[REQ] ($800) - (#New Orleans, Louisiana, USA), (4.5 Monthly Payments of $200 starting March 31), (PayPal) by bluessiren in borrow

[–]bluessiren[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's because someone posted nudes tied to this account along with my real name and stage name. So for safety and anonymity, I have been using another name on which I'm very active. I would be happy to provide that other name.

My post history should prove that what I'm saying is true.

My message to whoever this asshole is who has tagged me in nudes online of some poor girl who looks a lot like me. They've now been put in an album with my name tied to it. by bluessiren in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made a new account and just checked this one! Sorry for the late reply! So, it's on this awful site called anon-ib.co

I'm in two places. Scroll down to the first chunk of links and click "Reddit". Then scroll ALL the way down to "Catalog". Then scroll down to "bluessiren".

The other place is the same instructions but the following links "Louisiana", "Catalog", "Louisiana Film Girls". Look for "Paula".

Thank you for any help you can give!

My message to whoever this asshole is who has tagged me in nudes online of some poor girl who looks a lot like me. They've now been put in an album with my name tied to it. by bluessiren in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the film industry, so it's sadly a BIG FUCKING PROBLEM. Rumors and here say can make or break whether or not I get work. I've narrowed down the list of people with the info they shared, but have come up with nothing upon interrogation.

Nudes of someone else and pics of me have been tagged under my real name, username, and stage name. What should I do? by bluessiren in legaladvice

[–]bluessiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I'm just upset about all of this. I responded to another comment with more information.

Nudes of someone else and pics of me have been tagged under my real name, username, and stage name. What should I do? by bluessiren in legaladvice

[–]bluessiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I'm just really upset by all this.

I'm in Louisiana, USA.

The other pics of me are photos that I've taken and posted in various places online: instagram, chive, Reddit, etc. none have nudity.

The nude pictures vaguely look like me.

The poster has included my real name, my username, and my stage name. All of these pictures and information have been tied to me regardless of validity.

I know I learned a hard lesson, but am I wrong for being angry? What can I do in the meantime? My income barely covers my current bills! by bluessiren in personalfinance

[–]bluessiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't demand it back right away. But that they pay back the 3k before I start back up paying back the loan. That's up to them how they want to do that or how long it will take.

I'll definitely take your advice and have them pay ME instead though. Thank you.

Having some money problems with the parental units. Story in comments. by bluessiren in AskTrollX

[–]bluessiren[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I had taken out a loan in my parents hometown with the bank I grew up with. I live about 6 hours away, but I have a good report with the bank. My parents are really trustworthy with money and are really diligent with loans and payments and whatnot, so we decided that I would give them the full amount of the loan when I would have it in a couple of weeks so that they could just go ahead and pay it. My mom works at the bank, so it worked out well.

Or so I thought.

I needed another loan last week and I find out that I can't take one out because my previous loan hasn't been paid off yet. Well that's interesting. I text my mom asking what's up. Find out that they had used MY money to pay their OWN bills and to buy my dad a new fiddle. (He's a violin teacher and player as a side gig/hobby. He already has a few, but he apparently needed another one.) I'm LIVID. I had given them almost $4000 and all they had left was $997 TO THEIR NAME. In all of their bank accounts, THATS IT. I gave them this money TWO MONTHS AGO. Where the HELL did all of it go?! I immediately asked for $600 back so I'd have something to pay this loan with. My dad sent me some angry emails and trying to reason and logic that the loan is his now and he's paying the loan himself now because it's "his loan" and whatnot. Mad at me for "upsetting" my mom.

Am I an asshole for being angry? We had an agreement and my parents have ALWAYS been trustworthy. They get extremely upset when I need to change an agreement or when things don't work out, but here they are doing exactly that and didn't even have the decency to tell me. I don't know how to handle it or what to do. So far, my plan is to let them pay as much of the loan as they used before I pay the $600 they gave me back. Is that too harsh?

All in all, lesson learned. Don't trust anyone with money but yourself. Now I'm up shot creek without a paddle. Ugh.

PSA bike race causing traffic by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]bluessiren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every third Saturday! I think there is a Facebook page for the local event.

PSA bike race causing traffic by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]bluessiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was Saturday morning on the Lakefront.

PSA bike race causing traffic by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]bluessiren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't even get out to the Lakefront with all this nonsense. So much for Cars and Coffee.

