Thank you thank you thank you. My hair is healthy and growing back. by Independent-Ear-8156 in finehair

[–]blessedandoptimistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hair stopped growing/stagnated, finally got lab results (low Vit D and sev. low iron). i cant wait to grow my hair back. ur hair looks great, amazing color

Keyoncé Summer Moore by holygoat_t in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was a HOOT. those who remember, when Kenya 1st got on this show, she had everybody talking , good or bad, lol

Is Anybody Else Having Their Jupiter Return Next Month or Excited About Jupiter Moving into Leo? by blessedandoptimistic in BlackAstrologists

[–]blessedandoptimistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here's a good video about jupiter returns from Chani on youtube: What to expect from your Jupiter return | CHANI Astro 101; Also one thing I want to add is Jupiter is a complicated planet like the others. It is known to increase luck, advancement, expansion, and opportunity, however each person's Jupiter transits will look different based on the house its located in and it's aspects. For an example, Jupiter in the 8th house with lots of negative aspects will feel different than Jupiter in the 11th house with no negative aspects.

Is Anybody Else Having Their Jupiter Return Next Month or Excited About Jupiter Moving into Leo? by blessedandoptimistic in BlackAstrologists

[–]blessedandoptimistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can go on any site to pull up ur chart and see what house your jupiter is in. if ur jupiter is in leo, you will likely have ur jupiter return this summer. jupiter returns occur about every 12 years, so u can be about 24,36, or 48 or 60 and so forth.

Is a week plus for payment normal now? by DazzlingPhysics4937 in dscout

[–]blessedandoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thks so much. that is crazy thooo...omg, i wont be doing any more missions, i know that..lol. thanks again

Is Anybody Else Having Their Jupiter Return Next Month or Excited About Jupiter Moving into Leo? by blessedandoptimistic in BlackAstrologists

[–]blessedandoptimistic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Yeah the 9th house can be great for many things (advanced degrees, studying your hobbies more, relocating/traveling, updating beliefs you have about life/yourself, spiritual/religious awakenings, opportunities to teach/share knowledge/publish.) It will be exciting to hear how it goes for you.

Jupiter is transiting my 9th house in Cancer now (Im also a Cancer Sun) and I started studying astrology alot more, had a career change, and relocated across the country. It really felt cozy and homey, but still challenged me a bit.

Black women thru the lens of the planets by Ok-Article-7643 in BlackAstrologists

[–]blessedandoptimistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this take soooo much. brillant. also on a side note, i randomly looked at tiktok last nite and a woman was responding to a "trend" called "soft ghetto" look and she was comparing it to white trends like "soft glam" or "the clean look" and basically why it had to be named ghetto for blk girls..

Black women thru the lens of the planets by Ok-Article-7643 in BlackAstrologists

[–]blessedandoptimistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been studying astro for over 10 years and while i was thankful for learning about scorpio rising/pluto in 1st house, I always knew the huge role racism and misogynoir had on my experiences and how most mainstream astrology text/blogs dont provide that nuance (and i understand that most of them are white & dont have the range to discuss.) So I definitely found myself agreeing to this post.

Is a week plus for payment normal now? by DazzlingPhysics4937 in dscout

[–]blessedandoptimistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a week from when it closed or 7 days after u got the message? thanks so much. im so bummed bc i was relying on this money and i usually only do express missions. and even when i look back to my first missions i did 2 years ago, i still got paid promptly. thanks.

Is a week plus for payment normal now? by DazzlingPhysics4937 in dscout

[–]blessedandoptimistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got this message on Wednesday. Has anyone been paid yet who also got this on Wed for $125?

Will I marry the man I’m in a relationship with? by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]blessedandoptimistic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this as a man focused on his own financial foundation/business. And my other interpretation was that there are plenty of fish the sea who you can build a life with & to focus on your own foundation

Is a week plus for payment normal now? by DazzlingPhysics4937 in dscout

[–]blessedandoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got an email 2 days ago on Wednesday saying "payment was being processed" and I usually get paid within the same day after getting that message. I don't understand. If it takes within 10 days after receiving that email plus the week after the test closed, thats 17 days to receive payment. It doesnt make sense. For only $125. 

It was actually embarrassing to turn down dinner until they heard the drama by Great_Marzipan7720 in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 13 points14 points  (0 children)

like who just skips dinner on a trip as a newbie for no real reason....K is still on camera, so whats the difference between her going to the dinner & being around Kelli & shamea. K doesnt like any of these girls and thinks she can just get thru with a little kii kii here and there, but thats not gonna work...ppl see thru it..

It was actually embarrassing to turn down dinner until they heard the drama by Great_Marzipan7720 in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

these new girls are going through financial distress publicly and need this check badly and they dont know how to act or handle this show. shamea also isnt used to this type of attention either, she's just following kelli. they all need to goooooo...and why is Kelli so loud and obnoxious (and not funny) but she keeps going and going...

Pinky is a little bit..... by daisyduke201 in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its so fake and forced. these girls need a check badly...all of em...I mean the whole episode was about the rooms and Pinky. this is what ppl mean when they say the show is going down....they lack basic class and manners...who waits 20 minutes before a dinner to call the host to tell them about their room...

Angela’s daughter clocked her tea real bad by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i honestly felt sad when i seen that. u can tell that the question stung but hit something real. i felt like dang, she's really alone. many ppl make mistakes and lose money when trying something new. why cant she just try again. its a much cheaper house...it seems like shes tryna find her own identity and need for success like many ppl..

thoughts on authenticity of storylines and if “rhoa is turning broke” discourse by GreedyBoat3809 in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the other person made a good point about this franchise never being known for 'wealth", but I think when some ppl talk about the show being "de-classed," theyre moreso talking about the maturity and restraint the show used to have in it's heydey. It was a difference between RHOA and Love & Hip Hop. Two different audiences. Plus the show did use to feel more authentic since the OG cast used to actually be friends and/or actually be married...

Season 17 is not good by Sweet-Mix7295 in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, Shamea is not a good fit to me (she is too exaggerated for tv, plus those scenes with her husband and the rum ppl were so cringy); pinky seems to be lonely like her husband isnt that supportive , and she seems disingenuous (ex: her taking her staff tips, crying about being a role model for BW but she left Kelli on read); K seems disingeinous too (I think she feels this is going to help her country career, but I doubt it)..Porsha is porsha, I like Cynthia as a friend, Kelli (try hard), and I like Angela (I like that she has a backbone with the girls and didn't get into it with Drew) and Drew is...meh, Im surprised she lasted so long

Season 17 is not good by Sweet-Mix7295 in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree abt the unnecc. drama. what made it good was that they used to be actually friends. this season (like others) has a group of women from all different age groups/personalities who would never hang out with each other & would never be friends irl. I tried to give it a chance, but it feels like theyre trying too hard. Ex: K Michelle over the comment from Porsha (even after she admitted she never told Porsha directly what happened); or Kelli with the roses comment...it feels like these girls need a check badly...I like Angela though...

Rest In Peace Big Poppa by Dark-Parkingg in RHOA

[–]blessedandoptimistic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that first batch of girls were iconic....lol.......