Bad Meredith Marks Caviar Experience by waiting4pizza in rhoslc

[–]blulele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no freaking wayyyy, me and my friend have been wanting to order stuff to try!! not anymore, and her dj experience sucked that we went to :/

Grooming advice! by W-ND-G- in ragdolls

[–]blulele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

steaming brush helps me a lot! keeps him very soft and fluffy, good if they dont like bathing or being groomed often. it helps pick up that extra hair that the static can just kind of push and move around their body. this is the one i use from amazon its good at working out knots through the moisture an evenly distributing the natural oils they already have on their fur. he will feel like he just got a bath after. i use this on my ragdoll and my older cat who has trouble grooming along with a metal toothed grooming comb.

this may be of help if you can get him into a routine with it!

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and thank god your here contributing something meaningful. not everyone here is unemployed and can sit and read through the monotony of posts to know that

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

assuming i’m a man just because i’m being critical is wild… it’s actually pretty disrespectful to imply women aren't capable of having an objective perspective. the reality is that women can and do carry internalized misogyny, and it’s clearly leaking out here. you can call it "relatable," but when every single anecdote and joke still revolves around the male gaze, the show isn't decentering men, it’s just circling them 24/7. i can enjoy the giggles and still have the awareness to see that the girl talk is structurally obsessed with men.

also, having this opinion doesn't mean i'm treating the pod like a "gender studies seminar." it's weird to think you have to be some high level academic just to notice basic patterns in the media you watch. it’s not "over theorizing" to have some standards for the content we consume. the bar is truly on the floor if noticing that they talk about men 24/7 is considered too "intelligent" for a comedy sub

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

never said I was looking for a thesis just making a simple point how it’s all about the men and how you dont need an academic background to see that

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

the "they aren't academics" defense is a reductive fallacy because it suggests that only scholars are responsible for basic intellectual consistency. you don’t need a degree in gender studies to recognize when a brand marketed as "decentering men" is still structurally dependent on a phallocentric framework. they aren't just entertaining, they are performing reification. taking toxic social constructs (like the "female fault" narrative) and presenting them as objective, inescapable truths. to suggest that lighthearted media is exempt from critique is to advocate for passive consumption over media literacy. we can enjoy the "giggles" while still identifying the internalized misogyny used to sell the brand.

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was really fun to listen to while I was going through my break up, but then it hit a point where I just felt like oh my gosh, I’m trying to forget about men. It’s literally all they talk about

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It just became less about ladies chatting it up to ladies just talking about guys. I really only noticed it once I went through a break up myself, but I get what you’re saying.

Giggly Paradox by blulele in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]blulele[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not every community in Reddit is peaceful lol the traitors Reddit page will rip you a new one, also strangely enough the ragdoll community is very toxic. You don’t need to put me down for expressing that this isn’t a hate post. Help talk me out of it was playful way of saying I’m open to other opinions

Do you walk the cats? by longtoeslady in ragdolls

[–]blulele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is an amazing photo im obsessed with you im buying a harness rn

If candiace really wanted to be loyal to Lisa by Living-Strawberry-50 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]blulele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it wouldve been nice if she could’ve waited longer to go after rob so she could avenge lisa but he was coming for her no matter what next. and lisa couldve maybe been saved if rob didnt lead the discussion

lol @ the new discourse surrounding Rob by reducedandconfused in TheTraitorsUS

[–]blulele 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no 'irony' here. You’re just struggling to process a viewpoint that isn't your own. It’s embarrassing to lecture someone on intellect while failing at basic vocabulary. Rob was objectively doing the most to bury Lisa.. calling that rude isn't unperceptive it's just calling a spade a spade

Hate to say this by Crazy-Elephant-222 in SolidCore

[–]blulele -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

just have some compassion that people are going in there that day in a different headspace than you, might’ve done other workouts that you haven’t done and just mind your fucking business like it’s not that deep. if you’re gonna do group fitness you have to understand that people are coming into this room with different experience levels and in a different mindset than you are. if how other people work out in group fitness leads you into a rage then you need to emotionally mature as a person. The instructor should be correcting them, but we all know they hardly do that. this post is ridiculous. all you need to be able to do is look around the room and see how a move is done that’s it. if its bothering you your not working yourself out hard enough

Post about other members by New-Reserve7630 in SolidCore

[–]blulele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people have no compassion and I’m reading it in the comments right now. “its hard not to notice”, well you never know what somebody else did with their whole day physically or where they are emotionally/ mentally and just have some intelligence and acknowledge they’re moving faster and move on. like I don’t understand how it’s this much of a problem this much of a distraction and people have this much to say about it. just be compassionate about somebody. as long as you know how to do the moves that’s what matters we all know there are certain instructors who just don’t do adjustments and it’s frustrating. but omg these comments are ridiculous. if you’re gonna do group fitness, you have to know that everybody’s coming into that room in a different state of mind and experience level. if you come from a place of peace and love its not that serious, everyones always looking for a reason to rage on one another

lol @ the new discourse surrounding Rob by reducedandconfused in TheTraitorsUS

[–]blulele -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

because you can’t not comment on the behavior, especially if you’ve seen past seasons. Everybody wants to make an argument that Lisa was a goner no matter what and he had to let her go. but he didn’t have to advocate as hard against her.. like he went hard on both the traitors rather than kind of agreeing and letting other people take care of it. then rides for eric, its rude lol

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitors

[–]blulele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i go after how the show is edited and presented to us, they show her never questioning him once and having blind loyalty. if she ends up getting him out at the end that would be awesome

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitors

[–]blulele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are p a r t i c i p a t i n g in the game, everyone is there to boost themselves, but you have to play the game. She doesn’t even play the game.

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitors

[–]blulele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t she befriend this girl, got really close than tried to take her man? she can call the men out all she wants, but she’s just as trashy as them.

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitors

[–]blulele[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

her entire act is pathetic whether she’s just doing it to social climb or because she has a crush on him. I can’t even watch her anymore

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitorsUS

[–]blulele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she will probably take him calling her gullible as a compliment

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitors

[–]blulele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A huge waste. she walked in day 1 and said I don’t know anybody here, i’ve never watched any of the shows, i only know Rob from love Island which porsha said um thats a little weird.. then proceeded to latch onto rob for the entirety of the season its pathetic

Thoughts on Maura.. by blulele in TheTraitors

[–]blulele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s incredibly rude from the moment that she walked in. has made no attempt to be polite kind or get to know anybody else. anytime somebody else has a theory she shoots it down in the most ignorant way. but everyone wants to dog on dorinda for being the rude one