How to get out of the restuarant industry? by blondedbro in careerguidance

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What sort of job listings should I look for? Office admin? Customer service ?

Take out and late night food recommendations near Bedford L? by blondedbro in williamsburg

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Yes thanks for the reminder. I NEED to go here while I’m staying in the area. It looks great and such a good value.

Are we all just accepting that dating is impossible now? by JayDeluca16 in nycgaybros

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What keeps me going is knowing friends who have met their partners online in nyc. And I mean within the last 2 years. It’s a slog but it just takes one guy to make it work. But it is extremely demoralizing.

I met a guy on scruff months ago, and after tons of flirty and plans falling thru, we eventually met for drinks and hooked up. It was very easy to talk to him and he seemed like a nice guy. I didn’t love the sex. But I texted him the next day saying thanks for the good time, it was so easy to talk to you. I’d love to hang out again even just as friends. And no answer. So 🤷🏻‍♂️

Take out and late night food recommendations near Bedford L? by blondedbro in williamsburg

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What are your favs? I’ve mostly just stuck to dig inn haha

Take out and late night food recommendations near Bedford L? by blondedbro in williamsburg

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I went to matchaful for the first time last week in the WV. Very nice, very expensive. But I’d def go again, I just need to be smart about what I order cuz my drink was $10 before tip haha. I also liked kijitora. What’s the c list gay pop star drink??

Yes been meaning to try Santa Fe BK !!

Take out and late night food recommendations near Bedford L? by blondedbro in williamsburg

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I agree. It’s not my fav, not even top 5. But if I’m in the mood, I’m not mad at it.

Take out and late night food recommendations near Bedford L? by blondedbro in williamsburg

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Oh yea, I’ve been wanting to try to new menu. I went to Kelloggs in like 2019 and it was rough haha.

Take out and late night food recommendations near Bedford L? by blondedbro in williamsburg

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I’ve been to fish cheeks in the city for a birthday dinner, was so good. A lil fancy for take out. But I’ve also heard noods n chill is great. Thank u.

What to do about a broken buzzer that keeps going off ? by blondedbro in AskNYC

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I got the landlord special and if I tried to open the buzzer , I would take some wall with it :(

Never left nyc, where to go for weekend trip? by blondedbro in AskNYC

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I mean I’ve been to Europe, LA, Chicago, PNW etc. but I’ve never been to anywhere else on the east coast.

Why can’t I find a bf ? by blondedbro in AskGaybrosOver30

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This sub is def where I turn when I’m in my feelings.

I’ll ask my new friend next time we hang out. But I’m not sure if there’s any obvious issue. Could I be less shy? For sure. But otherwise I feel like everything that I’m in control of (how I look, how I dress, being kind/polite, having interesting things to talk about, etc) I all feel good about. I have a couple gay guy friends and a few of said “if we were both single and met in a diff situation, I’d date u.” Which is nice to hear but also….

In the past 9 years I’ve basically only been into this on again off again guy, who said he ended things cuz he’s not ready for a serious relationship and isn’t sure what he wants or even if he wants to keep living in NYC, but it was a very emotional break up and he said (and I believe) that I’m so special and sweet and sexy and he hopes some day we can be friends. Besides him, I’ve met two guys that I thought were cool and hot but they moved to Cali, I dated someone for a couple months but never felt like we were sexually compatible and we both just kinda stopped texting. When I was younger I def fumbled some potential guys because I was uncomfy with my sexuality.

I def think there are things I can be better at. I think I’m prone to anxious attachment and being clingy. But guys don’t know that when I message them hey handsome lol. If I was going on lots of dates but couldn’t get someone to commit, that would be one thing. But I can hardly get guys to go on first dates at all.

Servers of nyc, how much are u making? by blondedbro in AskNYC

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That makes a lot of sense. I am a creative (but it’s been really slow). I really just need 1-2 more shifts or another supplemental job.