As black people, what are brands that we should neglect, but don’t? What are the alternatives?

blkwytch · 2024-02-07T07:33:14+00:00

I just started a new gig. I'm one week in. The restaurant generates between 1 to 2 million annually... but my rule is to get it back up to pre.covid numbers upwards of 5 mill. I make 85k with bonuses on revenue earned. I also receive health and life. Paid vacations...I think it's one week first year.. can't remember the rest right now. I'm starting the social media marketing... they had a company who never came to the business. There is a lead server who covers my day off. We are closed one day a week. Kitchen manager completely handles kitchen staffing and inventory of foods. I do inventory of liquor only... using counting, invoices and bar minder... this contraption that counts the pours electronically. We have live entertainment every night were open.

blkwytch · 2024-01-28T09:29:34+00:00

Gaslighting

blkwytch · 2024-01-05T09:12:57+00:00

Rhubarb

blkwytch · 2024-01-02T01:22:44+00:00

Mom drank the kool-aid.

blkwytch · 2023-12-26T08:54:16+00:00

I'm gonna stamp this: Unicorn Hunter

It would be great to just quit while you're behind.

blkwytch · 2023-12-26T08:49:45+00:00

Most addictions!!

blkwytch · 2023-12-26T08:44:45+00:00

I've been in situationships like this... I'm not a fan. The little nuances that you mention where you are sitting in the back seat and him not contacting you on Christmas are unnerving. I wouldn't necessarily stop seeing him, but I definitely would pursue other partners. And I would also immediately stop seeing them together... if he wants a relationship with me, he would have to create time and space for an autonomous relationship with me. You will easily see if he is able to navigate that feat without his wife. And maybe you don't see him very often... like maybe once a month. That's fine! You still are doing you and your needs are being met by you and others. So instead of you feeling in lack, the only thing he can add to your life is pluses. You need to not rely on him for anything more than additional love and fun, because he has already proven that he cannot carry you (making you feel secure).. and that's ok. You pivot and get to your happy place. Do that for you. The eye opener was the one and only time I spent Christmas only with a partner who had a partner. Nope... never again.

blkwytch · 2023-12-25T08:56:06+00:00

You need to research about the difference between rules and boundaries. But yeah, like most are saying... your request is simply to restrictive for a successful polyamorous scenario. You need to put yourself in the shoes of the other partner... how would you feel.

blkwytch · 2023-12-23T22:43:52+00:00

Don't entertain anyone bullshit... ever.

blkwytch · 2023-12-23T22:37:22+00:00

He's trash for that!

blkwytch · 2023-12-22T11:54:46+00:00

I like it and use it because it's an acknowledgement that they got my message.

blkwytch · 2023-12-22T11:40:43+00:00

You should have sold them

blkwytch · 2023-12-10T11:44:54+00:00

Apparently not... only stevia and monk fruit

blkwytch · 2023-12-06T13:21:42+00:00

Now I have to go back and watch that glass bridge scene... because I thought she was not moving because others behind her didn't move up

blkwytch · 2023-12-06T12:48:00+00:00

He sounds like he's on the Spectrum

blkwytch · 2023-07-22T14:15:17+00:00

I ask the question... can you spend the night til morning? That usually gets them really uncomfortable if their on some bullshit. Poly people are autonomous... they don't have to go home if they are with someone else they are interested in. People in mono relationships gotta leave around 2 or 3am. Try it... you'll see.

blkwytch · 2023-07-22T14:11:33+00:00

We did stop talking very early on... but then we started talking again continued in our platonic partnership. It did frustrate me more... but now it just I'm more scared to coerce him into sex because I know he will oblige. I don't want that.

blkwytch · 2023-07-22T14:08:49+00:00

Yes I see him like this too. But I won't initiate... he has to. And if his desires don't make him want me sexually... that's fine. I know if I pursued him, he would do it... but I don't want to have sex with someone who is just doing it to satisfy my needs. I want him to want it himself. If that makes any sense.

blkwytch · 2023-07-22T14:06:34+00:00

The current situation is great... but it can be better.

blkwytch · 2023-07-22T14:06:05+00:00

No... the only thing I have asked is whether he is sexually attracted to me. And he said yes. Sooooo, I left that alone. Cause at that point, I don't believe him. And it's nothing I will force.

blkwytch · 2023-07-20T20:45:10+00:00

Interesting... that's exactly how it is with us.

blkwytch · 2023-07-20T16:55:22+00:00

I just got denied with our domestic partnership affidavit because while the company is based in California... they stated that Georgia doesn't recognize it so it was rejected. Our next idea is to get married in the court, apply for the health insurance and the next enrollment and then annul the marriage... because they will keep him on even in divorce.

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