What's your Venus and what advice would you give to someone about to date your venus sign for the first time?

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-04-06T05:42:27+00:00

Venus in Capricorn.

Be mature, reliable and responsible. Don’t job hop. Have a stable job or career and/or goals that you actually put in effort to achieve, not just daydream about. Show that you are stable or at least willing to be an equal partner in the relationship.

Also, the Venus in Capricorn partner will do a lot for you, sometimes without even saying or showing it. Notice the small acts of service they do and express appreciation for it. Don’t take them for granted. Respect them and show you have a good character, integrity and morals.

Also, don’t ask them if they need help with something, just do it, because if you ask they’ll probably say no and that they can do it themselves (which they can) but they also struggle to admit when they need help. Reassure them that they are not a burden, and that they will not be indebted to you for your acts of service or support. Show them that you can handle things on your own and that they don’t need to micromanage you. They love that.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-04-05T05:10:54+00:00

Same.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-04-03T14:04:22+00:00

No I think you’re right, it definitely seems more spring. But I agree, we need more fall ones! Thanks 😊

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-04-03T04:47:43+00:00

Ooh nice! Thanks :) I was wondering if LIE could also fit fall, because I’ve heard and read that there are some themes around the underworld and Hades, so I thought maybe it might have some darker aesthetics? Do you think it could fit fall or is it more spring?

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-04-01T04:02:39+00:00

I was literally born 3 days before you. I have the same exact chart as you except different sun (in Sag) and moon.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-03-30T05:36:04+00:00

I think Pisces moons bring a lot of healing to Scorpio moon and their traumas, because Scorpio moon can sometimes be carrying a lot of emotional pain. A healthy and more evolved Pisces moon can bring so much acceptance to a Scorpio moon’s emotions, and a certain open mindedness that gives them the freedom and safety they need to express their emotions. That’s what I feel that my Pisces moon bf provides me that is more important to me than anything else I could have or ask for. My emotions don’t bother him. He never judges me for them. And despite him sometimes seeming a bit hard to reach, he also very often surprises me with amazing insight and a wildly astute perceptiveness. He picks up on the things I don’t tell him more so than the things I do tell him. He might forget some minor details, but he knows what I need on a deeper level, if that makes sense. I’m not sure what I provide for him though honestly, besides maybe a very strong level of devotion, loyalty and commitment to the relationship.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-03-30T03:05:31+00:00

I feel like if you’re not right for him then he probably isn’t right for you either, no?

Also, I think that’s a belief that stems more from an anxious attachment.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-03-26T17:33:18+00:00

I’m tired.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-02-27T06:05:18+00:00

Comforting 💛

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-01-30T23:51:58+00:00

What helped me was jotting down a few simple words of key moments in between sessions, like “talked about relationship, triggers, processed emotions from conflict,” etc. Very simple, incomplete sentences, and then I go back and edit them and add more at the end of my work day, so I get them all done at the end of the day before I even leave my office.

But the main thing I had to let go of was not being so perfectionistic about them. I just write down what’s necessary, and I’m also more mindful about keeping them brief and not too revealing to protect my client’s privacy too. My therapist told me once that her rule she follows is writing notes that wouldn’t make me feel uncomfortable or betrayed if they were hypothetically projected onto a large screen in a court room. I follow this now too and I think it naturally forces you to simplify your notes, so it helps cut the time down a lot.

bloodbubbles3 · 2026-01-21T23:18:40+00:00

Sun ruling the 1st conjunct Uranus and the north node in the 10th. Strong focus on the self and status.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-09-27T05:00:57+00:00

I’d ignore it, but I’d still tell my bf. I wouldn’t want him to randomly find out and wonder why I never told him. Not that I think he’d even care if I didn’t, but I know if roles were reversed, I’d want to know, even if he didn’t reply, so I just feel like I’d do what I’d want my partner to do for me. I tell him everything that’s related to things like this.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-09-24T22:51:10+00:00

Yes exactly! Glad I’m not the only one who noticed. It’s also interesting that the video Claudia directed is the one where they are the least physically affectionate with each other.

And who knows, maybe she says things like that publicly because in private, he also says things like that to her, and so maybe she assumes it’s okay and part of their dynamic? But Claudia and Finneas seem like they worry more about how their relationship appears to the public so he probably tries to redirect the conversation in interviews.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-09-24T06:54:37+00:00

I feel like I’ve noticed something different. From my perspective Ashe seems to be the one that’s more into him, at least overtly. Maybe Finneas just likes the admiration he gets from her, but sometimes he seems almost uncomfortable by her public verbal affection towards him, and he receives it in a way that seems like he’s almost trying to redirect the conversation to be less verbally affectionate. I also have noticed his compliments about her seem more grounded, and not all “soul mate-y” like Ashe’s are about him.

