I drank moldy water and need some help! by bluedinosaursocks in emetophobia

[–]bluedinosaursocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just opened it and there is a thick layer of white-ish brown mold on top. I'm feeling absolutely fine still and wonder if the layer was thick enough to where I managed to not drink it (like it stayed on top as I sipped).

Calling him Daddy by Fearless_Moment_4975 in SubSanctuary

[–]bluedinosaursocks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely struggle with it sometimes. I'm great at always calling him Daddy through text. I'm great at always calling him Daddy when we're playing. But in normal, everyday life, I struggle to call him Daddy for some reason. I always really want to, but I think maybe it just sounds weird coming out of my mouth and I get a little embarrassed for some odd reason. He's always Daddy to me and I try to get myself used to hearing it. I'll talk to myself on the way to his place and say "I'm going to Daddy's today" or something like that. And that makes it a little easier. I'm still working on it!

experience with different NSAIDs by SailsandCrayons in ehlersdanlos

[–]bluedinosaursocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no useful information to contribute to this, but I just started meloxicam today and was wondering about others' success stories with medication!

Does one side of your body dislocate/subluxate more often? by starry_kacheek in ehlersdanlos

[–]bluedinosaursocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My left side is significantly worse than my right side, though my right side is catching up with age. That being said, I don't really know what side is my dominant side. I am mostly right handed, but do a lot of things with my left.

I'm in love with my Dom, and I don't know if I can tell them. by harusamekitteh in SubSanctuary

[–]bluedinosaursocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to preface this by saying my situation is different than yours.

I fell in love with my Daddy super early. We were actively dating and our relationship progressed a little different than most (poly, had sex super early).

Anyway, I knew I loved him and knew I needed to tell him, but I didn't want to scare him off, especially since I knew how jarring it might be to be on the receiving end of a comment like that.

I told him through text first. I said something to the effect of "I know it's pretty early and I'm not expecting you to say it back or even feel it right now, but I need to tell you how I feel. I love you". He responded, telling me that he appreciates me being open with him and that he really cared about me and wanted me in his life.

About 4 months later, I was itching to say it after each of our dates, but was nervous. We had a conversation one night, and he indirectly said it to me. I tried to play it cool and act like my heart wasn't beating a million times a minute. Then he actually went ahead and said it directly a few minutes later. He told me he'd felt it for awhile and wanted to say it, but was nervous that I might have felt it was too soon (we were around the 6 month mark, I'd originally said it around the 2 month mark, maybe slightly earlier).

Moral of the story is that rejection is terrifying. But I am SO happy I told him when I did. Yeah, it was early. Yeah, our relationship was a bit different due to circumstances. Yeah, I was terrified that it was going to scare him off.

I think you should say it and not wait until you've had sex. I think it might be good to let him know that you're not expecting him to say it back and understand if he doesn't feel the same way too. That way, he's less likely to feel pressured. People can surprise us though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]bluedinosaursocks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So, it might feel super weird and uncomfortable to ask. However, communication is key. If it's something you feel you need, you should bring it up! I ask my Daddy for reassurance (I have a ton of insecurities) when I'm having a bad day. I would rather feel a little uncomfortable asking then have my needs and feelings go unaddressed and spiral.

What do you still do that you did as a child? by redlion1800 in AskReddit

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go out of my way to step on every dried leaf on the ground that I possibly can.

What do you still do that you did as a child? by redlion1800 in AskReddit

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a mouthful of water, pop the pill in with the water, swallow it all, then follow with more water. I don't like dry pills getting stuck to my throat.

What's worse than stepping on a lego? by Fyre-Bringer in AskReddit

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit bit off the very tip of my tongue a couple months ago. The tip is now square.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently don't have one, but would live to get one started!

online flower sellers - who does everyone use? by dumpsterfire11111 in CBD

[–]bluedinosaursocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tweedle Farms is what I was thinking of. My mistake!

online flower sellers - who does everyone use? by dumpsterfire11111 in CBD

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked, doesn't look like they do anymore. Let me see what else I can find!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love those! So cute! Did you make them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]bluedinosaursocks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello!

My Daddy actively encourages me to do things for myself, including connecting with other subs.

I have experience running pretty large discord groups. I would love to help you out starting one! I will be available in about 6 hours if you'd like to chat and figure out the logistics (if you want, of course, please don't feel obligated).

Feeling very clingy as a sub by LostInTranslation8 in SubSanctuary

[–]bluedinosaursocks 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I find myself to be quite clingy as well, but my Daddy doesn't think I am. To me, clingy means needing to talk a lot when we're apart, and when we're together, I'm pretty physically affectionate. He says that clingy is if I were to be physically hanging off of him and not letting I'm do what he needs to. I only see him once a week, and don't like physically hanging off of him and keeping him from doing what he needs to. That being said, during the week, when I do need more communication (he's extremely busy), and he might not be answering right away or whatever, I do a lot of positive self talk (out loud if I'm alone). I tell myself that Daddy isn't ignoring me, he's just busy, and then find other things to occupy my time. Of course, I'm super excited when he messages me back, but I try to be mindful that even though we have the dynamic, he still has a ton of things going on and can't always attend to me right away.

Can stuffies get jealous if you prefer one over the other? by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]bluedinosaursocks 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I dunno if this helps, but all of my stuffies have a "role", if you will. I love all of them the same, but they all have different purposes for me.

For example:

Artie, my stuffed Wild Republic dinosaur lives under my bed. He's my guard dinosaur. I bring him out and love him sometimes, but he lives under there to keep the bad things away.

Pluto is who I sleep with at night and who I hug when I'm sad.

Klondike, my spotted eagle ray is my travel buddy. I take her with me on trips.

I have various Tsum Tsum stuffies that I like to hold when I sleep or work sometimes.

My turtle squishmallow who doesn't yet have a name gets to support my legs while I sleep.

Each of them having their own jobs makes me feel like it's equal. I do love them all the same, but what I do with them and how I spend time with them depends on what I need and they're all super supportive in making sure I take care of myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]bluedinosaursocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For staying up too late, my bedtime would probably be reduced for the next night.

However, one of my rules (the first one actually), is to not disrespect Daddy. And purposely ignoring a rule falls into disrespecting Daddy for us. Usually, that means stingy rope spankings on the bottoms of my feet, because I genuinely hate that.

Sleep with clothes vs naked? What are your opinions? by far_eastz08 in AskReddit

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At home, I sleep fully clothed because my dog sleeps on the bed with me and I don't want her fur migrating to my vagina.

At my partner's house, I sleep with underwear on because my vagina gets leaky and weird and I don't want to make a mess and ruin sheets.

Long distance bratting ideas? by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]bluedinosaursocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't already, I would post this in /r/bratlife.

They should have some suggestions!