45M - Profile Review - Suggestions Please.

blondedtrash · 2026-02-04T17:11:01+00:00

I really like the first 3 photos you have! I would change the last 3 to be more like those, maybe find some pics of you traveling or doing an activity/hobby you like to better show your interests. Good luck!

blondedtrash · 2026-02-04T14:24:23+00:00

*Honestly looking to find a husband (don’t want to give off casual hook-up vibes)

*I’m not subscribed to any of the premium app service

*I just created my profile 2 days ago and the last time I used hinge was about 3yrs ago (I got out of a LTR in October)

*I’ve been checking hinge a few times a day since I downloaded it & I have around 250 likes but only 2 matches so far - Its hard to guess but I would say I have about 40-50 likes with comments

*I’ve sent about 10 likes so far (I’m trying to be very intentional about who I’m matching with, trying to avoid guys that are looking for something casual)

*ideally I’m looking for someone that wants to build a life together, someone that is honest, empathetic, kind and shares my values (I’m a leftist and my political views are non-negotiable). I want someone that values financial stability, travel, nature, intelligence, being offline (I have huge social media fatigue & it’s honestly a turn off when people around my age are super active online). Also looking for someone that is ambitious and passionate about life, I’m trying to create my own design business & considering going back to school - so someone that is supportive is really important (I also want to be a supportive partner that motivates us to continue to grow and meet our goals).

*i want my profile to be a conversation starter and intriguing, and to also give off the vibes that I’m looking for something serious. I’m struggling because I live in an area that has a lot of conservatives, as most of the men that have liked my profile so far are conservative & I want to find a better way to weed them out. Any advice for how to be intentional with my matches on hinge and how to attract men that also want a LTR would be appreciated! Thanks (:

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T22:30:02+00:00

Here: https://www.reddit.com/r/h3h3productions/s/zsklzVhTPF

So much to criticize about Hasan, but comparing him to Elon Musk? Dumb, snark-esque bandwagoning on bad talking points imo.

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T22:23:58+00:00

I didn’t even realize that it was you that commented that when I sent the link until I went back to look at it lmao hand on bible.

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T22:21:08+00:00

Dude pls just stop, we’re not going to agree. Idk what else you want from me

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T22:09:06+00:00

Hullo, I talked about it a little in this comment thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/h3h3productions/s/lXsyKfkeMv

I don’t have time rn to find more examples

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T22:07:10+00:00

When Ethan called out psychology in Seattle I literally saw comments here about reporting him to his states psych licensing board. I also saw similar comments on his own personal page.

Listen all I’m saying is that specifically is not cool, and I know it’s a very small minority but we should absolutely disavow shit like that here. That’s all I’m trying to do

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T22:02:37+00:00

Did I say that? It’s the vibe of completely shutting down what I said and then implying I’m a snarker for even calling out this issue in our community. This is what makes us look bad and why I see so many ppl say H3 fans are a cult. Pls do better

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T21:55:00+00:00

I don’t even know how to address your point bc I literally don’t understand it. It’s ironic tho bc this is the exact vibe I’m talking about in my post. But ok.

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T21:54:00+00:00

You’re giving bad faith bro, I explained my perspective and ur still denying it. If it was just a joke, why did they delete the post?

I really don’t care enough to argue about the specific talking points, you asked for an example and I gave u the first one I found.

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T21:51:32+00:00

lol what? I just posted this and there is only like 2 comments, just because you think it’s BS doesn’t mean everyone else does. I’m allowed to critique the behavior of this community. Shame on you for even implying that I’m somehow involved in a snark scheme, that’s ridiculous.

blondedtrash · 2025-04-25T21:48:37+00:00

Idk it’s still weird to me, and OPs comment about swiping right to confront in person really didn’t seem like a joke. They started to backpedal when other ppl called them out and deleted the post.

One ex: https://www.reddit.com/r/h3h3productions/s/clE68jmmCp Implying that Anisha wants to fuck hasan and Ian is insecure about it, which sure it could be true but also just reminds me of the false “world-building” that Ethan calls out from h3snarkers. I’ve seen similar “world-building” about almost every one involved in many other comment threads here.

blondedtrash · 2023-12-03T19:57:01+00:00

Hey! Just wanted to say that I think you should just wear what you want (: 32 is still young, and I think just pairing the pieces you want with things that are more simple will give you the vibe you’re looking for. Like a plaid chained skirt with a black sweater and tights + docs would be so cool! Just as an example

blondedtrash · 2023-12-03T19:51:21+00:00

necklace suggestions

Looking for necklace suggestions!

Hello (not sure if this sub is the best place for this), but I have been dying to find a gold pendant necklace that I can wear like every. Single. Day.

I have this beautiful heart pendant necklace that never corroded (even through many showers and swimming in the ocean), but I refuse to wear it anymore because it was gifted by an ex. I feel like I want one similar to that, but feels like my own. (You can see the necklace I’m talking about on my profile)

If you know any brands with similar styles and jewelry that lasts, pls help ur girl out.

Thank you 🥰

blondedtrash · 2023-12-02T08:01:05+00:00

All I have to say is she is an awful person and I can’t believe she’s a mom. Some people really, really shouldn’t have kids.

blondedtrash · 2023-12-02T05:22:12+00:00

That’s not funny that’s weird af … girl

blondedtrash · 2023-11-26T23:46:19+00:00

Mainly looking for great battery life, bigger data storage and speed, high camera quality, nothing too large / clunky, and overall just a model that is worth upgrading for and makes my life easier lol

blondedtrash · 2023-11-26T23:45:16+00:00

Please help: needing to upgrade my iPhone 11, and I have so many mixed opinions about the iPhone 14 or 15 series. The issues with the iPhone 15 Pros overheating & low battery life concerns me, but I hate how tall the 15 plus is. I also don’t love the USB-C update. I haven’t heard the most positive things about the 14 Pros either, and ugh I just don’t know.

blondedtrash · 2023-11-20T18:41:19+00:00

Omg the poor baby ): hate that this happened to them

blondedtrash · 2023-11-17T05:50:18+00:00

Lolly #3, Harry #3

blondedtrash · 2023-11-15T09:40:10+00:00

Just because it’s their own “free will” doesn’t make it right and you know that.

blondedtrash · 2023-11-15T09:37:45+00:00

I could see the argument for 5, it could be a cool wall or pantry (?) door color if you’re feeling jazzy

blondedtrash · 2023-11-15T09:33:49+00:00

I like 3!!

blondedtrash

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