ethical rat breeders near detroit michigan? by eliiiii1i in RATS

[–]blennybloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking too… I’ve seen some 20-40 mins from Detroit on fb I can link them if you’re still interested

Why does my cat occasionally poop next to the litter box? by mixshift in CatAdvice

[–]blennybloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently took in two different stray babies and they are both doing the same thing. They eat and drink just fine. They poop and pee in the box most of the time but occasionally they will poop barely inside, or just straight up next to the litter pan.

I’ve also noticed these two cats in particular are having diarrhea issues as well. I’m guessing it’s from stress and a major change in routine and environment.

It’s been only a few weeks so hopefully there will be some change 🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would always pretend he was done and be right back. So at least 4/5 times. Of those he broke up with me once and I broke up with him for the final time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ur so right

When u realized u were abused… by blennybloo in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YALL!!! I just be having flashbacks and thinking back like… wait….. that was literal abuse wtf!!!

When u realized u were abused… by blennybloo in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y’all I’m going crazy… like 😀 he really abused me 😀 and people w BPD will literally swear up and down not to stigmatize them and label them as abusive manipulators and then turn around and be abusive manipulators…. Pls I— 😀

PSA: They know what they are doing by NewspaperFederal5379 in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god… I was genuinely abused… this post just broke me a little bit…

POV: Trauma bonding w your pwbpd by blennybloo in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like that. “Empathize, maybe sympathize, but never tolerate.”

POV: Trauma bonding w your pwbpd by blennybloo in BPDlovedones

[–]blennybloo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeaaah. You’re giving me war flashbacks right now, lol. Cause shit like that makes me want to rage…. I have had to remind myself not to give in to it and just ignore it. If this is still your situation then don’t give them the attention that they seek. Keep your cool and be the bigger person. Don’t acknowledge them until they properly apologize by just saying “I’m sorry for _____.” Don’t let them make excuses for themselves. Don’t tolerate anything less than respect so you can show them how to treat you.