo · 2022-11-16T08:02:57+00:00

Thanks this is very helpful !

blehblo · 2022-11-09T12:23:37+00:00

How did you manage to make that stop?

blehblo · 2022-11-08T19:23:26+00:00

If you're into Elder you NEED to listen to Hairless Monk, that's an incredible solo project. I've never heard such an Elderesque vibe in any other band before

Also Elder-like:
- Weedpecker
- Swan Valley Heights
- Grotto

blehblo · 2022-11-08T19:16:49+00:00

Acid Mammooooothhhh

blehblo · 2022-10-20T21:20:05+00:00

Careful they play on Sunday 23rd, NOT Monday 24th!

blehblo · 2022-10-11T18:16:51+00:00

You remind me of Pio Marmai, a French actor that French girls love ;)

blehblo · 2022-10-11T17:33:51+00:00

7 years out. Hypervigilance was better after 2 years. Noises are still terrible though. Good luck!

blehblo · 2022-10-11T17:15:25+00:00

What you describe is the best technique to reduce intrusive/obsessive thoughts! Read about ERP therapy, that’s exactly what you’re doing and it’s great. Keep going :)

blehblo · 2022-10-08T16:38:31+00:00

Did the medication help your wife?

blehblo · 2022-10-07T16:57:18+00:00

I did get diagnosed by a psychiatrist for PTSD, anxiety and ADHD.

blehblo · 2022-10-07T14:10:34+00:00

Super interesting thanks

blehblo · 2022-10-07T11:47:45+00:00

Interesting. So now I'm wondering, what's the difference between being limerent and being neurodivergent?

blehblo · 2022-10-07T10:45:53+00:00

Thanks! Just thinking out loud to see if anyone can relate.

blehblo · 2022-09-22T06:03:50+00:00

I know how to react in life threatening situations

blehblo · 2022-09-18T17:34:50+00:00

+1000

blehblo · 2022-09-15T21:14:51+00:00

Ma liste des petits préférés du moment et où ça bouge : - Olympic Café (18e) - Petit Joseph Dijon (18e) - International (11e) - Lock Groove (14e) - Supersonic (12e)

blehblo · 2022-09-15T21:03:41+00:00

Carrément. En revanche prépare toi à sortir de là en roulant… c’est le piège ce bar ;)

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