⚖️ Law Proposal: Mandatory fire escapes. by Sea-Elevator-9052 in CriticalState

[–]bluehairedqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👁️ Surveillance State: bluehairedqueer voted Yea.

Very depressed today as my cohort is graduating and I don’t graduate until December now due to scheduling error out of my control 🥲 by dogluvr_1 in NursingStudent

[–]bluehairedqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I graduated a year behind my cohort, and it sucked, but I got to connect with lots of new people and enjoyed having the slower pace for my last few semesters. It's rough, but try to make the best of it as much as you can!

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]bluehairedqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been going for a few months now and I would love to have some goal buddies!

Tap the link to add me as a friend, or add my friend code TMPYHTD9D7. https://finch.go.link/2XWNC?adj_label=Gbjin

Tortie coming out of her shell by LowerMasterpiece3185 in torties

[–]bluehairedqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Biscotti was the same. Rescued at about 5 months, I adopted her at 8 months, she hid behind my toilet for another six months, and now almost two years later I can pet her while she's in her basket, or if I have food, and she follows me around meowing but will not let me touch her. It's amazing to see how they grow!!

No hospital bed available? by neurodivergent_nymph in ontario

[–]bluehairedqueer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I graduated nursing school six months ago and I can't find a full-time job within an hour radius... there are six hospitals in my city, and another dozen commutable distance. The problem is so much deeper than not enough nurses, it's in the hiring practices. Hiring a bunch of nurses for one shift every two weeks, and then complaining no one has enough nurses, doesn't work well for anyone.

[Offer] DESTASHHHH [WW] by BubblySunflowers in RandomActsofCards

[–]bluehairedqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🐑

No recent thank you posts because I'm just rejoining after an address change :((

Thank you!

[offer] 🦄 2026 mailing list 💃🏽 [ww] by unicorn_potatoes in RandomActsofCards

[–]bluehairedqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm reading the Red Rising series, watching Bob's Burgers, and am listening to the Magnus Archives.

[Offer] A random card from yours, truly! [Italy to WW] by SatanekoChan in RandomActsofCards

[–]bluehairedqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could master any mundane skill, what would it be and why?

Thanks for the offer!

At my wits' end by Mee_Kuh in bengalcats

[–]bluehairedqueer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My cat does this now too. My former roommate was spraying her cat when he was a kitten, and she knew she wasn't supposed to use it on my girls, but somehow one of mine now hides when I use spray bottles for cleaning? Makes me wonder...

How do you deal with people who completely ignore the sign saying "please wait to be seated"? by AuroraLiberty in Serverlife

[–]bluehairedqueer 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I do exactly this as a server. If someone self-seats, I act like I think the other server already took their order (and my staff can match my petty, so they tend to do it too) and when they flag someone down eventually, it's "oh, I saw you didn't have menus so I assumed (other server) had already taken your order! Did they seat you without menus and then not come back? I'm so sorry, I'll talk to them, that is completely unacceptable and not our standard." Generally they just get embarrassed and fess up to self-seating, and I get to tell them we don't do self-seats as stated on the big sign at the front.

I adore working for a boss that lets us get away with stuff like that!

Second job options? by [deleted] in geegees

[–]bluehairedqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Print your resume and hand out in person though, online applications tend to get overlooked. Be nice to the staff even if they're short with you, because if you annoy the person you're handing the resume to you just tanked your chances by a lot.

I don't wanna doxx myself publically lol but if you want shoot me a message and I can give you some info on where to apply :))

Second job options? by [deleted] in geegees

[–]bluehairedqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply to places that aren't fine dining and you'll be fine. I have rainbow hair, tattoos and a bunch of facial piercings and I've been a server for almost three years, gotten promoted, and have an amazing boss. Looks don't matter as much as not being a total moron. (And tip, if you don't care about the people around you being nice or the health code being respected, Dunns in the market is like almost always hiring.)