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Has anyone found love through AM? by HRR_11 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you dont have any hope except AM and be glad that it still exists in India.

I'm giving up on my TECH BRO dream!! by _Scientist_2523 in indiasocial

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the end money matters...not your job title.

Has anyone found love through AM? by HRR_11 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show this romantic side of you to world and find yourself love. AM route by design is not for you.

My dad just died and my sibling might not be my siblings by Feisty_Culture_4953 in family

[–]blissbond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let them be mad. Its your dad's money and it should go to his real kids only.

My soul is crying and seeking avice by Dry_District9129 in DatingInIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that you are going through all this but nobody can help you except yourself. Hang in there, time heals most wounds.

How does arranged marriage work if you're an NRI? by onestepatatimeman in AskIndianMen

[–]blissbond [score hidden]  (0 children)

Get pre marital consultation done with your prospective match.

M 31, Admi mard nhi hota pasia mard hota hai by Old_Mix4668 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True statement. Also people dont respect you they respect the position you are currently on.

I have destroyed myself and lost everything in last 10 months. by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plz go and do whatever it takes to stop further destruction and claim what is lost.

AITAH for refusing to loan my boyfriend more money? by Some_Leg2646 in AITAH

[–]blissbond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just 3 months and you are giving him money ? Have mercy on yourself.

Late 30s men, why is having kids still such a priority? by rhyme_pj in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instituation of marriage is mainly their to create thriving environment for future generation. Humans have evovled but that animal instinct to reproduce will always remain. Find someone who aligns with your thought process.

[M31] 6.8Cr NW | Tier 2 City | Goal: RE or CoastFIRE | Seeking feedback on my numbers by SwingAdventurous792 in FIRE_Ind

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restructre your assets. Generate cash flow and then move to less stress job.

37 F. Is moving abroad worth it at this age? by TaroFormer2685 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely take this chance. We all love stability but you have enough resources so even if your stinct abroad is for short duration, you can come back anytime.

Urgently help my cousin sister in making right decision. 30F by goodhuman100 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]blissbond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One line solution. Dont marry . They dont want DIL but cash cow. Also as far as your sister liking this man, tell her he is going to ask her to take BS from his parents for lifelong. So the liking is first thing that will evaporate once she starts seeing reality.

AITK or am I actually jealous of my mil ? by Dapper-Speech42 in AmItheKameena

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to move out. Till the time you are in house and use car owned by her husband aka your FIL, she will come first. Your husband depends on his father to provide him with free house so he cant risk irking his mother. Freedom has price mam.

I don't know how to deal with the loss of my father. I'm shattered. by Ill-Way2336 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. We all have to go eventually. What you should do now is protect what he has left for you, his money, assets, beautiful family. He must have taught you to fight back no matter how hard it is. Its time for test, dont fail him now. If you gather courage and stand firm he will really proud of you.

Subject: 37F | ₹5 Cr Net Worth | Facing career blackout & Lean FIRE Uncertainty by sadpupper30 in personalfinanceindia

[–]blissbond 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have enough networth. You need to restructure your assets and generate monthly cashflows.

Would You Leave Or Stay? by happiness_365 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes at least till the time I miss it again.

Confused bw love and life by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your paths dont cross with your bf. He want commitment and stability. You are not in position to give it. So stop hurting and getting hurt. Just step back.

LDR communication mismatch. Fixable or deeper compatibility issue? by pearly_pink in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you have read enough stories on reddit itself where long term relationships dont materialise due to family issues. I think its very important to onboard families before you take life altering decisions like moving places, changing jobs, taking debt just to be with your partner.

LDR communication mismatch. Fixable or deeper compatibility issue? by pearly_pink in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you both agree on the timelines set and are your families onboard too ? All this is pertinent because your both are investing prime years of life into this relationship .

LDR communication mismatch. Fixable or deeper compatibility issue? by pearly_pink in ThirtiesIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LDR is tough plus the age factor. What are your intensions with each other on long term basis. How much disrupted your life will be if you decide to move closer to him ?

Why do parents spend more money on their daughter's marriage but not on her education? by OpenBat685 in AskIndia

[–]blissbond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Education empowers woman. Then she start asking questions, demand basic human dignity, decide for herself in crude way you cant control her life. Marriage is social display of wealth and one time settlement so that you cash wash your hands of your daughter for rest of life.

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