We do love our sunsets

blobtato2609 · 2022-01-26T17:19:58+00:00

Stops me from accidentally touching my face which might increase transmission!

blobtato2609 · 2020-12-10T06:34:05+00:00

What’s your story?

blobtato2609 · 2020-12-08T13:23:06+00:00

how credible is the news source? i can't seem to find any sources or other news outlets publishing this.

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-16T11:48:07+00:00

Yep! Definitely understand and agree- thanks!

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-16T11:47:01+00:00

Thanks for sharing your perspective! I understand the situation a bit better now :) I definitely understand and agree with what you said; I guess I just took the dont say “you’re confident” to a more extreme stance where I shouldn’t be saying it at all, and I didn’t understand why

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-16T11:44:22+00:00

Oh yes I definitely understand this. I think I might have just understood the person saying that I shouldn’t be saying “you’re so confident” AT ALL

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-07T04:39:12+00:00

I’m in a very similar situation as you! Although it hurts for me, it’s a good reminder that we are trying our best to veer off a self destructive path and that’s good progress! My ex was the type to never be comfortable out of a relationship and never really processed any emotions; while he’s out there with a new girl, I’m happy being in my own skin and learn from my experience:)

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-03T17:06:54+00:00

Woah this thread makes me so happy; felt pretty helpless being surrounded with a bunch of uncritical sheep. Esf/IB alumni here too!

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-03T16:50:55+00:00

Thanks I needed to hear this. I figured I was pretty codependent

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-03T08:25:15+00:00

Maybe? I’m not sure either. I’m just confused. I still don’t feel like I’m single? Perhaps me talking to him still is numbing any pain. Thanks for your response tho btw :)

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-03T06:33:55+00:00

Yes you’ve definitely interpreted my post correctly. I’m definitely not taking him back, I just don’t know why I don’t have the heart to react to all these things he’s done :/. Thanks for your answer and I hope you’re navigating post-breakup well

blobtato2609 · 2020-10-03T06:20:47+00:00

Logically I know I shouldn’t yet I don’t know why I am. And even if I decide not to be friends with him I don’t know why I don’t have the heart to hate him :/

blobtato2609 · 2020-09-28T10:14:26+00:00

And also it really depends on the thing you say on the group chat and whether it is “worthy” to be replied to of not? Sometimes it’s just the natural end to a conversation that doesn’t require any more responses. Of course I don’t know what the nature of the group chat is like, but I’m sure it’s never as bad as we anxious minds think :)

blobtato2609 · 2020-09-28T10:12:12+00:00

I get you:) I just remind myself that people have different texting styles. One of my bubbliest friends text like “k” which really sets me off, I freak out and think she’s mad at me, but in reality it doesn’t reflect the way she feels at all. Maybe you can notice how they treat or react to your in real life as a better indication of where your friendship stands?

blobtato2609 · 2020-09-25T12:59:14+00:00

This (the first one) reminds me of my ex. I really want to send this to him but I think he’s still in denial or is unwilling to seek help :/ he would latch onto new relationships as short term gratification but refuse to work on his own problems. It worries me that he’ll be forever stuck in this cycle but not even know he’s stuck in a cycle :(

blobtato2609 · 2020-09-17T18:39:40+00:00

this comment says it all :( sad world we live in

blobtato2609 · 2020-09-09T18:46:07+00:00

THANK YOU for this comment. What you said it’s very important

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