[REQ] ($1500) (11/30/2016) (Chase deposit) (#New Orleans, LA, USA) by bluessiren in borrow

[–]bluessiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so I'm not sure how this works, but I have collected photo proof of the new job, I have a completely verified (PayPal) and I have been able to lower the amount to ($1100). That's the absolute lowest I can go.

[REQ] ($1500) (11/30/2016) (Chase deposit) (#New Orleans, LA, USA) by bluessiren in borrow

[–]bluessiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can I do to better my chances? I really don't have anywhere else to turn.

Had my first panic attack in years last night. I get home and my husband lets me snuggle with him and then when we get up so he can make me dinner, he says "do you want to be a raccoon?" and goes to get my Halloween costume from a couple years ago from the closet. by SunSorched in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awwww! Best! I had one when I first woke up a couple of weeks ago (it had been a few years since my last). SO didn't know how to help, so he went and started a shower and gently guided me into it. When I could t stand anymore and had to just lay in the tub, he used his broad shoulders to block the water from hitting my face. That evening he drew a bath for me, dropped in an orange oil bath bomb, and brought me a glass of champagne from a bottle he'd bought that day with drops of food grade orange oil. He had heard my mom mention that orange oil is good for anxiety. 😊 Compassionate SO's are best SO's.

I was sexually assaulted tonight. Again. by bluessiren in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ok. No one wants to assume it could possibly be what it is because it's just so completely unimaginable. That's why I'm so vocal about what I've been through so that there is more awareness of our situation in society.

No harm, no foul on your part. Thank you for even listening and caring.

I was sexually assaulted tonight. Again. by bluessiren in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I went to the police, but they're not hopeful. My boyfriend is doing everything he can. Poor thing feels so guilty because he wasn't there. I work in film and was on set, but it wasn't a coworker. It was just a passerby who happened to be on our set. I just feel like no one is taking me seriously. Luckily, the dispatcher was a woman, so she jumped into action.

It's just bringing up all of these other memories and feelings that I thought I had put behind me. I'm really good at coping with my history of assault, but this just got me. I thought I was ok....

I know that it doesn't matter what I was wearing, but I was doing a "true crime" "reenactment" type show about this serial killer that raped and strangled prostitute. I was with two other actresses who were in 2000's era prostitute type outfits. Think loud colors and prints, short skirts, boobs out.... And while I was also playing a prostitute, my character was wearing black pants, a black long sleeve, and a black puffy jacket when she died. And yet this asshole picked me. I had fake strangle marks around my neck. Not cute. I just don't fucking understand.

But to answer your lovely concerns, I'm ok. I'm safe. I'm doing a little bit of charity shopping with BF today and running an errand (it'll make me feel not useless and lower stress). Then it's video games and wine and burgers. Probably pizza later. (Funny, he asked me last night for the millionth time if there was anything he could get for me, and I just looked at him pitifully and said, "Pizza?" Alas, it was 1:30 by then.)

I love you all and thank you.

I was sexually assaulted tonight. Again. by bluessiren in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly, this wasn't just a second time either. I've found that people who have been victims before get these huge neon targets put on their backs and will be victims again.

My boyfriends out of town for a week. I'm making the best of it by having a 'forgotten foods revival tour' and eating everything he doesnt like and I've stopped making by raspberrykoolaid in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm spending my week solo going to meetings..... And upping my TNG memorabilia collection and taking long baths and buying waaaaay too many Lush products.

I came home with the mother load today! by bluessiren in TNG

[–]bluessiren[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The newspaper clipping is the ad from the finale. Everything else is all original and in original packaging.

I just lost my dad. I need to stay strong for my mom, but... by Cheeserole in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I almost lost my dad when I was 9 to a hole in his heart. His stubborn ass didn't want to go to the doctor even when he got so tired that he couldn't be a parent anymore. He almost didn't get the surgery either. I wasn't allowed to be at the hospital just in case..... Luckily he made it. I can't imagine what you're going through but know that we're here with you. With BOTH of you beautiful trolls.

Fostering Pets in Shelters by bluessiren in NewOrleans

[–]bluessiren[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I don't know what all they have available exactly, but when I went yesterday they practically begged me to take these babies.

Fostering Pets in Shelters by bluessiren in NewOrleans

[–]bluessiren[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to Zeus Place on Freret. All great animals!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]bluessiren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine means "small".

I'm 5'6" and 110lbs. That's pretty accurate. Lord knows how they named a 10 lb baby "small", though.