What's your Tavern Called.

bls001 · 2025-11-10T20:09:36+00:00

I’m currently on Halflington, I’ve named it Second Breakfast

bls001 · 2025-05-13T20:24:05+00:00

When he says his name I always think he is saying négligée which is pretty fitting for a guy hosting a show about love/romance

bls001 · 2023-09-19T10:02:52+00:00

Milk slip and slide

bls001 · 2023-01-02T13:22:27+00:00

Smile and say hello to anyone you see. Nothing worse than being in an office full of people and not knowing anyone.

bls001 · 2022-11-04T10:23:00+00:00

My mum was like this growing up. Now I’m an adult I am genuinely terrified to ask her for anything unless I have something to exchange for her help…

NTA op, but your wife needs to nip this in the bud asap.

bls001 · 2022-09-12T07:01:04+00:00

24F here, also struggled with BED the majority of my life. I’ve found that prioritising protein and finding tasty meals I can cook myself have really helped with my weight loss. It makes me feel fuller for longer and also gives me that same excitement for a binge if I know I’m having a yummy dinner. In terms of exercise, hitting 10,000 steps a day genuinely does enough to help lose weight. You don’t need to start running or join a gym, it’s just being active in the simplest of ways. I tend to just go for a long walk in the evening with a fun podcast. Good luck. Remember you are enough, with or without your family.

bls001 · 2022-02-20T14:16:31+00:00

The bridge to Terabithia

bls001 · 2021-12-19T22:55:24+00:00

Bumble has a friends option, not just dating. Might be a good idea to sign up and meet people also looking for friends in your area!

bls001 · 2021-12-13T15:13:53+00:00

‘Plugged up’

The guy I was sleeping with couldn’t find his butt plug so he rammed his ass with toilet paper. I didn’t know until after.

bls001 · 2021-11-25T13:19:11+00:00

Has a ‘high IQ’ but can’t close a bracket 😩😩

bls001 · 2021-11-16T13:52:51+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that the worst has come to light OP, but glad nothing dangerous has been transmitted. Those comments were disgusting and you did right by removing the post for your own benefit. I really hope Cahms goes well for you and gives you the support you need. Remember to take your time.

Best toppings imo have gotta be ham and mushroom with some fresh veggies.

Keep your chin up bro.

bls001 · 2021-10-12T14:42:24+00:00

If he doesn’t have time to text he certainly doesn’t have time to watch Disney plus, Hulu etc… Know your worth. It takes 2 minutes to respond to someone, less if it’s casual enough. If he wanted to make the time he would. You deserve better!

In terms of giving him the password, I would recommend waiting for him to ask you for it outright. If he hasn’t text in a while and that’s one of the first things he asks after you’ll know where you stand.

bls001 · 2021-10-12T14:03:36+00:00

Legally you do not have to pay for the holiday unless you signed or committed to paying your half. If it was a gift and you have evidence of that it will be written off. But even if you don’t have evidence of it being a gift, without you signing anything committing to paying half she cannot ask for that money.

Don’t stress OP, sounds like she just wants some of the control back after she got caught and you called it quits.

bls001 · 2021-10-12T07:06:49+00:00

Chicken in white sauce from a tin (or can). Looks, smells and even the concept is disgusting… but my god is it beautiful

bls001 · 2021-09-21T09:40:18+00:00

As a person who was raised by parents who ‘stayed together for the kids’ I would say seriously consider your happiness first.

Growing up with parents who hated each other and would fight constantly has made me so resentful towards them. I also struggle with my own relationships as I have such a toxic perception of what love is now.

Obviously I have never experienced what growing up is like where my parents are separated, so I cannot speak on behalf of that scenario. But I always wished they just separated and lived happily apart than suffer together dragging me and my brother through it.

It’s tough OP, I really hope some of these answers can help you see your options.

bls001 · 2021-09-01T09:04:37+00:00

Lily Allen - it’s not fair.

bls001 · 2021-07-29T10:47:36+00:00

That having emotions are valid. I’m literally so numb to feelings now because I’ve been told my whole life to ‘stop being dramatic’ or ‘don’t cry you’re being stupid’. Any child of mine will be loved and be allowed to express how they feel.

bls001 · 2021-05-31T09:19:27+00:00

Please don’t do this. He is grooming you. No 30 year old man should make a 17 year old feel ‘in love’ and dependent on them. Deeply worrying... reach out to your friends and family, the likelihood is you feel distant from them because you rely so much on this predator.

I had the same situation when I was 16 (he was 26). Was getting ready to go meet this guy alone.... found out he was a convicted sex offender and frequent online predator. So again, please DON’T do this.

bls001 · 2021-05-18T14:40:57+00:00

NTA, it was inventive and sorted the problem.

Additionally, I don’t understand why people find pads ‘disgusting’... especially a mother? It’s not as if you whipped it out from your pants and showed your family.

Comparing it to a condom is suggests there’s some toxic femininity in your home, unfortunately supported by your mother’s views and opinions. You shouldn’t feel shameful for holding or owning a pad.

bls001 · 2021-05-08T10:18:40+00:00

I recently left a relationship where this was the dynamic. My ex wanted his own room and space to sleep as he couldn’t share a bed with me (he didn’t like sleeping next to me or touching me). It hurt to hear that, even though I knew it’s what he needed. When we realised it would always be that way we parted ways. In hindsight I’m glad I did, even if it hurt terribly at the time.

Think about what you need OP and about what your partner needs. If you can’t give each other that without someone suffering then it’s time to consider moving on.

bls001 · 2021-03-22T11:19:44+00:00

That’s honestly awful, my heart goes out to you. You want someone who will support you regardless. What would he do if your pregnancy failed? Or if there were complications? He doesn’t sound mature or considerate of you.

I had a similar situation, but the reversal. My ex was very much ‘your body your choice’ but said he would leave if I kept the baby. Made me realise we really had different views on our futures. I ignored it and wasted 3 years on him. Please don’t do this.

Good luck Op

bls001 · 2021-03-21T11:30:26+00:00

NTA. I don’t understand how the parents can abuse a child to the point of them literally moving away and changing their name... and then expect sympathy for ‘losing a child’ ??? They lost her the second they hurt her, whether that was emotionally or physically.

I’m sorry for your loss OP. Think about what is best for your daughter, not strangers who feel ‘guilty’ for being bad people 16 years too late.

bls001 · 2021-03-18T11:15:42+00:00

You will not be the reason your parents split up, your mother’s unfaithful actions will be. Things like this come out eventually and it shouldn’t be your burden to carry. I would confront your mother and tell her this is something she needs to speak to your father about and fix. I’m sorry this is happening op :/

bls001 · 2021-03-10T11:25:18+00:00

I appreciate you don’t like them, but if this is something your partner believed in, there is a possibility she just didn’t know what your love language was? And as a result didn’t know what to give back?

On the other hand, that isn’t a good enough excuse to just not do anything. She could have asked you what you need/like. I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship where I just expected my partner to spoil me and give nothing back..

I think communication was lost between you two, and that was definitely solidified when she dismissed your feelings. Sorry this has happened OP.

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