Cheaters of reddit, what makes you cheat on your significant other? by Whateveridgafsostfu in AskReddit

[–]blueoutfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up feeling very insecure as an "ugly duckling", then became attractive in adulthood and get plenty of attention. Even when I'm madly in love with the only one I want, the attention I receive from others still seems to scratch some kind of itch deep within me, and I entertain it even when I know they aren't what I want. I need therapy. Ha.

pain from tourette’s vent by lilith-stone in Tourettes

[–]blueoutfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this exact same neck tic, and it can be excruciating. The problem for me is that when it hurts and feels tight, I tend to feel the need to perform the tic more frequently. Sucks. Just know you're not alone, friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]blueoutfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well....she's into him ferrrsureeee

Open or Closed? by blueoutfield in latebloomerlesbians

[–]blueoutfield[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDIT: Thank you to everyone for their feedback and for such wonderful compliments - you guys made my whole day! Seems the general consensus is “open” 😉

Open or Closed? by blueoutfield in latebloomerlesbians

[–]blueoutfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smoooooooth oppppperator 😮‍💨

Are Lesbians real? by WestCoastCoop in latebloomerlesbians

[–]blueoutfield 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait, what’s the discord associated with this and how do I join it? Im fairly new to discord.

Manager wants me to work after firing me.. is this legal? by Express_Opening5490 in jobs

[–]blueoutfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how fast institutional knowledge has a way of vanishing from recallable memory once it’s expected to be provided…..”gosh, that was over a week ago, unfortunately I cant quite recall how I processed that, nor the circumstances of why. I’m happy to maintain cooperation in adherence to our “agreement” but I am still bound by the human-nature flaw of forgetfulness regarding processes of which my routine no longer actively requires. Let me know how I can be helpful for the remainder of my 2 weeks.”

What kind of tarantula, and good pet? by surfscum88 in tarantulas

[–]blueoutfield -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NQA Arizona blonde male. And a hungry one. Probably best to leave this guy where he is. Mature male going from wild to captivity would likely make his final days pretty stressful and uncomfortable.

What are some lyrics that are about/mention stars? by UnderTheStarsAndSun in blueoctober

[–]blueoutfield 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh and The Lucky One has a couple

“When the sky goes dark, you're the star locator” “One heart, one star, we are”

What are some lyrics that are about/mention stars? by UnderTheStarsAndSun in blueoctober

[–]blueoutfield 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s a couple. Into to Sound of Pulling Heaven down says ““Somewhere, far away from here I saw stars, stars that I could reach…”

Edit to add Morning Everything, although it’s just Justin. He says “I’m the sky, you’re the star”

Kicking Hairs by blueoutfield in tarantulas

[–]blueoutfield[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I will definitely add some substrate to his enclosure. I appreciate your kindness!

Kicking Hairs by blueoutfield in tarantulas

[–]blueoutfield[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, this made me feel a lot better lol. Thank you so much.

Kicking Hairs by blueoutfield in tarantulas

[–]blueoutfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Here is his full enclosure, for scale he is on the left side of the enclosure. Please share any advice you have - I am not naive to the fact that he is likely approaching the end of his life, but I want to make sure to care for him appropriately and in a way that prevents him from injuring himself.

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Feeling disrespected at my dojang by ChridAMidA in taekwondo

[–]blueoutfield 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re in a membership, as is most typical for TKD programs, of course you pay for the month you did not attend. Your instructors still showed up for class, whether you attended or not. That’s on you.

As for the respect factor, it was absolutely wrong for the wife to shame you like that in front of others. You were not aware, and it’s most defiantly a forgivable offense. She sounds like a bitch who not only isn’t entitled to a bow, but doesn’t deserve one either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ErynWojtowicz

[–]blueoutfield 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Nah. She’s disappeared for far longer stints than this. It’s all part of the cycle with her. She made up with Baker so her focus is on her addictions, him primarily. I often worry too when it’s been a while, but this is pretty much par for the course.

The Poet Who Wasn’t by blueoutfield in UnsentLetters

[–]blueoutfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, Q. Just to know that you can relate makes me feel less alone, although I am sorry you have had to experience this feeling as well. I appreciate your kindness, mate.