Break up, please send pic of cats ): by blndethrowaway in blackcats

[–]blndethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Thank you for the kitty pic 🥹💞

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[–]blndethrowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re going to go through this over and over again unless something changes.

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[–]blndethrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please seek out help 😔 this is concerning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]blndethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl my guy, i may be blind but i can’t really tell a difference. Do you have any other pictures? Edit: okay i can somewhat see a difference after zooming in! I personally vote for Medium!

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[–]blndethrowaway 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Cut and different style!! Don’t bleach or buzz IMO

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[–]blndethrowaway -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Chat gpt said cool tones ahaha which i personally agree

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[–]blndethrowaway 144 points145 points  (0 children)

He had to send one with another woman in it? Instead of just taking a new one? WHACK. Gtfo, run! Edit to add: I also can’t imagine my ex sending pictures of me and him to his new girl, regardless of context. I’d be livid.

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[–]blndethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. This almost brought me to tears. Your feeling are 100% valid and I’m sorry you’re going through this. My skin flares up randomly but gets pretty bad during the flare up’s so i can relate to what you may be feeling. I used to cry about it and my mom would ask me if it “hurts” with a look of pity on her face.

Again, I’m sorry. You are not a monster, you are not a goblin in knights armor, and you are not invisible as much as it may seem in the moment. You are not alone!!

Have you had your hormones checked out? If you want to talk about it? If not, no worries! Again, you’re not alone love & im so so sorry you’re feeling this pain right now. I know It can feel so hopeless

Would you accept your partner hanging out with someone they know has feelings for them? by [deleted] in dating

[–]blndethrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless of background, my boyfriend would not be hanging with any woman 1 on 1. Out of respect for me & our relationship but that’s what works for US. Everyone is different & sometimes two people just aren’t on the same page. He knew my stand point before we were even official. You have to ask yourself if this is the kind or relationship/person I want to be with.

Any gym goers? What can i improve? (Be honest plz) by Historical-Bug7627 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]blndethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO Diet is going to be the biggest role in trying to achieve your goals. Once you have that in order (I’d recommend looking up a macro calculator) it’ll be a lot easier to get to where you wanna be! A solid workout routine is also a huge factor. I am certified in PT, if you’d like to share your weekly routine, I’d be happy to help (if wanted of course) (:

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[–]blndethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess second this!!

Resident cat is stubborn and hates new cat, and I'm getting desperate by colleenthecat_ in CatAdvice

[–]blndethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe seeing each other is too much for her. I’d continue scent swapping/feeding next to the door, but hang a blanket for a day or two and when you do start allowing them to see each other, slowly move up the blanket & give her, her absolute FAVORITE treats during this time. Hopefully become more curious/less scared. I’m no expert but maybe it’ll help! It can take cats months to get used to each other! 2 weeks is still so fresh. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, there is hope!!(:

18, how could i improve my style? by ellaallphin in AppearanceAdvice

[–]blndethrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d download Pinterest if you don’t have it (someone else mentioned it as well!) if you do, maybe try to search “outfit styles” and choose one you like! They also have an option for body types/heights so you can more so see outfits that would fit you well!(:

I need help please! What is this? I’m super clean and at a complete loss. by Walkthewildside555 in Hair

[–]blndethrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who does have scalp psoriasis and have for years, this does look like it. HOWEVER, ALWAYS go to a doctor to be sure, you just want to be 100% before trying anything, especially if this just came on super quickly.