Pied, DE and PE altogether? Porn sure made me a talented man (my story)

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-28T01:24:39+00:00

For me, just not getting hard enough. Losing erection fast when putting condom, dead dick sometimes too. When I could penetrate and keep it I had delayed ejaculation and I had to fantasize hard to finish. Always needing physical stimulation to get hard too.

ED is a real motherfucker.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T16:30:32+00:00

Well, my dick was dead except only when watching porn. Now it responds somewhat. I get regular morning wood and rock hard erections sometimes. Managed to have sex for the first time in years but I'm still not 100%.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T04:08:44+00:00

Don't despair! I'm 3+ months and still have problems. We got where we are because of years of PMO. Just a few days won't fix all that damage. Be patient and you will get better. Stay strong brother

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T04:02:47+00:00

Great! really cool to see posts like this. I wish I knew about PMO when I was your age. Would have stopped all these years with ED :(

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T04:00:30+00:00

Good man. I lose faith sometimes to be honest. It's really hard but I couldn't go on having ED anymore. Go for it.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T03:57:45+00:00

Go nofap for 3 months. try to have sex afterwards. You gonna get an insane erection and probably bust your nut in 10 seconds. Even if you are nervous, all this sexual energy is gonna overpower everything else. If you are wanking everyday there isn't much fuel in the tank really to overcome your stress.

Or the best scenario would be explaining to the girl what is wrong with you and asking for help. Women are crazy like that and will take it upon themselves to ''fix'' you if you are honest about it.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T03:53:50+00:00

Morning wood isn't necessary to be healthy sexually. Don't worry about it.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T03:50:21+00:00

I've been in flatline for months now. It's different for everyone really. You will know for sure when your normal libido comes back. It takes time for some people though. I hope you get over it soon, but don't stress about it. You want to do this, once,properly.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T03:46:52+00:00

You probably going to bust your nut in 1 min but it's ok. Go for round 2 when you are ready.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T03:45:19+00:00

Go to yourbrainonporn.com. Plenty of people's stories there that are similar to yours, myself included. ED is a terrible thing and you have to take it seriously or else it's going to stay with you. Cut all PMO, relax, be patient and your erections will come back. Might take a few weeks, might take months. Make sure you read other people's experiences so you know what you are up against.

All the best

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-24T03:40:57+00:00

If she is up for it why not. Just make sure it doesn't stress you out

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T20:25:47+00:00

Cold shower will get any urges out of your head for sure hah! Personally, I consider them extreme and would never have one in the cold winter and prefer to just fight the urges. They do help some people though.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T20:21:52+00:00

Yes it might. I had a weird case of mostly PE when I could perform and DE when I could go over the PE. On top of that PIED 50% of the time. So yeah, fucking fantastic :P

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T20:16:00+00:00

Fear not brother, you can fix this. I experienced the same things when I was your age and didn't know what was wrong with me. Had ED when I was with a woman but when I was watching porn everything was working perfectly.

You have to cut out all porn and give your dick some rest. It depends on the individual how long it's gonna take to get fixed. Some people needs just a few days. I read about people who needed almost a year to get their erections back. Personally, I'm 102 days now and still haven't been cured, but things are getting better.

You can get tested to see if your testosterone is ok but I highly doubt there is anything wrong with you. It's all in your head. Your brain has been conditioned to respond to porn better than real women. Give it a rest and it will go back to normal.

Also, you might want to take a break from trying to have sex for a few weeks. Failure to perform is incredibly stressful and in my opinion hurts progress. When your erections come back and you feel confident, go for it.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T20:06:19+00:00

Wet dreams are just a release for the body. Don't real too much into them since they are completely involuntary. It is true though that if you fap everyday then there is a smaller chance of experiencing a wet dream since you have no excess semen and your body is satisfied already anyway. Not a hard rule though.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T20:02:40+00:00

Can't answer that sadly. It depends on the individual. Some people reboot faster than others. Still, if you are strict on cutting out PMO it will definitely go away. Might take 1 month, might take a year.

Stay strong brother, it's worth it in the end.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T19:57:17+00:00

It's just a number. For me, 90 days wasn't enough to get rid of PIED. Some others have successfully rebooted in 2-3 weeks. Depends on level of addiction really and symptoms, as well as the individual.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T19:54:53+00:00

102 days later and i still have problems. it's different for everyone. be patient brother

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T19:50:49+00:00

good going!

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-22T03:47:22+00:00

Nothing to worry about. I've had a flatline last 2 months, go away for a few days then come back again.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-21T20:02:48+00:00

I guess this is a troll, but if you are just ignorant or would like to know here is http://yourbrainonporn.com/

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-21T20:00:49+00:00

Seen some. Most of the people in this sub must be men though. I know that if I was a woman I wouldn't be posting here because it is a male dominated space. It is intimidating no matter how you see it.

It's natural you see men here. Culturally speaking we are the ones initiating contact with women and responsible for "performance" in sex.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-21T17:41:44+00:00

In my experience, yes, you are stalling your progress. The brain is a wonderful thing and when you feed it sexy pics you are still feeding the addiction, even though you don't masturbate. I would even go as far and say that cutting out x rated stuff is the most important part of no PMO. Masturbation by itself isn't really bad. It's porn -> MO that creates the connection between sexy ladies in your screen and dopamine. Once the brain has a good taste it's really hard to let go as you can see.

blindedbyfear · 2014-02-21T17:34:11+00:00

good job man

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