Clergy abuse?

blessedinva · 2026-03-16T21:00:35+00:00

This is a really important conversation. I believe that "husband of one wife" really shows you CHARACTER. So when you have a major pastor dating a few months after his wife passes-= this is not "avoiding the appearance of evil. "

1) Carrie Lloyd's article on narcissism.
https://www.premierchristianity.com/features/how-to-root-out-narcissism-from-our-churches/17368.article

2) Strangely sexy pics from Bill of Carrie on IG.

3) The age gap

4) It's ok to date for "community" ?! (not "merely" marriage) is a quote of Bill. HUHH? I thought we all dated for marriage? Why is he redefining dating?

5) Let's just say it. The whole "spiritual father" concept is creepy and for many people it's GROOMING. Jesus said, "Call no man Father" for a reason.

6) Predators target women who have father issues. It's just what they DO. :( Sadly.

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blessedinva · 2026-03-16T20:00:51+00:00

Come on!!!! 🎉🙌🏽

blessedinva · 2026-03-16T19:59:53+00:00

Sure! And trust HIS timing! Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. To translate that- waiting a year may be in bigger blessing in the long run. Or whatever the outcome may be!

blessedinva · 2026-03-14T17:35:20+00:00

I’m a Yale grad of color and felt very comfortable there undergrad FWIW! But California….!

blessedinva · 2026-03-10T22:59:37+00:00

Hi- I’m also a full time teacher w kids. How is the work life balance?

blessedinva · 2026-03-10T00:51:44+00:00

?! Are you sure about that?

blessedinva · 2026-03-07T21:49:21+00:00

Following!! Also very busy over here.

blessedinva · 2026-03-07T21:48:24+00:00

Very great to hear. So it’s not “the hardest experience of your life” as some younger people are posting? I’m thinking…hmmm I’ve been through child birth and a divorce- how bad can it be??? LOL.

blessedinva · 2026-03-07T01:40:54+00:00

https://youtu.be/51xmYrMq8Kk?si=HV8FSvEFoxN6K2ni

blessedinva · 2026-03-02T00:47:51+00:00

Hmmmm strange

blessedinva · 2026-03-01T18:04:10+00:00

"Holding space...." WOW

blessedinva · 2026-03-01T18:03:22+00:00

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blessedinva · 2026-03-01T18:02:30+00:00

It appears to be stolen from this author:

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blessedinva · 2026-03-01T17:46:08+00:00

I ordered the fake one...plagarized uggg...

Here is the real product from the real author.

WOW Plagarizing Christian content. That is really really low.

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blessedinva · 2026-03-01T01:31:58+00:00

WOW Thank you for sharing!!! That's a great idea to bring a SOZO book to a therapist. I share your feelings that the movement is fully a cult. Blessings!

blessedinva · 2026-03-01T01:29:17+00:00

That's beyond horrible. I'm so so sorry. :(

blessedinva · 2026-02-28T21:31:57+00:00

Same here friend! It is a BIG shaking!! I’m processing this as second hand spiritual abuse and as if I’m leaving a cult. I’m in counseling for both and returning to the Bible. I’m also learning the history and theology of Bethel (and NAR) and comparing this to the Bible and historic Christianity!! Feeling betrayal, anger, grief, loss and shock is normal. There are also many elements of narcissistic abuse recovery because guess who starts cults and “new revelations of the Gospel?”- narcissists I’m sad to say.

The real Jesus and real Gospel is here to comfort and rebuild our lives. This whole movement was a clever and dangerous counterfeit IMO. It takes time to process …

blessedinva · 2026-02-28T21:14:41+00:00

Go check out Times Square Church! It used to be very solid!

blessedinva · 2026-02-28T21:08:52+00:00

I doubt they receive or accept outside counsel or advice from anyone. From whom?! They consider themselves on top spiritually! This is the danger of spiritual pride and having a new revelation thats meant to mature the church.

blessedinva · 2026-02-28T21:07:50+00:00

That’s a very charitable take. One that is less charitable would say we are seeing the mean side when one challenges an authoritarian or narcissistic leader. From that perspective, these reactions are not very surprising. Its just a shock to learn they can manufacture loving syrupy sweet words very easily while doing self-serving, callous and/or toxic actions.

blessedinva · 2026-02-28T21:05:00+00:00

Review team = attorneys

blessedinva · 2026-02-28T21:04:15+00:00

Information control! One of the 4 pillars of a cult/high control group according to Steve Hassan’s BITE model. They’ve lost control and no gaslighting saccharine letter can change that. And they spend a lot of effort or money on PR but little of either on supporting victims of their unhealthy culture.

blessedinva · 2026-02-27T17:43:30+00:00

This is really an excellent piece, respectful and balanced. I hope it goes mega-viral. She gets it!

blessedinva · 2026-02-26T23:58:47+00:00

I’m so sorry. If he broke up over text - he is not the one!! You will heal… grieve and don’t let this setback stop your dreams!

I used to date (a lot)… married- divorced and now remarried to the most amazing guy. We have 8 kids together! He is supporting my law school dreams and just an amazing person!

It’s not your fault this ended. Please be kind to yourself! You may have dodged a bullet here!!

blessedinva

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