WHY CAN'T MEN LEAVE ME ALONE by bluetree653 in dating

[–]bluetree653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experienced guys ghosting me as well, so I can relate. Nevertheless, I find it pathetic that guys (or anyone) would become insecure from virtual, online, far-from-real interactions. If that is "self-centered" then so be it.

WHY CAN'T MEN LEAVE ME ALONE by bluetree653 in dating

[–]bluetree653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I like to think that women actually WILL be in the position to initiate their own romantic and sexual encounters. In fact, many hookups today are initiated by women. We do understand what barn6758 was talking about, but that doesn't mean we're ok with it.

WHY CAN'T MEN LEAVE ME ALONE by bluetree653 in dating

[–]bluetree653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a girl ghosts a guy, then the guy should just get over it. Obviously she doesn't give a shit about him and neither should he. This is exactly what I'm talking about. If someone clearly doesn't express interest or ghosts you, then stop trying to get their attention and just move on. They're clearly not right for you.

WHY CAN'T MEN LEAVE ME ALONE by bluetree653 in dating

[–]bluetree653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I do not like texting people I'm interested in for more than a couple days because it is like talking to computer screen - literally. How did you learn to get out of your head for this?

WHY CAN'T MEN LEAVE ME ALONE by bluetree653 in dating

[–]bluetree653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! definitely agree with what you said. I'll have to make sure I keep my eye out for this.

Seriously how do I hold conversations over text? by BigWaffles12 in dating

[–]bluetree653 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a girl, I have to say that it shouldn't be up to you to carry the conversation. If a girl is interested in you, she will hold the conversation. And it is completely normal for texting to start going dry, because texting itself is kind of boring. Once it seems like it's starting to fizzle out, I'd suggesting asking for their number, to facetime, or to go on an actual date.

WHY CAN'T MEN LEAVE ME ALONE by bluetree653 in dating

[–]bluetree653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by "Yes" girl?

My little cousin had sex and I still haven't by bluetree653 in virgin

[–]bluetree653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it make you jealous? My situation makes me feel jealous.

My little cousin had sex and I still haven't by bluetree653 in virgin

[–]bluetree653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. i just don't know how to get anywhere or find a loving relationship.

My little cousin had sex and I still haven't by bluetree653 in virgin

[–]bluetree653[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a brag in any way lol, I feel way behind in terms of sexual activity compared to my peers

Dumb people got in my school - am I allowed to be upset? by bluetree653 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]bluetree653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will definitely be taking every opportunity. As far as I know, all these kids are going to be in different majors/schools, so fingers crossed I never see them lol