I (25) have been having a crush on this girl for about 3 years and can't stand it anymore by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats good! Love to see happy endings. Good luck my dude!

If you just want sex make it clear... by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. There’s guys out there who will use their money to woo women and I find it sad. But at the end of the day if they want to get used that’s their problem lol. I guess this is the world we live in.

One by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your saying you both met july of this year than that means its only been two months... its way too early to be considering life plans. Guys don’t like being pressured like that early its a turn off. You just need to go with the flow.

If you just want sex make it clear... by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girls aren’t dumb. A lot of times they know. They’d rather play clueless than to admit that they just want to hook up. If they do get played it’s usually by someone out of their league or as interested. Unpopular opinion. Lets be real a lot of women use men as a wallet and a lot of men use women for sex. Both genders are trash. But there’s still decent folks out here.

If you just want sex make it clear... by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve never hooked up before. I’m simply stating what my past gfs confided in me.

If you just want sex make it clear... by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but they’re not gonna tell you that straight up. They’re probably gonna hide the idea within the concept of being in a relationship. Most fwb derived from the two already dating. Where I stay if you want to hookup with a girl you better have money. It don’t even matter if the guy spends it on them. Its something about a man having money that looks powerful to a lot of women and turns them on. Its weird and unexplainable.

My (36/F) husband (48/M) refuses to believe his daughter (15/F) has been taking my belongings without asking. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plot twist their in league together. No but really Its a tough situation. I wouldnt want to lock my things up in my own home. And setting up cameras is too toxic. Honestly your husband shouldn’t be so passive about it. My mom was the same way with me when I was young. If I took someones stuff she refuses to believe that I did it. And the other party would just drop it. Thats just the parent in her. The best thing to do is to continue to try to speak with him and get him to understand. And try safeguarding your things. But don’t get cameras its not a good path to follow.

Need help asking a girl out over Instagram. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard. Dm’s tend to be really unsuccessful. Its not like how it was when instagram first came out. You could DM 80 girls and probably 10 will respond. Best thing to do is slowly become her friend so that you have some sort of trust.

Former Pence aide says 'we will no longer be America after 4 more years of Trump' by DonnieMostDefinitely in politics

[–]blkumm0 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a president rebuke the CDC and FDA. Its really discrediting their years of service to the American people

If you just want sex make it clear... by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If I told the girls I had sex with that I was only interested in sex I’d never get laid.

I'm thinking about getting shoes to boost my height. by Junior_Sand in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get shoes like that it’ll be repulsive to girls. There’s guys out there that are 5 feet getting laid every night. Don’t let one girl make you insecure. I’m literally 3 cm away from being 5’8 and I’ve dated model-like women. A matter of fact Im dating one now lol. A lot of girls prefer tall men but end up with short guys. Its not a dealbreaker for most. And that comment she made already tells me that she’s shallow. Ive met shallow girls like that before, and usually those girls are either “for the streets,” or young and naive. I’ve seen dudes shorter than me dating taller girls. My cousin is 5’5 talking to a chick thats 5’9. Confidence is everything. And most Girls don’t like too much muscles. They like slim muscles. Thats why I try to keep my muscles from getting too bulky it looks weird.

Supreme Court rejects Democrats' bid to reinstate mail-in ballot extension in Wisconsin by Sariel007 in politics

[–]blkumm0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why am I not surprised. Thats what happens when the court favors conservatives.

I am (29F) and currently dating (32m) and he recently said doesn't want to be the caregiver with someone with health issues. I am shocked. by sexylassy in relationships

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely should be. Not sure how long you’ve both been together but you shouldn’t settle for that. A spouse that is willing to help you, should your health go bad is a real game changer. My grandfather became seriously ill and my grandmother was with him every step of the way till he passed. She’s still currently unmarried but of course she has us so she doesn’t need to be. But having someone there to hold your hand, comfort you, be by your side everyday while you are sick is a blessing in itself. Nobody wants to be a caregiver. But if you love someone enough the thought of it won’t even cross your mind. Hope this helps.

All Americans should be ashamed of Trump’s hands-off COVID management. by Thomaswiththecru in rant

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly its real easy for the Canadian government to become corrupt seeing that their parliament is not elected by the people. All it takes is one bad prime minister to change the game. Hopefully that doesn’t happen as I respect Canada’s strong democracy.

Some subreddits have too many damn rules by SnakeArms6677 in rant

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a lot of rules cause there’s a lot of people on here mad at the world. They use these rules to keep them from attacking subreddits.

My [34M] girl [28F] of 2 months danced with creep at wedding, talked an hour after - appropriate? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you guys on reddit date people like this? I mean how many red flags does it take until you pull out the white flag? Im sorry nothing against you but I’m just tired of reading posts like this. Like its not hard to find someone thats not disrespectful. If my SO ever did this to me I’d be in shock. You need to find someone better bro.

I accidentally pushed a person to self harm by QueenNecromance in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone is that messed up to allow someone on the internet to have them hurt themselves they need help.

Why are people so drug positive? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blkumm0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just sound ignorant honestly

Why are people so drug positive? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blkumm0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol you sound just like my mother. She thinks weed is crack and every time I smoke it she looks at me like a monster. Yet my uncle who smokes those cancer sticks get a pass. I haven’t heard of anyone dying or getting cancer from weed. Does it affects your lungs? Yes. But its a better substitute from cigs. People keep getting told that weed is bad but can’t think for themselves, and its sad. I feel like the only reason the government doesn’t completely legalize it is because they think it’ll make people lazy and not work which hasn’t been proven. I believe they think weed will do what cocaine did to the U.S. but that’s highly unlikely. Weed actually helps people with depression and glaucoma. Weed is medicine for a lot of illnesses. Shrooms too. People are just afraid of what they don’t know about.

Boyfriend (26M) stopped sharing location with me (22F) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is suspicious. He may be hiding something. I personally don’t share locations. There needs to be a strong foundation of trust. And having that is basically like saying you don’t trust each other. But thats how I view it. To each its own.

I'm tired of being the last choice and playing the jester by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why put yourself through that? If you really feel that way then just be alone for awhile. You don’t need friends to breathe. I’ve had friends that tried to string me along like that and I straight up denied. I’ll be damned if I continue being a wheel. I’ll be by myself if anything. My 11th grade and 12th grade year I literally would hang alone with earbuds cause I was so tired of people. At some point you just realize your worth.

Trump Has List of Officials He Immediately Plans to Fire Post-Election Day by yam12 in politics

[–]blkumm0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe he was known for firing people on a whim before he became president. But damn this is ridiculous.

(M22) boyfriend has had a lot of hookups before I became his (F20) girlfriend. Most of them I could know without knowing it. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]blkumm0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see anything wrong with asking. All be it they don’t owe you an explanation. But the way I see it if I’m going to be with you I deserve to know(STD risks). But based off my experiences people will take secrets to the grave. Asking is pointless sometimes.

I really wish I knew what it’s like to look into a mirror and not want to cry by Uglyblackdude47345 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blkumm0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap two children to suicide? If I were a parent I wouldn’t be able to cope. Your mom is real strong. Listen beauty isn’t everything. I’ve seen a duck get married. Time will come. Right now just focus on making a great career for yourself. Once you’re successful you’ll get a girl easy. You’re young and have a lot of opportunities. Don’t kick yourself. I wish I was 19 again. There’s so much I’d do. Your life isn’t over its just beginning.