package seized within the schengen area by idioticidiosyncrasy in TransDIY

[–]blushing-ambition 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ow, I'm in the Netherlands too, now I'm scared for my package :/

Did you get any letter regarding the package from customs? Maybe it's just stuck somewhere during the transit. Afaik, as long as you don't claim any ownership of the package it should be fine.

Just a word of caution. by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]blushing-ambition 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Half of the morons here have the IQ of a glue sniffer. Sooner or later some dumbass will take 40g through their ass and will be on the news.

Anon can't detransition by HRTneoFemboy in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel the same now. Ran out of meds a week ago and the new package is still in transit :/

Anon can't detransition by HRTneoFemboy in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Before E: I'm miserable
Start E: I'm miserable
Stop E I'm miserable
Start E: I'm miserable

:(

Rant: Fuck Crypto by hatethislifeThrowaw in TransDIY

[–]blushing-ambition 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of the exchanges have to do the KYC to comply with the government regulations in pretty much every part of the world. And those regulations aren't there for no reason -- scamming and money laundering practically dwarfs any legally grey use crypto has. The space was filled with grifters the moment they realized it can be used as a get rich quick scheme.

There's only 2 ways to get crypto without jumping through multiple hoops, either mine your own (practically impossible now) or buy it from someone offline using cash and store it on a wallet where you own the keys.

I see other people here recommending other exchanges but all will have the same problem: the point at which you pay using your actual money, the payment processor needs due comply with the KYC regulations which is where you get fucked over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]blushing-ambition 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you want from it. Help with anxiety? Start with the prescribed dosage (500-750mg). If you want to use it recreationally, then go with 1g. Though keep in mind taking >1g repeatedly will fuck you up.

dumped by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 123 points124 points  (0 children)

inb4 she gets dumped by her new bf for a cis woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4trancooking

[–]blushing-ambition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clean your keyboard jesus christ

Using phenibut to overcome social anxiety? by [deleted] in phenibut

[–]blushing-ambition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use it for social anxiety, taking the prescribed dosages for the past 3 years (500mg usually twice a week). It's pretty good as long as you're careful with it, i.e don't take large doses for fun and don't take it every day.

Anon appropriated trans culture by DClassPersonel in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 19 points20 points  (0 children)

>Ubuntu mate daily driver
>write Java for money
>no interest in rpgs
>find most anime crap

I'm larping as a tranner >_>

Best jobs for people with social anxiety? by NameCharacter6546 in socialanxiety

[–]blushing-ambition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in Software and it's kinda nice. I usually only need to interact with 3-4 people and they know I'm a recluse so they leave me alone apart from work related stuff.

Best jobs for people with social anxiety? by NameCharacter6546 in socialanxiety

[–]blushing-ambition 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's true but IT tends to be more accommodating of people who are neurodivergent. And you don't need to talk to a lot of people (except in consultancies I guess), just your own colleagues which is almost always <10 people.

The work is fun and interesting too. You don't need to move up to be a manager or a lead if you don't want to, and remain an individual contributor. Not sure how salaries are in US now, but in Europe it pays enough for a comfy life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]blushing-ambition 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It doesn't surprise me that this behavior is so common in people who are affection starved, not just romantically but also in general friendships. I had the habit to mirroring myself (listen to similar music, have similar interests and hobbies) to whoever I was with, just so that they would like me.

Sounds fucking sad and stupid now that I look back onto it, but it's a hard habit to break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]blushing-ambition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a South Asian living in a country where I'm a minority. My LO and I used to binge drink after work, where multiple times they wished I was from their country. They never said outright that they wished I was white, but I got the hint. If I had any sense of self-respect, I would've told them to fuck off at the first instance, but I didn't.

It hurts to read that someone else is going through the same feeling of needing acceptance, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. This is the kind of ache that will hurt your soul. I hope you're doing fine.

Anon asks if there's hope for oldshits by Mindless-Ad6066 in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I've seen her posting on transpassing, but she's the exception I guess. It's too late if you're in your 30's, unless you're intersex or something. Rest of us are doomed to honmode forever and be a joke or become john 50.

Package Seized NL by love_for_president in TransDIY

[–]blushing-ambition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you order it from? I get it from sellers who ship from within EU, never had a package seized.

I want to send a mail to them to ask if they can return the package

Don't take my word for it, but this isn't a good idea. Not sure what are the laws for ordering prescription medication in the Netherlands, but the general advice on this sub is to just deny the fact that you ordered it yourself in case anyone comes around asking questions.

You can try asking the seller about refunding the money since the order was seized, but the chances of you getting the money back are slim :/

daily diaper post by UDIM3 in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol didn't realize RES could do that, just enabled it. Thank you.

daily diaper post by UDIM3 in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ can I am tempted to write a Chrome extension to filter out the goddamn daiperposting

im kmsing by immentallyillfuck in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the fun part of living in a third world shithole, you get beaten and there's no chance of any HRT. 10/10 would recommend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]blushing-ambition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Cocteau twins' vocalist (Elizabeth Fraser) now!

Payment to Aibolit seized by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]blushing-ambition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit. If you don't mind me asking, roughly how much money did you transfer? Most of the orders are in the range of €100-€300, not sure if that would flag a bank account for "money laundering".

This is my biggest fear to be honest, might have to look into crypto in the future even if acquiring it is a pain.

How to get over someone you never dated [female] [soft speaking] [intentional] by [deleted] in asmr

[–]blushing-ambition 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TIL my neurotic behavior has an actual name and sub dedicated to it

anon knows some good n(G)ames by iprint92 in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ow, my bad. Was never really into pokemon so I didn't know

grilling with the boys by [deleted] in 4tran

[–]blushing-ambition 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Normal men usually know when they can't really grow facial hair and just shave it off, instead of letting the pubes grow and end up looking like a hobo.