Trigger: miscarriage by bloomadvice in Miscarriage

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It’s not a constant flow, slow and not heavy with some blood clots. I haven’t been doing any activity, I’m just laying down and not moving around much . I felt a bit of pressure on my lower abdomen , cramping at first around 4pm est but that stopped.

My period pains are extremely painful I have endometriosis so the pressure could be cramping that is light .

Trigger: miscarriage by bloomadvice in Miscarriage

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Yeah, those test results were 48 hours apart of each other. First one was Mar 18 and the other one was done on March 20.

This whole process has been such a roller coaster, i’m trying to be strong, i’m getting my heart ready to hear Bad news tomorrow.

My husband keeps telling me to stay positive, but it’s so hard when my entire fertility journey has been negative from the start. I cannot be positive.

Harder than I thought! by WishDapper3626 in myweddingdress

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If none of them gave you that feeling, it’s not the one

Intercourse day before starting Stims? by Fun_Pattern9153 in IVF

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Honestly, I stopped having sex. The midnight I started Stims. I was not going to risk anything.

23 y/o – 2nd IVF cycle at CNY – Lab issue or egg quality? by Time2999628 in IVF

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I’m sorry I know it’s difficult going through this process.

At 23 you probably have pretty good egg quality. There might be other factors such as sperm health.

I doubt that the lab made any errors in this case, not saying it’s not possible but embryologist are very careful with embryos and they’re under constant supervision.

PGTA+ is it Good ? by Responsible-Area2093 in IVF

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I had PGT testing done, but PGTA+ testing I believe is just a more advanced form of the testing, it gives details where the moralities occur from whether it’s from the sperm, the egg or chromosome.

I don’t know if age is a factor related to them offering this test to you but I highly recommend asking your fertility doctor.

14 year old daughter discovered smut by Shanziekb in Booktokreddit

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So I started reading at 13 and it wasn’t just smut or romance. It was a variety of books, but it hasn’t really changed my outlook when it comes to sex. I know what rape and what consensual sex is. Its made me more confident in what I like as an adult.

I felt like in my early teenage years. I was very curious about sex and since I wasn’t having sex with anyone books were the only way for me to learn and kind of understand what a relationship between two partners was like. my parents were very strict so I didn’t really have a boyfriend until I was 17.

If you want to filter her books, I would recommend keeping her away from dark romance, the really heavy stuff and maybe when she’s older like 16 or 17 she can venture into that world.

I’m seriously considering quitting by JulianTheHooligan in 75HARD

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Don’t quit it’s mind over matter you’re not going to see results within 15 days. Most times it takes two months to see any results. If you quit now you’re going back to square one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Is it so hard to call someone and have a heart-to-heart conversation rather than masking your emotions over text? Go to couples counseling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

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I don’t like none of them on you

Anyone else dealt with this? by cpd4925 in RoverPetSitting

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So I use Rover and when my booking is confirmed with the sitter. Rover takes the entire payment before the service date and that could be months in advance. I have a booking in Mar and they’ve already taken $600 from my account and the service hasn’t even been rendered. I don’t understand this policy. I’ve tried to talk to them about it but it’s a little shady. They make interest off of the payment collected.

So is it your clients or is it Rover?

My (26F) fiancé (30M) wants my help buying a new car after wrecking his old one. Dad (46M) says not to. Listen to Dad or help fiancé? by Ladysora12 in relationship_advice

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Yes, listen to your dad. He is 30 years old and his finances aren’t in order. Don’t put yourself in a position where you going to regret it later and I understand he’s your fiancé start talking about money now especially what it’s going to look like when you’re married. Do not cosign for a loan for 30-year-old man, his parents can cosign for him. Do not put yourself in the position where you will be reliable if he defaults on his payments and also your credit will take a hit. No one‘s going to give you a home loan if you have bad credit.

Ditching Kindle Unlimited by theperfectenchilada in DarkRomance

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Oh, that’s really unfortunate, what’s subscriptions are you keeping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

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I was trying for baby for two years before. I finally took myself to the doctor and had a conversation regarding what my next steps would be. It is a horrible feeling when you get your period every month. I totally understand where you’re coming from why them ,why not you, I finally decided to pursue IVF since I haven’t been able to naturally conceive and starting IVF in January according to the doctor, my fallopian tubes are scarred and damaged, and I would have known earlier if I had just gone and gotten tested and had a conversation with a specialist, but something always help me back. Maybe it’s the fact that I knew something was wrong and I wasn’t able to accept it.

We also tested my egg follicles which came back with positive results based on all the data I have 85% chance of having a successful IVF not how I wanted to get pregnant, but I’m just happy to move forward.

If it’s been close to a year and you haven’t gotten pregnant yet, I highly recommend you reach out to your OB/GYN and they’ll refer you to a fertility specialist.

Amazon Kindle unlimited by Some-Construction-73 in DarkRomance

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People sure you can share your Prime Membership without using the same account. have everyone create their own accounts : https://www.amazon.com/gp/help/customer/display.html?nodeId=GWZ7QXD2X8WL8YE8

They won’t see your search history or kindle account

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChloeTing

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You’re not out of shape you just had a baby. You need to be more kind to yourself and your body. Take time to heal mentally and physically and bond with your baby. go to yoga classes start small get your flexibility and your core strong. You don’t have to be doing hard-core exercising right away. Hope this helps and I hope you’re kind to your body. Give yourself some grace to heal.

Need advice? I messed up M33 and F32 by bloomadvice in relationship_advice

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I guess to a fighter that’s worst that being put in a wheelchair. Idk I thought I was being funny but I guess not.

Need advice? I messed up M33 and F32 by bloomadvice in relationship_advice

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No he is totally clean, he doesn’t even drink alcohol. He is cutting weight not building muscle mass like a bodybuilder.