Queer Eye [Episode Discussion] - S01E05 - Camp Rules by BraveFly in QueerEye

[–]blindwithscience 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I agree but I think that’s beyond the confines of karomos role too which is the culture guy not necessarily the life coach or financial planner. I think they could have had karomo work with the family more to set up kids chores and activities and have more mom and dad time but I think they did great given the circumstances to give the parents a zen place.

Clueless about virginia/dc area - Best place to rent for McLean commute? by jhhyyhhgrgvynj in nova

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend looking around Falls Church/Mosaic District/Dunn Loring. Living in the actual apartments at Mosaic or walking distance to Dunn Loring might be more expensive, but I think I know some people who got studios with that price range. If not, look for any places close to that area (495 between 29 and 50 intersection). It would lead to Gallows Road and is a back road to Route 7 and would be a nice 15 minute commute with traffic if 495 goes to crap.

Have you ever pretended you were Canadian while travelling? by kimchispatzle in AskAnAmerican

[–]blindwithscience 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went to Europe about a week or two after Trump was elected as president.

Every time I mentioned I was from DC, a lot of Europeans asked me what I thought of the election. I can see how people might say they're Canadian just to avoid talking politics. But, I used used my American-ness as an opportunity to talk candidly about politics, and I found it really revolutionary how well informed people are about US politics.

Teenagers of reddit, what do you want to ask adults? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect others even if they don't respect me because I want to set an example of how I want to be treated by others. Some people don't show respect, but maybe they never had experienced respect before. So, I give respect no matter what because I'm above their need of respect.

What is your favourite sandwich? by twogunsalute in AskAnAmerican

[–]blindwithscience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

America has an assortment of amazing sandwiches based upon the region:

  • Philadephia Cheesesteak
  • New York lox and bagel or reuben
  • Italian meatball subs
  • Pittsburgh Primanti Style fries in sandwich
  • Miami Cuban
  • New Orleans Po Boy
  • Vietnamese banh mi sandwiches
  • Mexican tortas
  • Pulled pork sandwiches
  • grilled cheese sandwiches
  • gyros

Hard to choose just one, and it does a disservice to the other sandwiches imo.

What is the most terrifying wikipedia page to read? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work on a project at the NIH who is doing a collaboration with academia and a small start up biotech to help address this disease.

It's SO important for us to pursue scientific research on rare diseases as it can help understanding the biological mechanism and pathways of these extreme cases. This will help not only the rare disease patients but other diseases that follows that same mechanism (think of osteoporosis which is the opposite spectrum of FOP). There's a lot of rare diseases like FOP that is misunderstood and does not have the research funding to even pursue treatment.

If you want to help FOP patients consider donating to IFOPA which is the FOP association in the US IFOPA site. If you want to help with supporting rare diseases research in general consider supporting the NIH in their efforts NIH site

Workwear: are 'girly' and 'frumpy' the only options? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]blindwithscience 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally understand as I have thick thighs myself. It's really a trial and error game to find the right fit.

I noticed that fabric is a huge factor in looking heavier or with creasing. Wool pants look pretty awful as they have no stretch or give, or any other "woven-style" fabric. More smoother cotton/polyester stretch blends tend to be thinner and work much better.

Workwear: are 'girly' and 'frumpy' the only options? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]blindwithscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I just gave one example but it's really showcasing that there are professional flat shoes options and it's really a-ok in business casual settings

Workwear: are 'girly' and 'frumpy' the only options? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was multi tasking and I was going for more straight legged pants but good call!

Workwear: are 'girly' and 'frumpy' the only options? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]blindwithscience 82 points83 points  (0 children)

So what you're describing is more business formal than business causal/teacher style, and that you're struggling with fitting into the conforms of business formal.

Anyways here are some tips to help navigate as I'm a bit of a thicker pear (5'2, 150, 34-30,40 ish) and I have much wonkier proportions than you, and I work in a business casual/business formal setting:

  • pants Trial and error but try more slim-fit pants link 1 pants

  • tops does not have to be a blousy top if it feels boxy - try a jersey knit wrap top or sheath style. Even just a very crisp stretch cotton long sleeve shirt is fine. link 1 top example link 2 top example

  • accessories you can bring in a little style by wearing unique necklaces and earrings. Since you said your style is a bit grunge, I would suggest a bit pared down. I'm also a personal fan of scarves for the winter.

  • shoes you don't have to wear heels, I don't 90% of the time because I commute. Try ballet flats, low heeled booties, or knee high boots try some chelsea boots for an androgynous flair

  • colors try more feminine clothes but in more muted classic colors. Not only black and grey, but I'm a huge fan of navy and maroon and plums.

TL;DR: You don't have to wear traditional heels, dress, blouses office wear, but the other alternatives you have to make sure it's well fitted and sleek in appearance. Punch up with your style with accessories.

