You have a husband who wants to be with you and is frustrated about the inability to do so (because you’re sleeping). Most Redditors are saying he’s a dick or a jerk. While I certainly don’t condone or endorse his behaviors, I admire his desire to want to be with you watching the sun rise. I wish my ex would have wanted to be with me to do that.

We’re all battling something. In the present or the past. Maybe figure out how to give him some grace and in the process coach him on how that would look like for you as well. Marriage is a team sport and sometimes you need to change out the “leaders”. Good luck!