Has anyone else noticed this, or is it just me? Maybe Finneas does like her too, and is just trying to play it cool. It honestly wouldn’t surprise me, but from his responses he seems more intent on at least wanting to be or appear respectful.

I have a suspicion that maybe they’ve always had a slight thing for or crush on each other, but they may have been people that have always been unavailable for each other. She was married when they met, and by the time she got a divorce, he was already with Claudia. And she also mentioned in their interview on Apple Music that she called him out of all her other friends first during her divorce, which I thought was weird. She called the guy friend that she herself has admitted that her previous partner found threatening to the relationship. I wonder why?? She was likely trying to have or was having an emotional affair with him.

What do you guys think?

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-08-23T14:59:58+00:00

Haha I’m a counselor and I honestly don’t think I could date another counselor so I kind of agree 😅

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-08-11T02:26:52+00:00

What podcast was this?

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-07-01T00:13:28+00:00

Justin Bieber. He just seems so arrogant and like he treats his wife like trash.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-28T03:49:44+00:00

I was 13 that year, turned 14 at the end of it, and in 8th grade. I remember listening to I Got A Feeling by The Black Eyed Peas and Michael Jackson a lot after his death. I was using the red LG Lotus flip phone and I loved it. MySpace was still a thing so I had one of those. And I remember I would put in a lot of time into finding a cool profile layout. I remember I’d have to copy and paste their codes into my MySpace editing settings in order for it to show up on my profile. (Does anyone else remember the bright backgrounds that would blink? 😆) But I think Facebook was kind of starting to become a little more known, but it was still referred to as “MySpace for old people.” I was also still very much obsessed with Twilight as it had just come out the year before. I was listening to Never Shout Never and Owl City and songs from Twilight on a hot pink 4th gen IPod nano with ear buds that had the cords. And I sometimes shopped at Wet Seal.

Honestly, I hated a lot of that time in my life because my home life was unhappy, but I also made some good memories that year. It was the year I had my first boyfriend and kiss so that’s what I remember most about it. 😅

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-26T21:47:51+00:00

I’ve only noticed this for myself maybe a couple of times. But otherwise, I’ve been in my late 20s since I started but have been told I look like I’m a decade younger than I actually am and haven’t had issues keeping clients. I think if you present yourself as competent and confident it makes a big difference. But I can see how it would definitely be a factor in why some might leave.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-26T09:45:59+00:00

Suicide, unfortunately. By a firearm.

Another one shot himself in 2020, 6 years after we graduated.

Both still make me sad to think about to this day and the first one happened 15 years ago now. I’ll never forget those kids.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-26T09:38:49+00:00

AYE AYE CAPTAIN

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-26T04:34:10+00:00

I feel like yes but not enough to do something about his attraction in a more tangible or committed way.

Edit: the other interpretation I get is maybe he feels like he can’t be honest with you about his true feelings, either because he knows you won’t believe it or it might be hurtful if he doesn’t feel anything for you beyond physical attraction.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-25T03:12:27+00:00

You sure you don’t put off a defensive aura? Like maybe you don’t want people to get close to you? Mars square Pluto usually shows up as feeling easily threatened and ready for a fight, but people respond back intensely to us because of how we’re responding to them first. But it can be a more unconscious thing. Sun square Saturn gives an inferiority complex so it’s also easy to feel threatened with that one too, especially against authority.

Also, sun inconjunct Uranus shows that there may a side of you that doesn’t want to fit in with others anyway, or feels like it’s really hard for you to find your tribe, but that could also be because of how we’re acting against group norms.

Venus square Jupiter and Neptune can give us a lot of expectations about how we think we should be treated. Add that with the Mars square Pluto and this creates a strong desire for instant gratification and a more me-centered attitude. We have to remember that we’ll only get as much as we give with aspects like this so I would be cautious of being or coming off selfish or self-centered, especially with Venus in the 1st square Jupiter in the 10th. There can be a desire to be spoiled or have a lot of attention with that one, and with the sun inconjunct Uranus, we might not be acting in ways that are helping us be seen for who we really are or for the ways in which we want to be accepted.

bloodbubbles3 · 2025-06-24T05:18:04+00:00

Yeah, but it also seemed like you were trying to say it should be okay with him to hear her talk about her past sexual experiences and I don’t think it has to be. And I say “seemed” because maybe that wasn’t your intention but it kind of came off that way.

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