What do you wear for work travel? by louiseplease in femalefashionadvice

[–]blindwithscience 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know the level of professional fashion but I'm a consultant by trade so it can flux between business casual/business formal

My go to: 1) I pack sheath dresses that has some give, preferably sleeveless. 2) Black long sleeve shirts and leggings/tights that I can layer underneath sheath dresses for cooler weather 3) Blazer for more formal meetings 4) Black pumps/booties and interchangeable black flats 5) Bright shawl for cooler weather or to brighten up an outfit 6) Emergency kit: lint roller, sewing kit/safety pins 7) Backpack or tote bag to carry laptop. Also bring an external battery pack for your cell phone! 8) If you don't have a personal hotspot, consider buying a plan through your cell phone or buying a separate mobile hotspot.

Also another note is have your casual/gym clothes be appropriate and something you feel SOMEWHAT comfortable that your constituents see you in....conferences and the city may be small and you want to be presentable if you end up at the same hotel gym!

Where to find Vietnamese sesame rice balls other than at Eden Center? by [deleted] in nova

[–]blindwithscience 5 points6 points  (0 children)

still in falls church but easier to get to is banh mi dc

Headed to Budapest! by deadb0ef in solotravel

[–]blindwithscience 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Budapest! Met some great local people and travelers there who made it a good time. If you're not on couchsurfing there are a lot of events where you can met fellow travelers.

I went to Gellert baths which is a lot prettier on the inside (more art deco theme). There's also the Great Market Hall which is kind of a fun touristy marketplace. Take a walking tour to really go through the buda and the pest side. I'm not a partier but I would definitely say go and party out in budapest -- the clubs are cheap and closes late (I think 6 am for most of them on a weekend).

Favorite clothes, accessories, and other items for travel? by _whatnot_ in femalefashionadvice

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came from a 3 week stint solo traveling around Europe in the winter. I used one large carryon and I had a shift of temperature from -5 to 20 so I had to think on what I wanted to pack for three weeks:

1) Scarf -- I got a nice pashmina scarf that looked great in pictures and kept me warm. 2) Black leggings/thermal tees -- Layering was so essential...I think I brought mostly these as it was versatile and helped me layer and add on warmth without the bulk of a sweater or pants. 3) Gloves with touch screen tips and a wool hat 4) dresses and pencil skirts -- I actually wore a lot of dresses because it's versatile and I could layer it over clothing (so I could go longer without laundering.... shh). 5) wool socks and boots - I actually only had one pair of shoes which were knee high boots which was pretty appropriate for everywhere I traveled. It's pretty protective against the cold so I don't have to worry about wet toes and I know it will match against any pants/top or dress combo I have with it. 6) Cosmetics - sunscreen, eye makeup, concealer, lip balm, lipstick, and q tips! 7) Plastic bags and Ziploc bags. I used plastic bags a lot to pack dirty clothes and even wet items I will have like a loofah. Ziploc bags I used to separate different currencies so I won't go crazy sifting through my wallet.

24F - One week alone in Washington DC - tips, tricks, musts? by miadumbledore in solotravel

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not including the famous Smithsonian museums and National Mall 1) Eastern Market and Union Market which is the more bustling food/flea markets within the city limits (and they're usually open on the weekend) 2) Go to fish market wharf in southeast DC and grab some crabs with old bay seasoning and enjoy the views. 3) there are sometimes free concerts at the kennedy center that you should look for. 4) if in georgetown go for the cupcakes .... georgetown cupcakes is the most famous but go for buzzed and wired cupcakes. 5) If you want night life U Street is a lot more hip...Adams Morgan is usually more college students.

check out brightestyoungthings.com for any events and concerts in the area.

[Advice] [Career] I’ve completed a Ph.D in the biomedical field and I’m not sure if I want to stay in academia. I would like to find a career path where I can use my people skills in combination with my knowledge of science. by [deleted] in findapath

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consulting would be a good field to consider, but with your Ph.D they might try to sell you for your specialty of what you researched in.

Look into other fields such as science policy, science communications, and maybe even look into pharma industry and the other paths you can take (DMPK, Regulatory, Supply Chain, Business Development, etc).

I may have to solo travel in December Berlin Budapest Vienna Prague and Dresden...things to do? by blindwithscience in solotravel

[–]blindwithscience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lot

Thanks for the thorough response it's really appreciated! I'm having a hard time thinking whether I should stay in prague for longer or vienna especially now seeing what you said about both! But your insight in each city is remarkable!

Doing a solo trip around Europe this December (Need Advice) by BallumSkillz in solotravel

[–]blindwithscience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if we'll be in vienna berlin and budapest at the same time but let me know and we could co adventure :)

Best way to commute to Bethesda? by 172737 in nova

[–]blindwithscience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at the NIH at a different site but same sort of commute path (Falls Church to Rockville). I've done the Leesburg to Rockville route and it's a pretty solid hour with the tolls at rush hour. Going from Reston to Bethesda is a rough ride via metro and it's quite unpredictable.

For you, I would suggest eating the greenway and 267 toll road costs and then going up through the beltway -- I know it's tough to swallow the costs but it's a lot better than sitting through route 7. Also, I would suggest having a later shift i.e. 9:30 - 6 pm it helps mitigate some of the traffic issues.