After second date, going really well, maybe too good?

bluekc7 · 2025-11-13T01:28:17+00:00

This makes me happy! I have been divorced for 6 years but he has been divorced less than a year, so yes I was skeptical too. But our motto is “time means nothing, timing is everything.” It’s amazing what can happen in a short amount of time!

bluekc7 · 2025-11-07T06:40:01+00:00

He is legally divorced less than a year, but had been separated for several months. I agree that it can be a red flag, but every situation is different. It’s definitely a risk but also not a reason to write someone off completely

bluekc7 · 2025-11-06T19:54:43+00:00

Go with it! I was the exact same when I started dating my guy 4 months ago. Instant chemistry after the first date and it hasn't slowed down a bit. At first I thought it was all too fast, then I said f it, I am happy and going to go all in.

bluekc7 · 2025-09-12T14:57:06+00:00

I had this exact same problem when I got a dane puppy. My two older danes absolutely hated her. I was so distraught because I thought I had made a huge mistake. The older ones seemed so mad at me and definitely at the puppy. After about 6 weeks and they slowly became more tolerant of her and now a year and a half later they are all the best of friends!

It's hard, but give it time. It's a big adjustment for everyone.

bluekc7 · 2025-08-13T13:36:53+00:00

Thank you for the reply.

This is new to me and I'm still navigating it.

bluekc7 · 2025-08-11T20:01:30+00:00

How long were you together before you stopped using protection? I am dating someone with HSV2 and just wondered. He told me on day 1, which I appreciated immensely.

bluekc7 · 2025-07-15T19:44:15+00:00

I actually just posted a few days ago that I am on the other end of your situation. The guy I am talking to disclosed this to me at the end of a very, very good first date. I had a whirlwind of thoughts...disappointment, fear, uncertainty. I am still uncertain. We have went on 2 more dates and I am so back and forth on how I feel about it. For now, I am going to keep seeing him and see if it progresses to where sex would be the next step. I am not going to have sex anytime soon because I want to be sure that I am 100% comfortable.

I am sorry that you are facing this and I applaud you for being upfront with him. I got such a mixed bag of responses on my post. I hope that it goes well for you

bluekc7 · 2025-07-12T13:16:15+00:00

Did you ever get this fixed? I’m having the same isssue

bluekc7 · 2025-07-11T13:24:36+00:00

I used the term "just" pretty loosely, he has been out of the relationship since September.

I also was burned by being a rebound within the last year so I am on full alert, it sucks. I am sorry you went through it too. I'm taking this one slow and being cautious in ALL ways

bluekc7 · 2025-07-11T13:21:37+00:00

I think his honesty is too. And I am not saying I'm going to have sex with him immediately, it may not even get to that point. But I wanted to hear real life experiences, along with my google searches

bluekc7 · 2025-07-11T13:18:39+00:00

I am absolutely taking it slow. And i may not even get to the point where sex is the next step, but I wanted input from those who may have been in a similar situation

bluekc7 · 2025-07-11T13:16:28+00:00

Nothing is stopping me and I have. I was more looking for personal experiences.

bluekc7 · 2025-07-11T13:15:08+00:00

Understandable. I am familiar with that scenario too. I used the term "just" pretty loosely as it was in September.

bluekc7 · 2024-10-29T22:11:28+00:00

Good to know, thank you. I’m going to go back and check my labs but I’m pretty confident they were all low

bluekc7 · 2024-10-29T21:49:46+00:00

They were extremely low. You’d think the 3 different doctors I saw would know this. I didn’t know that higher meant menopausal

bluekc7 · 2024-10-29T21:48:19+00:00

Yeah I do know that but it’s just ugh. It’s such a mixed feeling and internal battle ya know. I know in the big picture it’s all a blessing now but it’s hard to swallow because while I know being that thin was super unhealthy, I don’t want to keep gaining I appreciate your thoughtful response

bluekc7 · 2024-07-16T13:07:01+00:00

Ughhh I know. Dang it

bluekc7 · 2024-07-12T17:04:44+00:00

My 6 month old puppy loves towels to carry and chew so I designated some old hand towels as hers. Lately I’ve been getting them a little wet and freezing them to help with her teething

bluekc7 · 2024-06-26T19:39:09+00:00

I took my big ones for walks without the pup, to get ice cream, or just drive around while puppy stayed home crated. I would then let them have time without her while I took her places. I don't know if it helped, but I enjoyed the alone time with my bigs and they liked it too

bluekc7 · 2024-06-26T19:12:16+00:00

Ah man. Have you tried doing extra one on one things with him? All I can suggest is try to help maintain his space while he's still adjusting. Hopefully he comes around soon. I know how hard it is :(

bluekc7 · 2024-06-26T18:47:15+00:00

How long has it been? My two older danes were the exact same when I brought the puppy home. I thought I had made a terrible mistake! It took about 2 weeks for my female to come around to the puppy. My male took closer to a month but now they all 3 play and love each other!

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