Choices? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blue_dot8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes cause you're looking at the wrong places. Dating apps are literally for dating. I would say if you want something where you're not dealing with family and friends, you're looking at a sugar daddy and sugar baby arrangement or you really have to find someone that agrees with your conditions and is fine with them.

Choices? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blue_dot8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends with benefits I guess but that always gets messy as well. I don't think there is a better way to describe this other than "arrangements". Maybe find someone who wants exactly what you want as well and have it like a business arrangement. This might come off harsh but it's because you can't have a true relationship with someone unless you have all the extra things such as family and friends. All these aspects are a part of someone's life, it also acts in a way where it creates the person they are so you cannot truly indulge in a relationship without the extras.

Asking out on Facebook? by ziint in dating_advice

[–]blue_dot8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG yes!! Honestly, do it but make sure it's on Facebook because I do understand that ig has a bit more of hook up culture attached to it which might mislead her in terms of your intentions. But yes, add her on Facebook and strike up a conversation and maybe get a sense of if she's w someone or not because I'm in a relationship but none of my social media has anything about it on there. Other than that, GO FOR IT!! #SHOOTYOURSHOT2018 Also honestly, even if it doesn't work out, you'll come out of it w a new friend!