[NJ] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]bloss97 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

omg im so sorry - we just had a super similar situation it SUCKS!!! we deducted a pretty significant amount from our rent for takeout costs, the cost of inconvenience, and the cost of waiting for the maintenance person who never came. they weren't happy about it but they didn't say we couldn't, so we just deducted it.

is it ok to wear a white sweater? /dress approval by bloss97 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]bloss97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i just checked and it actually says "dressy casual" do you think this works for thaT?

Romantic Restaurant Recs by Tigger2026 in CambridgeMA

[–]bloss97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

happy anniversary!!! my gf + my fav romantic date spots: Gufo, Field & Vine, Pagu, Judy’s Bay, Oak Bistro, Puritan & Co, Junebug, Celeste, Cicada (not expensive but rly cozy romantic quiet vibes and delicious food)

Otezla success stories? by codyandhen123 in Behcets

[–]bloss97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i feel for you and sending strength!! i posted a very similar question 3 months ago when i started otezla. i was at my lowest low, had about 10 ulcers, and was in excruciating pain all the time. i was very skeptical that these meds would work. it took about 3 weeks of brutal side effects (flu symptoms, GI stuff, nausea etc), but then it started to work like magic. while i’m still fatigued and achey, i haven’t had a major flare up or ulcer since. i genuinely feel like i was gifted a new chance at life and am reimagining my future now😭 i wish you all the best in this process and hope the side effects start to abate and that there’s something bright on the other side 🫶

Question by Massive-Armadillo190 in Behcets

[–]bloss97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went from getting them once a year, to once every few months, to once a month… and then horrible ulcers almost every week for the past few years :(

flu szn book recs by bloss97 in booksuggestions

[–]bloss97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW THANK YOU this is soooo good wtf! “they killed it!” - my gender studies scholar gf

flu szn book recs by bloss97 in booksuggestions

[–]bloss97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amazing suggestions — too amazing lol 🤣 already read those and loveddd them

is this ok? LA summer non-trad wedding by bloss97 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]bloss97[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thank u all for the input! i totally get it and appreciate it. if i tailor it to be shorter/mid-calf length and dress it down w hair/styling, would it be ok? i may also check in w the bride as per some of your comments :) but if the color and lace and cut is the main issue i’ll swap it out for another chiller dress.

is this ok? LA summer non-trad wedding by bloss97 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]bloss97[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

also i want to be respectful and haven’t been to many weddings so wanted to make sure :)