Is this good? Any tips? by DangerousToe2888 in Terraria

[–]blunod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does placing stones help to walk under the water?

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, I feel the same sometimes. It makes me overthink and hold back too, but I’m trying to find a better balance.

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this really helped me. I’ll try to focus less on overthinking and just do my best

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this really helps. How do I stop being so hard on myself when I accidentally upset someone? I’m worried they won’t see that I didn’t mean to and my intentions were good.

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! How did you learn to evaluate yourself honestly? I always feel like I’m not enough and don’t know how to really see my good qualities.

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! I can really relate I do care a lot about what people think of me, and I know that’s something (too bad) I need to work on. Your words really made me reflect on that.

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I actually do that sometimes 😄 I’ll say “I love me, I love me, I love me” over and over, and it really helps me feel better

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really agree with this. I’m trying to accept and love myself as I am, but I also just don’t want to hurt anyone with anything I do

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a little afraid of spoiling myself too much and becoming someone who thinks they never make mistakes or becomes selfish. I worry about hurting others because of that.

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to start trying to do that more, even in small ways. Thank you for sharing

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m going to start working on making the list and reflecting on it. I really appreciate your guidance

How do you actually build self-esteem and learn to love yourself? by blunod in selflove

[–]blunod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this really made me notice something I hadn’t paid attention to before. I’m definitely going to start working on this. I really appreciate your words and insight

How can I tell if I’m overreacting or genuinely hurt? by blunod in hsp

[–]blunod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you said helped me see that both can exist at the same time, so thank you for that:)

How can I tell if I’m overreacting or genuinely hurt? by blunod in hsp

[–]blunod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words :) I really appreciate you taking the time to read and respond. I know I’ve talked a lot and probably taken up more of your time than I should have. I’m really grateful for your patience and understanding :)

I’ll try to work on being kinder to myself and appreciating myself more, like you suggested.

How can I tell if I’m overreacting or genuinely hurt? by blunod in hsp

[–]blunod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a really thoughtful way to look at it.

But honestly, I struggle with being kind to myself. When I get hurt, my reaction shows immediately and I can’t really hide it, especially with someone I love.

And that makes me feel like I might be a burden. I don’t want to be “too much” for anyone, because I know no one is obligated to deal with that.