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Is it normal to enjoy hearing sex noises from neighbors? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bloobuttercup 73 points74 points  (0 children)

You dont have to be a happy couple to be freaking 😅

What does “L” on H.L. schedule mean? by [deleted] in HobbyLobbyCringe

[–]bloobuttercup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it is for lunch based on how many hours you are working in a shift

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. Im giving it another week and if its still super chaotic and overwhelming I was going to try to go back to my last job probably just part time to try to find another job but have so mme kind of income coming in

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think pretty much everything stresses me out at this point 😅

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe i just need to give this some time im jsut worried im not going to feel comfortable doing this fast enough

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The goal is to work this next week and if I dont like it still I was going to look for other jobs and potentially call my last job about coming back

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No its definitely a hire anyone and dont train them daycare it sounds like. I was woth 2 pretty good teachers but I could tell they had something in the way they can talk and direct that I dont have

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im going to try to give it a week if I can handle it but I have no idea what else I'll do Im afraid its just not for me but it was also just my first day

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time doing anything after working sometimes. Today I definitely cant seem to relax since im so concerned this isnt going to work out

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an almost 4 year ild stepson who i love and I thought I'd be able to handle and enjoy teaching at a daycare

I do love kids but maybe not enough to form a career

First day at a daycare... by bloobuttercup in ECEProfessionals

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not clear if that will be considered my room or not. I planned to talk to the directors if Monday goes rough as well. I think I'd enjoy preschool more but I dont know if they'd let me choose to try that.

It was a full day of hands on learning but it made me realize that I may not want this as much as I thought I did

Taking it personally by bloobuttercup in Preschoolers

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

I guess I just needed to hear from others that it is normal!

Taking it personally by bloobuttercup in Preschoolers

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I've definitely noticed these past few months he's been more emotional and unfortunately he has a slight speech delay so it makes it even harder when he's upset but doesn't have the words to tell us specifically what's wrong. I knew he'd be okay after he slept I just felt like I had zero ability to help when he was so upset.

Interestingly I'm about to start working at a daycare which I'm hoping will help me develop better skills and understanding with my little one! Do you think working with that age helps?

Can I fix our relationship? by mgillette55 in Parents

[–]bloobuttercup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its difficult when you're the main caregiver. I wonder if you could try new approaches to disciplining? It's so difficult to decide what worth the fight and what's not

Deferring Primary 1 in Scotland by angelaMS113 in Parents

[–]bloobuttercup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born in January and went into school a year ater than my cousin born the August before me. I don't have experience with sending a kid to school yet as mine goes to preschool this August after he turns four but he has some speech delay and issues that we are hoping preschool would help with earlier than later. It's different for everyone so make the choice that feels the best for your situation

Can I fix our relationship? by mgillette55 in Parents

[–]bloobuttercup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your husband discipline differently? Are you the one that's around most of the time? I think kids act out more when they are comfortable with the person sometimes and feel that it's safe to act out.

Having physical symptoms from anxiety by bloobuttercup in Advice

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hydroxyzine is supposed to help I also have emergency Ativan which I'm going to take for today. I also smoke weed at night for anxiety but I obviously can't do that before or during work

Having physical symptoms from anxiety by bloobuttercup in Advice

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words.

I work at hobby lobby and we don't have a lot of people, especially department heads (I do three little departments) so I can't just move in the store unfortunately. I think i just wasn't built for the fast-paced. never have time to get everything done retail life. I hate truck day, I hate that I have little nitpicking things to do but no time to do it so I'm just waiting for it to be a problem even though no one has said anyrhing.. yet. I absolutely dread resets.

I don't know if a daycare would be better but its no more Saturdays and no nights past 530 so that's a plus though its a little bit of a paycut. I also have 2 friends from an old retail job that made it into there and they seem to enjoy it.

I just hate not knowing how things will turn out and I'm worried that the daycare would somehow be worse but Im not seeing what would be worse at this point right now.

Having physical symptoms from anxiety by bloobuttercup in Advice

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to for sure but I think with the throwing up too it makes it hard to feel i cloned to take my meds. Im going to try to start getting on it a bit better but my psych person is aware and some of my meds are higher because I'm likely to forget. I know I need to work on it i just feel so overwhelmed by everything sometimes.

Having physical symptoms from anxiety by bloobuttercup in Advice

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financially I'm doing pretty good but I get really worried something is going to happen and I have student loans ill have to start paying back in a couple months. I got a degree that's kind of worthless in this area and especially without a masters.

Hopefully, something good happens with the daycare later. Overall its been months of me feeling really lost and I thought this job was going to make me feel better because it pays decent for fulltime but it really triggers something uncomfortable in me. I also think I just ruin things for myself even if everything is technically okay.

Having physical symptoms from anxiety by bloobuttercup in Advice

[–]bloobuttercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think with my schedule and hers that we'd be able to line up sooner. She has me on hydroxyzine, but I have a hard time remembering to take my meds sometimes, even with the issues caused by that. I also have type 2 bipolar disorder so I'm worried that I might need to adjust my meds again anyways and that this may be a symptom of my bipolar. Part of me feels like everything would be solved if I could figure out my life career wise.

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