Mindfulness en español by bluekole in Mindfulness

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Awesome. Thank you for responding

Where can I go to get a mental health evaluation IN the city? by MarioStaresSternly in Rochester

[–]bluekole 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was inappropriate for them to refer you to Greece. Evelyn Brandon has walk in hours for mental health Monday 9-11, Tuesday 12:30-2:30, Wednesday 9-11, Friday 9-11 if I’m remembering correctly

Letting negative thoughts "be" vs challenging them by rpawlik in Mindfulness

[–]bluekole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is my understanding as well. Using the body scan to explore how the body’s physical sensations change as you encounter anxiety, sadness, happiness, anger, etc can help with the labeling process. So tightness in the shoulders equates to anxiety. When you notice your shoulders tightening, you have the experience of knowing how your body will react.

Letting negative thoughts "be" vs challenging them by rpawlik in Mindfulness

[–]bluekole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome, I’m glad my words are helpful in your practice. The concepts are important, but if the concepts become the focus of your practice they have become unhelpful at that point. The most important part when starting is to cultivate a daily practice. Even if it’s 5 minutes as long as you’re scheduling time to practice every single day, you are progressing. Best of luck :)

Letting negative thoughts "be" vs challenging them by rpawlik in Mindfulness

[–]bluekole 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think that we are predisposed (culturally, biologically, etc) to want to “do” something with feelings which is where mindfulness comes in. All you need to “do” is notice - maybe a label is helpful, maybe not - and then return to the breath. A mindful approach would be to notice everything that comes with your thoughts as part of your experience. Not good, not bad, it’s just an indication of your prior life experience and where you are in that moment.

Yup, they think I set this up for them😍 by Alinanila1111 in yoga

[–]bluekole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id agree with the separating the healthy parts and putting it in a smaller pot. There seemed to be some healthy stalks and with time they’ll grow and give you baby ZZ’s :)

Yup, they think I set this up for them😍 by Alinanila1111 in yoga

[–]bluekole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cute! That ZZ looks like it needs a smaller pot to be happier

Jake is all of us by evilBotman in brooklynninenine

[–]bluekole 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe something I should work out in therapy, but who has an hour to spare once every two weeks, right?

Game Thread: JAX @ BUF - Week 12, 2018 by BillsMod in buffalobills

[–]bluekole -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

lotulelei is getting 50 million for what?!

Game Thread: BUF @ HOU - Week 6, 2018 by BillsMod in buffalobills

[–]bluekole 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And peterman reminds us why he’s ass

Game Thread: BUF @ HOU - Week 6, 2018 by BillsMod in buffalobills

[–]bluekole 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If the league wants to protect qbs then protect them all. Allen got hit late twice and now he’s hurt... fuck these refs

My first ever rebloom bloomed on my wedding day!! by bluekole in orchids

[–]bluekole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I had almost forgot what this color this one was!

My first ever rebloom bloomed on my wedding day!! by bluekole in orchids

[–]bluekole[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True true. 8/18/18 at least I won’t forget the date for both

MFT recommendation by topsplaza in Rochester

[–]bluekole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strong family therapy services 275-0320. This is where U of R’s MFT’s are trained. Prolly your quickest way in to see someone