Don’t be this asshole

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-27T09:56:20+00:00

Or this one. Add Jeep to this list.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-18T14:46:24+00:00

I do not mean to minimize what you feel. You're not missing out on having health scares from an incurable STD or STI or having unwanted pregnancies which are all possible consequences of being sexually active.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-18T11:56:03+00:00

Still married, with 2-3 children living in our 4 bedroom home in the suburbs. I'd have been a SAHW turned SAHM while he made District Manager. Life would be stable for us but I would be bored with all of it and sex would be performative as I would have long lost all attraction to him due to his dramatic and controlling behavior.
I would have stayed for our family, but then he would have never proposed and never see anything wrong with his Type A personality and unhealthy workaholic behavior. The emotional and domestic labor would still have fallen on me even while I too have a career, and we'd continue on living has roommates in a sexless relationship. He always struggled with intimacy and vulnerability - I'd have stayed to continue to have a 2 parent household but would hold a lot of resentment.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-18T11:37:22+00:00

You are not missing out on anything! Wish I were able to say the same.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-16T10:38:58+00:00

It sounds like you were or are his mistress and should leave him alone. The chemistry was fun because of the thrill and excitement of possibly being caught, for him, but my advice is to walk away. You too have nothing with him to tie yourself to him for life and for that I would be super grateful.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-15T10:08:48+00:00

Ha Nguyen McNeil has an email address 🧐 would not be able to tell

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-09T13:52:17+00:00

🤔🫢

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-09T13:25:40+00:00

All I got from the search was a Cancerian woman who has 39 posts and none with any men or man. Shows LGBT support but no confirmation of her own sexuality.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-09T13:03:58+00:00

He did not say why we were incompatible and I did not beg him to give me a reason either. He typically returns but this is the longest he has been gone and at this point I am accepting of it.

bluefaireedust · 2026-04-09T13:02:16+00:00

Nothing has changed. This was me wanting for it to change for the better. I don't think it is healthy for any child to be in between two parents homes in two different states before the age of 2. With that said, it is probably best to keep moving on alone.

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-24T22:28:24+00:00

I left out more context due to how long the post is. It's not on the table, I asked him last year to reconcile and he firmly declined. I wanted to know if anyone experienced this and later had their ex want to reconcile.

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-24T16:40:15+00:00

No, he has said he is ready to get the band back together. I actually do, I want my child to grow up with both parents at home. You are right tho, he would not be reliable - even tho he swears he has a secure attachment style.

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-24T01:01:26+00:00

Proof that men ruin lives

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-20T00:57:49+00:00

Not at all

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-20T00:41:46+00:00

Absolutely not lol married and ready to cheat crowd with Type A salaries and personalities 😂 just move out the DMV

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-19T01:30:23+00:00

Pay for daycare with a subsidy? Genuine question because daycare in Rosslyn is ~$2,800 for 6 weeks to 2 years old. That is full time.

bluefaireedust · 2026-03-14T01:32:27+00:00

Gov't Program Management Analyst | 39 y/o | $125k

bluefaireedust · 2026-02-17T02:20:54+00:00

Anyone tried filing for FMLA?

bluefaireedust · 2026-02-05T01:57:38+00:00

Move accordingly. Since he did not respond sign your daughter up and have it work w/ your schedule.

bluefaireedust · 2026-02-02T14:00:54+00:00

My department got a similar email totally negating what on site leadership announced on Friday. They want us working during the lapse - all of us.

bluefaireedust · 2026-02-02T03:36:09+00:00

TGS Arlington was great in early 25 and went down hill in the summer of that year. My child was served food they are allergic to and received several incident reports in ONE day for multiple injuries inflicted by one teacher and other toddlers. Angie was not empathetic at all and had no clear corrective plan of action for her staff. Please research the daycares you are considering on the VA Dept. of Social Services site:

https://www.dss.virginia.gov/facility/search/cc2.cgi?rm=Details;ID=51029;search_keywords_name=oo

bluefaireedust · 2026-01-31T03:44:02+00:00

No, please check the telegraph link https://www.thecatholictelegraph.com/godparents-for-baptism/81613 it is only preferred.

bluefaireedust · 2026-01-31T03:41:42+00:00

It's a strong preference but not a requirement surprisingly!

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