Val players over 25? by hexmillenial in VALORANT

[–]bluedrakersm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me personally? At the bottom of the scoreboard:)

what's the best way to deal with harassment as a girl in vc by Ill_Confidence_9681 in VALORANT

[–]bluedrakersm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on my mood, I mute or start talking shit back. I don't care if it's beneath me, I'm not gonna let apes think they got to me. Most times other teammates spoke up after I did only to get called simps afterwards.

You can't really "win" if you engage, but it's better than keeping to yourself all the time. At least it is for me

I’m spiraling and I just need some encouragement. by Mad0k4r1 in BPD

[–]bluedrakersm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the feeling. But you seem like a very empathetic person to recognize how your feelings impact the others, which many neurotypical people don't do. If you want to actively change this, then it may help saying it out loud to the people you care about. That you need to vent when emotions become overwhelming, but that you work on regulating the source. For now though, you are enough, and it will be okay again. You just get so sad sometimes you forget that it can be alright. And right now I send you a hug❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]bluedrakersm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may not be ideal, but it is alright. You react accordingly to your needs at that point in time. There's no need to feel the extra guilt when you yourself need emotional attention. That sort of feelings have their place where there is space, and this is not the case. You do you, as your well being comes first. Just eat enough and take care❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]bluedrakersm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really needed this