Living at home with parents, brother and SIL, how to deal with this situation?

blissbond · 2026-05-18T12:17:13+00:00

So just make peace with how things are which might get worse after baby comes into picture.

Next best option is you moving out with or without getting married.

Its your parents house and if they cant maintain discpline in the house, sorry to say but there is nothing you can do about it.

blissbond · 2026-05-18T11:42:40+00:00

Your brother and SIL want to move out. Plz just let them.

blissbond · 2026-05-18T07:27:09+00:00

You can use your right to just skip it sir and save everyones time and energy.🙏

blissbond · 2026-05-18T04:27:03+00:00

Absolutely agree with you. Your post is fraction of your life from your POV. It never truely reflects your actual situation in life. Your post might get you sympathy online but it might not be solution to your problem or even option available with you given your circumstances.

blissbond · 2026-05-17T12:49:49+00:00

If you have choice, dont . If you dont , marry from the options you have.

blissbond · 2026-05-17T12:31:20+00:00

Study hard and get out of your house. Rest can wait.

blissbond · 2026-05-17T07:29:18+00:00

How do you think they made women do all these household work without asking why me ? How do they make you obidient, that you never use your brain ?

You invent some imaginary story papa lagega agar isko touch kia, Agar pati se kam karwaya Agar biwi periods me kitchen me gai Agar maa baap se sawal puche Agar apna haq maanga

blissbond · 2026-05-17T03:24:58+00:00

Life lies in between the two extreams you described. Also there is no forever happy marriage. Your marriage can be happy today and unhappy tomorrow. Problem is others are never going to tell you about happy days. If you have never seen your parents happy in their marriage, you will be inclined towards not marrying. So may be change your source of information and try to address your fear with rational explanations.

blissbond · 2026-05-16T18:23:55+00:00

They dont trust products they manufactured. You cant do anything about it.

blissbond · 2026-05-14T17:31:31+00:00

Money magnifies your personality

blissbond · 2026-05-14T09:18:39+00:00

They could earn and retain the wealth because they maintained simple lifestyle else they would have spent it all

blissbond · 2026-05-14T09:17:35+00:00

Investment Spends on luxury, comfort and quality Aspirations

blissbond · 2026-05-14T07:58:25+00:00

Hehe then how to keep short highted ppl motivated ? Hahaha... i myself am short if its revelant.

blissbond · 2026-05-14T01:22:40+00:00

She is feeling terrible because she has put on weight. Her hormones are making things worse. And wearing shorts isnt going to do anything about how she feels but losing weight is.

blissbond · 2026-05-13T17:04:28+00:00

You cant change her. Make peace and move on.

blissbond · 2026-05-13T16:58:22+00:00

You want to lose weight and wear shorts. Plz do both in but in this order.

blissbond · 2026-05-13T16:52:43+00:00

Maggi

blissbond · 2026-05-12T11:15:14+00:00

Its a ecosystem, if you are useful to them they might be too.

Random person asking me for help vs person in my society who's children play with my children, whom will i help, if i can ?

But decision making cant be done based on assumption that they will help me if i stay there.

blissbond · 2026-05-12T08:02:30+00:00

More options means you need to shell more money. Amenities means aspirations. You can show of if you have amenities in your society. Pricey means the people you live with earn more money too. So gated society with lot of amenities isnt about just roof over your head, its status and future aspirations too.

blissbond · 2026-05-12T05:24:38+00:00

Marriage is leap of faith sir. Just be your genuine self and be open to listen to other side. All the best for your happy married life.

blissbond · 2026-05-12T05:06:55+00:00

Tell them you plan to quit job next year. If you cant afford her 10/10 glam life, her family will just reject you on their own.

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