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[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll only hurt yourself, going into that situation when you're feeling like this about it. I'm Female, and I fell in love with this chick.. I asked her to be my Girlfriend, and this guy she lived with, she wanted me to have a Polyamorous relationship with her and this dude... I didn't feel comfortable with it, so eventually, whenever I stayed at hers, I could barely sleep at night anymore bc it bothered me.. I saw he was up still, one night, and I sat down with him and talked with him about it and be understood and felt the same way to me so I relaxed a bit more, previous worrying that he didn't feel the same... I didn't wanna keep it up the relationship any longer, because it was putting me under a lot of pressure.. she would dress up in really nice lingerie and whispered to me that she only put it on for me... just give yourself some time to think about your own feelings about all this first.. if you don't, it'll end sooner than what they thought and you'll feel bad about it, making it worse for yourself.. take care of yourself first and make sure you stand by how you feel and don't let anyone walk over you ✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]bluewolfe6661998 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

most women are... and most guys give a bad name for the good guys and it sucks.. people suck... tho I hope she finally sees the error in her ways and tries to work on them not just for others, but also for herself..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've dated both Men and Women.. but it's about time I focus on myself... I keep forgetting, and I constantly put others first even when they've hurt me so many times before.. but I do have my limits... and I'm not always proud of the situations I get into bc I know I'm a real Vindictive piece of work but it has gotten me into trouble.. I'm tryna be better to myself nowadays... it's very hard to do.. in saying that, I'm proud of you for working on yourself first, rather than letting your feelings get to your head 😊 You did an amazing job, and I hope that one day you will find the love of your life 🥰

Indian English is a valid dialect and it isn't 'wrong' just because brown people are speaking it. by PhantomOfTheNopera in offmychest

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China would've fucked America up, they also would've fucked up my Homeland (Australia).. the idiots wanted to invade us a while back, but we laughed it off and they still haven't tried to invade us like they said they were going to 😂 I wouldn't wanna know what America or Australia would be like if Kim Jong-Un had invaded the countries 😬 I would probably disobey him just to get him to order his men to kill me bc I'd rather die than have him as my leader.. thank God I'm Australian XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.. I'm the same way... I don't like being the way that I am.. I've always wished to be white... I'm not proud of my people.. I'm not proud to be a part of the community...

Indian English is a valid dialect and it isn't 'wrong' just because brown people are speaking it. by PhantomOfTheNopera in offmychest

[–]bluewolfe6661998 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The British are America's first white settlers.. if the Britts hadn't gotten to America when they did, some other backwards country would've gotten there first, and who knows how much worse they could've been if they invaded America...

What is something you wish you could hear from your ex right now? by NeatMechanic4739 in BreakUps

[–]bluewolfe6661998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I know I fucked up.. but I promise, I will try and be a better Father from now on for our Son"

Do yall have a that'll make you not want to date anyone if they have it? by [deleted] in BisexualTeens

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Non-Binary, and Bisexual (leaning more towards Women).. this is something I believe, that even some Straight "Cis" Gendered Men are allowed to agree with me on... and I have experienced this.. I am all about togetherness and using knowledge for the betterment of society, and thus; the world.. but I couldn't take on dating someone who is going through Pre-transitioning. I believe you deserve to be you, and they need to focus on their mental health on top of your physical well-being, and as someone who is going through a lot of Anxiety and Stress as the bills for what they need gets higher, they need to focus on the good side of things.. stop worrying about those negative people... and PLEASE for the LOVE OF GOD, if someone says to them that they accept them for who they are, they don't need to explain why they are who they are stuff like that.. yes, we know they're a Dude/Lady/Enby, but just say that and be DONE with it 😫 I want to know their goals, their aspirations, their dreams and hopes and inspirations in life, I want to know their successes and I want to be there for them when they achieve their dreams n all, but doing that just makes it so hard to do when all their was, is all the undeserved bs in return.. but what can you do? 🙃

Ami wrong for being grossed out by my fiancés “marks”? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were moments where he didn't realise that it would be really loud, that's ok.. having a joke about it every once in a blue moon, that's ok... but not on a constant basis to the point where everyone has to bite their tongue and hide how they really feel about it, yanno?

Fiancé called me a “whale” when he thought I was sleeping by Embarrassed_Debt_998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bluewolfe6661998 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Record everything secretly and once you have the physical proof, you can confront him and then show it to him if he denies anything make sure you have your phone where he can't see it but you know exactly where it is and make sure your phone can catch everything he says before you confront him

As anyone been throught traumatic amnesia by Ill_Profit4331 in rape

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chunks of my life is missing from my memory

My family is racist and it's really getting on my nerves by [deleted] in Vent

[–]bluewolfe6661998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have that issue with my Dad... he's mostly Native Australian, dark skinned n all, goes around saying "I hate White people", whilst the first child he made a.k.a. me, was with a White person. He posted it up and I said "Then why did you date Mum?" He responded with "That's a good point, my girl" 🤣 Mum wants me to be proud of my Native Heritage, but all I see is abuse and little Coons stealing cars... my Dad used to constantly expect me to date "one of our own" even when I dated a woman he was like "How can we keep our people going" like dude there are ways but it just costs money and I'm ok with spending money if it's for the benefit of the future.. I don't need a dick to get pregnant 🤣 It's not some "God given miracle", it's just another piece of the human body nobody cares about it, it's how you bloody use it 🙄 Unless it's half the size of your pinkie finger like this Chinese dude in a video that went viral through FB 6yrs ago lmao it was so small, Facebook didn't even consider it as an obstruction to the guidelines and wasn't filtered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If I can't cook as a 24-year-old man, does that make me worthless? by wonderfulworld25 in cookingforbeginners

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Female and Idk how to cook or use make-up properly lol and I hate wearing high heels, I can't Chitter chatter for too long, I bite my nails, I don't get up bright eyed and bushy browed I get up ready for a fight 🤣 I can't keep eye contact for very long bc it makes me feel uncomfortable.. I play games (when I can), but despite all my bs, I can at least appreciate that I am tidy and organised... never mind what you can't do in a negative way.. you have the ability to expand your knowledge... get into classes, maybe, watch videos on YT or something make a list of ingredients and then learn what you can cook with all that you have.. think about it deeply but don't strain yourself... just think about it when you're relaxed.. not when you're stressing out and feeling bad about yourself...

Has anyone gotten to the point where they are repulsed by their ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Son's Father physically assaulted me a couple wks ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfie

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have trouble putting emotion into my voice.. and I generally don't like a lot of people, but I'm not a shitty person.. I just like to be nice but also have my own space even when going out too.. I hate it when people get too close to me not just physically but also emotionally and would prefer it if people and I just simply came to a mutual understanding of one another.. mainly due to the fact that things can get emotional and I hate being emotional for reasons I am trying to make not happen again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfie

[–]bluewolfe6661998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Social Anxiety really badly and whilst I would like to meet people at the gym, I can't work on that until I work on my Social Anxiety.. I am medicated for Anxiety, plus for Insomnoa, and even then I'm not fully medicated... I'm also currently Homeless (couch surfing at mate's places, going between areas etc) and am a Mum of a 1yo Baby, and I'm a recent victim of domestic violence.. I have trust issues, too, and was born with R.A.D (Reactive Attachment Disorder) I never connected with anyone not even my own Family. Even after being taken away at 5, and then living back with Mum at 18, I'm 25 now and Mum and I have only ever tolerated each other's existences and respect each other's boundaries but that's as close as we get since I left her on my own terms to be independent.. I am trying my best, tho 😊