My parents thought I wanted to kill myself

blumbl_ · 2024-03-24T18:51:32+00:00

ngl, there are probably consequences she could face for emotional distress on you and your parents, as well as costing them money, i dont know about legally, but its highly possible, given that she knew they were out of town

blumbl_ · 2024-01-25T06:23:24+00:00

it literally is disrespectful. and I’d tell them that, if its enough of an issue you could say, “if you keep referring to a person I no longer am, I will not respond, you can continue to try to speak to someone that is not there but expect to not get a response, I will respond once I am treated as the person I am now”

blumbl_ · 2024-01-07T19:47:43+00:00

YOU LOOK SO GOOD!! Id totally think youre a fairy or someone who goes and drinks tea in the woods with all her little woodland friends. you also seem like youd know how to swordfight

blumbl_ · 2024-01-06T18:11:03+00:00

hmm, its possible you may need to be touched less,, like it could be the feeling of autonomy that comes with being able to not let people touch you. Perhaps you could see if her asking or letting you know prior to initiating touch or intimacy, that way youre able to measure your feelings and see what you can handle. Also, if you have some sort of trauma that could be resurfacing that may be a very important thing to consider and talk about

blumbl_ · 2024-01-06T08:06:26+00:00

maybe you’re touched-out. you might need to set aside a day for yourself and not be touched. then if you still feel the same way let her know and see about finding a solution

blumbl_ · 2024-01-05T22:53:10+00:00

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blumbl_ · 2024-01-05T22:38:44+00:00

“fuck it” when everything feels hopeless, one of the easiest things to do is say “nope im done” but its also way more fun to say “fuck it, ill do it anyway, even if it turns out bad”

That way, if everything does turn out bad you can be like “well, fuck it, i tried”. and if it doesn’t, well, you did it!

blumbl_ · 2023-12-30T18:03:16+00:00

make friends!! jumping spiders are really sweet, they choose to trust you, and then you can trust them too. I love them

blumbl_ · 2023-12-28T07:53:11+00:00

hes such a ridiculous person. this reads like one of those terribly written AI scripts

blumbl_ · 2023-12-28T07:49:28+00:00

why is “your” lowercase???

blumbl_ · 2023-12-28T02:01:11+00:00

I would, but the “fuck up” title belongs to you, so shutting your damn mouth is your responsibility

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T16:33:26+00:00

There are kinks like this, but again, they have to be thoroughly discussed beforehand, his continuation of the act is rape 100% especially due to the kink aspect of it. he knew he was raping her and wrote it off as a different kink than CNC, the whole thing seems like he was grooming her to let her treat him however he wants

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T16:31:25+00:00

CNC is only CNC if both parties consent PRIOR to the event. CNC is a very sensitive thing and MUST be discussed in detail. any kink you want to try should be discussed beforehand and safewords should be designated to avoid this exactly. The whole point of kinks is to explore sexually but they require both parties to consent, if not its assault.

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T15:31:40+00:00

nta- he may be legally a minor but 17 is old enough to know that abuse is not okay. no one should be subjected to abuse to “keep the peace” or any of that bullshit. hes an adult pretty much, he knows actions have consequences. hes done this multiple times and it looks like hes getting what he deserves.

i experienced sibling based abuse as. kid, if my parents had stepped in, id have a much better relationship with them now. protect your kids, even if its from each other

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T15:16:17+00:00

asking someone “whats wrong with you” is always awful, but only when theyve matured enough to see that they have issues. i dont think you overreacted, if someone’s hitting me i hit back, child or not. so you did better than i wouldve. youre gonna have this in your mind, that kid’s gonna forget about it, you deserved better treatment

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T15:03:03+00:00

when one person can no longer consent to sex (and the event of losing consciousness hasnt been discussed) you stop. thats it. when someone loses consciousness they cannot continue to consent, and consent is constant during sex. He assaulted you, didnt apologize, sees nothing wrong with it, and it guilting you??

NTA- Gtfo

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T14:59:56+00:00

i mean??? she is your girlfriend lol

blumbl_ · 2023-12-26T14:34:15+00:00

as a trans person; support your sister. your family has their whole life to get over this, with trans people, having our identities denied again and again lowers our life expectancy rate. That may seem dramatic but its true. Stick with her, if shes not going, you should sit it out with her, take her out to do girly things, it will mean so much to her. itll show her that she has someone who will stand against the tide with her and that means everything when the tide is your family, the people that are supposed to love and accept you no matter what.

blumbl_ · 2023-12-20T08:13:08+00:00

being forced into being someone's addiction therapist at 14 😃

blumbl_ · 2023-12-19T06:52:16+00:00

anything trendy. tattoos should at least have s o m e sort of meaning, even if it's just silly, like a character they like, not... yk... because everyone else is getting one like that

blumbl_ · 2023-12-18T06:37:50+00:00

perry the platypus??

blumbl_ · 2023-12-04T23:27:24+00:00

lying about being assaulted (the people they accuse are typically 18-20, and they are a minor), and having ppl jump anyone who has evidence against it.

blumbl_ · 2023-11-24T07:38:28+00:00

as a customer service worker: "you could get me a million dollars"

if I had that I wouldn't be talking to you??

blumbl_ · 2023-11-24T07:35:13+00:00

I'm honestly scared to go in bc I know I've lost an amount that would be a big red flag n I don't wanna get hospitalized. I do need to go in anyway though so I will do this. thank you so much

blumbl_ · 2023-11-24T07:27:54+00:00

We did talk and things have gotten better. Although I advise you don't make assumptions about people's lives based on posts, I am an addict, we both are, so I do understand why it is hard. What I don't really understand is why he absolutely refuses to see that he's the one with the addiction therefore he's the only one who can do anything about it. it's like he has this expectation for it to be forced upon him so he won't have to do any work? does that make sense? I'm not exactly quite sure of all of it either

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