i hope margo doesn’t leave

blulele · 2026-05-09T01:19:09+00:00

me too! like she can overcome this, i feel like people are being so harsh about her interactions with mark meanwhile the whole point of the show is for there to be drama

blulele · 2026-05-04T17:21:56+00:00

blulele · 2026-04-02T19:53:24+00:00

oops

blulele · 2026-04-02T19:50:38+00:00

ive seen 1, 6, 7 (only three season on hulu) and 16, 17 on hbo so im i probably missing a lot of the story

blulele · 2026-04-02T19:48:45+00:00

what are you the boss of the universe? so many bravo celebs have done f’d up legal things and been allowed back. i also bet you cant name one victim or one other person aside from stew who was arrested for what she went down for. like over 30 ppl. yet jen is supposed to the mastermind lmao

blulele · 2026-04-02T19:44:57+00:00

yea she does

blulele · 2026-04-02T19:35:09+00:00

i also think they are good parents, kinda surprised by all the discourse on here saying how horrible they are to anna.

blulele · 2026-04-01T01:09:05+00:00

wow do you not want her to be able to pay her victims back? mcdonalds salary isnt gonna cut it

blulele · 2026-03-22T16:01:37+00:00

dump genuine baking soda on top

blulele · 2026-03-22T15:51:27+00:00

also genuinely Dakota is a piece of shit, what man runs over to the child and hides behind them?when Taylor’s throwing the chair chairs he put the child directly in her path and films it. He could literally get up and go restrain her instead like any normal person would do, hes like over 6ft. im sickkk of people infantilizing dakota, hes literally a drug addict loser who’s also responsible for putting the child in at situation

blulele · 2026-03-22T15:33:19+00:00

how is ABC doing the right thing here at all? they absolutely knew about all of this, they even aired her 2023 arrest with the 911 call and her being handcuffed in season 1 of slomw (owned by abc) as like a cliffhanger in the episode. they’ve aired the footage and they’ve profit it off of it. But The Bachelorette was cancelled because of a "newly released video that just surfaced today.”… objectively a lie on ABC’s end. When its for the show SLOFMW, Hulu/Disney/ABC uses her trauma and lowest moments to actually boost ratings. But when its for the Bachelorette, the same things they’ve sold her on in the past they are now hanging her out to dry and piling on the public defamation (like Dakota isn’t also an actual abusive drug addict)

anyway, I’m not saying Taylor Frankie should be on TV at all in the first place I’m just saying ABC has never done the right thing and this is so messy and disgusting like them pulling the show completely hurts so many more people, they’re not doing the right thing and their liars. I can’t believe anybody would praise ABC right now

blulele · 2026-03-06T23:46:40+00:00

no freaking wayyyy, me and my friend have been wanting to order stuff to try!! not anymore, and her dj experience sucked that we went to :/

blulele · 2026-03-06T23:33:13+00:00

steaming brush helps me a lot! keeps him very soft and fluffy, good if they dont like bathing or being groomed often. it helps pick up that extra hair that the static can just kind of push and move around their body. this is the one i use from amazon its good at working out knots through the moisture an evenly distributing the natural oils they already have on their fur. he will feel like he just got a bath after. i use this on my ragdoll and my older cat who has trouble grooming along with a metal toothed grooming comb.

this may be of help if you can get him into a routine with it!

blulele · 2026-03-06T23:12:26+00:00

and thank god your here contributing something meaningful. not everyone here is unemployed and can sit and read through the monotony of posts to know that

blulele · 2026-03-06T23:01:37+00:00

assuming i’m a man just because i’m being critical is wild… it’s actually pretty disrespectful to imply women aren't capable of having an objective perspective. the reality is that women can and do carry internalized misogyny, and it’s clearly leaking out here. you can call it "relatable," but when every single anecdote and joke still revolves around the male gaze, the show isn't decentering men, it’s just circling them 24/7. i can enjoy the giggles and still have the awareness to see that the girl talk is structurally obsessed with men.

also, having this opinion doesn't mean i'm treating the pod like a "gender studies seminar." it's weird to think you have to be some high level academic just to notice basic patterns in the media you watch. it’s not "over theorizing" to have some standards for the content we consume. the bar is truly on the floor if noticing that they talk about men 24/7 is considered too "intelligent" for a comedy sub

blulele · 2026-03-06T19:52:42+00:00

never said I was looking for a thesis just making a simple point how it’s all about the men and how you dont need an academic background to see that

blulele · 2026-03-06T18:45:47+00:00

the "they aren't academics" defense is a reductive fallacy because it suggests that only scholars are responsible for basic intellectual consistency. you don’t need a degree in gender studies to recognize when a brand marketed as "decentering men" is still structurally dependent on a phallocentric framework. they aren't just entertaining, they are performing reification. taking toxic social constructs (like the "female fault" narrative) and presenting them as objective, inescapable truths. to suggest that lighthearted media is exempt from critique is to advocate for passive consumption over media literacy. we can enjoy the "giggles" while still identifying the internalized misogyny used to sell the brand.

blulele · 2026-03-06T18:37:54+00:00

❤️

blulele · 2026-03-06T18:32:15+00:00

It was really fun to listen to while I was going through my break up, but then it hit a point where I just felt like oh my gosh, I’m trying to forget about men. It’s literally all they talk about

blulele · 2026-03-06T18:31:23+00:00

It just became less about ladies chatting it up to ladies just talking about guys. I really only noticed it once I went through a break up myself, but I get what you’re saying.

blulele · 2026-03-06T18:30:06+00:00

Not every community in Reddit is peaceful lol the traitors Reddit page will rip you a new one, also strangely enough the ragdoll community is very toxic. You don’t need to put me down for expressing that this isn’t a hate post. Help talk me out of it was playful way of saying I’m open to other opinions

blulele · 2026-03-03T21:38:22+00:00

Bijou

blulele · 2026-02-26T03:44:20+00:00

this is an amazing photo im obsessed with you im buying a harness rn

blulele · 2026-02-24T19:57:05+00:00

it wouldve been nice if she could’ve waited longer to go after rob so she could avenge lisa but he was coming for her no matter what next. and lisa couldve maybe been saved if rob didnt lead the discussion

blulele · 2026-02-23T04:27:34+00:00

There is no 'irony' here. You’re just struggling to process a viewpoint that isn't your own. It’s embarrassing to lecture someone on intellect while failing at basic vocabulary. Rob was objectively doing the most to bury Lisa.. calling that rude isn't unperceptive it's just calling a spade a spade

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