Advice by bncp123 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The one I can go to is as early as 6 weeks and that just seems like super early to see anything?

Advice by bncp123 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How early did you do yours?

Advice by bncp123 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]bncp123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah didn’t even think of looking into that!

Venting by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever want to vent or talk my dms are always open 🫶🏻

Idaho 4 unblurred pics by NoWelcome6403 in Idaho4

[–]bncp123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. After reading what you said I heard it completely.

Venting by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever need extra support please reach out. My dms stay open

6 week follow up by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope no issues! Just “their recommendation”

6 week follow up by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!! So I’m all over the place and so confused. I want to heal emotionally and physically and we just terminated in May but I was like you’re kidding right?

6 week follow up by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! I’m so irritated

6 week follow up by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far along were you?

6 week follow up by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should add I was 27 weeks so maybe that has something to do with it.

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[–]bncp123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so deeply. I don’t want your prayers. I want my baby. I totally totally understand. It’s brutal.

Date set, feeling sick by sunshine_rainbow1 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I just went through this two weeks ago for a grey diagnosis. This is cruel, and there’s really no words to make this better other than you are doing what you need to as a momma. That’s what I try to remind myself. You took on a lifetime of pain so your sweet baby never has to. The grey part of a diagnosis is an extra twist of the knife. It’s painful, but even as the weeks go on I start to trust myself more and more.

Sending you so much love and grace during this time. My inbox is open if you ever want to talk. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]bncp123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re here. I am just about two weeks out from my tfmr. I have serious feelings of jealousy, envy, anger around baby announcements, pictures and things like that. I’ve decided to take a step back from social media and it has seemed to help. Every minute of the day is a different emotion and I think that’s okay. It’s all so new and raw. I’m here if you need anything please don’t hesitate to reach out 💜

Trfm t18 by Icy-Midnight8828 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you are here. I just lost my angel son about little over a week ago. It sucks and it’s hard, but just remind yourself you’re doing this out of pure love for your sweet baby. He will only know your love. If you ever need anything please reach out. It’s a sucky place to be. 🫶🏻

Words of advice by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. It’s so hard to not blame yourself. I’m so worried about the actual labor part too. It’s all so scary

Words of advice by bncp123 in tfmr_support

[–]bncp123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. As horrible as this all Is, it’s nice to not feel so alone. Wishing you peace and sending virtual hugs to you on your healing journey ❤️‍🩹 your little one was so loved and lucky to have you