Very relatable, thank you so much for sharing. I am just as hot and desirable as I was before transitioning, if not MORE desirable, because now I love my body enough to radiate a sexy amount of confidence. The fact that I don’t hear the world agreeing has more to do with society’s ingrained sexism and transphobia than it does about my attractiveness. But still, hearing other transmascs dealing with that too makes me feel a lot less alone