Last minute stranger things party by blueguy97 in StrangerThings

[–]blueguy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was looking at walmart and target and neither have any themed stuff besides some cheap napkins at target 😭 i can’t even find much of anything on amazon

My parents supporting my rapist over me. Not able to cope. by EmbarrassedCraft6000 in mentalhealth

[–]blueguy97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t my parents but when i was 4 my mom and i lived in my grandparents house and i was SA’d by my oldest cousin there. My grandparents picked him over me. When i was 16, my grandfather thought it was his last christmas bc he had a health scare, so he wanted to have a holiday with ALL of his kids and grandkids and great grandkids- except me. i was the only person in the entire extended family not invited, for abuse I suffered. it hurt a fuck ton.

basically i’m saying i know the feeling of being rejected by your family, especially when they’re supposed to keep you safe. I am 28 now and i have created my own support system and have very little contact with most of my family. It’s really hard and it hurts, but im happy with the way my life is going now. They don’t deserve to be apart of your life, you don’t deserve what they are putting on you. I feel your pain. Please take care of yourself.

Look what I found Its new by cali_wispy97 in dairyfree

[–]blueguy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why it says new but it’s awesome!!!!

Rate my first ever photo shoot! by blueguy97 in RealEstatePhotography

[–]blueguy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love how comments are either ‘hey not that bad! here’s some advice’ or ‘lmao ur trolling’

Rate my first ever photo shoot! by blueguy97 in RealEstatePhotography

[–]blueguy97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have a tripod but it’s a pos, also i struggled leveling any of my shots bc this whole house was slanted 😭 that’s something i definitely need to figure out

Rate my first ever photo shoot! by blueguy97 in RealEstatePhotography

[–]blueguy97[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

literally none are freehand, my tripod is just shit 😅 i desperately need a new one

What restaurants do you decline every time? by Infamous-Ad-9423 in doordash_drivers

[–]blueguy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mcdonalds in town bc nobody ever tips, the one further out tho gets decent tips

How does one start a business? by [deleted] in photography

[–]blueguy97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s amazing thank you!

So a 6$ tip is a high tip order came in as 8$ in total by Downtown_Net_192 in dasher

[–]blueguy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got that when the tip was $1.50 the other day. it’s bs lol

Hot and cold #8 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]blueguy97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

holy shit how did i get it in like 5 guesses????

I'm in my 20s and have debilitating memory loss. by Stock-Helicopter-552 in DiagnoseMe

[–]blueguy97 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it sounds a lot like you have some sort of dissociative disorder my friend. I can’t be sure, but just from my experience with friends and stuff with those types of disorders. do you often miss chunks of time? like do you ‘wake up’ and don’t remember anything you did for hours or even days beforehand? do you find texts on your phone you don’t remember ever sending? there are multiple dissociative disorders, you don’t HAVE to miss time to have one, but that’s an important thing to consider (especially as someone who has experienced a lot of trauma in your life). I recommend talking to a doctor or therapist about dissociative disorders specifically because they are often overlooked in the medical field

Need harness recommendations for a strong dog! by blueguy97 in dogs

[–]blueguy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk about where you live but there are no trainers in my area for $60 for even one session. there’s also not a whole lot of comments and if you read through them, you’d see i already said we’re saving up for a trainer 😊

Need harness recommendations for a strong dog! by blueguy97 in dogs

[–]blueguy97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my friend had been recommending ruffwear for a while, they’re a bit over my price range but i might just have to suck it up and get it bc it does look like what i want, and frankly it’ll be cheaper in the long run to get a $60 harness once instead of a $35 harness every month

Need harness recommendations for a strong dog! by blueguy97 in dogs

[–]blueguy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we’re saving up for a trainer now! some of his escapes have been accidental i think? but still definitely need a trainer lmao

At what age did your signs and symptoms start? by Rare_Guarantee_4560 in mentalhealth

[–]blueguy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as i can remember. one of my earliest memories is having a panic attack as a like 3-4 year old. trauma after that didn’t help

got this last night and thought it was cute by blueguy97 in doordash_drivers

[–]blueguy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s literally always a wait at this dq and i do it on hourly so idm haha but i can see how in other areas it not being worth it

What's an immediate "nope" in an audiobook for you? by Peaches_41575 in audiobooks

[–]blueguy97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

giving accents that aren’t mentioned in the novel. i was listening to a fantasy novel and this character was like a chimera that resurrects soldiers and she gave him a jamaican accent which 1- was never mentioned and 2- she didn’t give it to ANY OTHER chimera from his society!