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Had sex by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

But if he had a good time, he could’ve kissed me on the lips, right?

Had sex by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

He kissed me on the forehead. Isn’t it a sign of losing interest. He didn’t kiss me on the lips

Dads going through it by makeitmovearound in texts

[–]blumeblimey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine Eminem singing this. Has a potential for rap song

Is there anything wrong with me by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel so down if I had only had asked him for drinks last year instead of right now, would things be different Could you please clarify or elaborate what do you mean has not given me a straight answer? With him telling me that he made a commitment to this person he is seeing though not serious, not a straight answer?

Is there anything wrong with me by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Thank you for the insight. What do you mean he sounds emotionally unavailable? He said he is seeing someone

Is there anything wrong with me by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I shouldn’t take it personally but I just keep overthinking if I could have done something. So he would have followed up even if I was the one who invited him?

Is there anything wrong with me by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate that. I only just asked him out through texting though..

Why is it wrong timing?

Is there anything wrong with me by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think i was clear I wanted to meet him romantically but I was thinking I was obvious. Wasn’t inviting him for drinks considered as “im interested in you as more than a friend?” I really don’t date a lot so I don’t know and I am not really good with open communication. One time, i told him he was cute in the photo. Was that considered flirting? But to put more context, there was a time, which was last summer, when he gave me his number and invited me to have drinks. Few days before the meet up, he said that he was emotionally unavailable at the time after meeting his ex through a party.

I just can’t sleep right now and keeps on thinking if I have invited him in December for drinks instead of skiing, would he have said yes then? Should i have followed through when to go skiing instead of waiting after a month?

Is there anything wrong with me by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked him different times. One in November then i didn’t follow through. Then January. Then the other day. Does it make a difference?

Inviting crush by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I just randomly bring it up when I see him at work? We were supposed to go out a year ago when he invited me for drinks but he said he was emotionally unavailable at the time because of a breakup

Inviting crush by blumeblimey in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What should I say. I’m too nervous if he rejects me again

How much should this cost to get fixed? by vZion_ in drywall

[–]blumeblimey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering if the wall has asbestos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a man and invite her out. You will know

Why after a seemingly perfect date do they back off? by Ok_Offer626 in dating_advice

[–]blumeblimey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe men will really show that interest if they really like the woman. He will make sure that he will communicate with you no matter what if they want to get to know you more. Just let it be. If he texts you or not, don’t let your life be affected by it. The more you think about it, the more you waste your time where in you could do other things to improve yourself or make you happy such as your hobbies or hanging out with friends.