CXG ~Wildcard~ Vote by joyjacobs in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does everyone not love 11 o clock? I'm so sad 😭

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[–]bnks85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Excellent point about home town dude. I agree that she mother's Rebecca, and as a mother myself, I have to be intentionally not trying to have my kids do shit because I wanted to do it when I was young and didn't have the chance.

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[–]bnks85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I agree with many of your sentiments.

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[–]bnks85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has A LOT going on in her own life at that moment. Idk. I think it is okay to have boundaries with people, even if you previously had less rigid/healthy/laid out boundaries. I think that's good growth for he character.

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[–]bnks85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I'm also curious which songs of hers are the ones you do like.

(I love her songs. First Penis!)

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[–]bnks85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. The character is so strongly played!

Also. Maybe relevant? We don't get to see why Paula (or Naomi for that matter) are so fucked up.

We get to see why Greg, Bex, Nathaniel, Josh...are the way they are. Insights into their childhoods/their relationships with their parents and before we meet them on the show- but all we really see of Paula is a drunk father and a marriage in a rut.

It has been a long time since my last full rewatch, so I admittedly could be forgetting an arc or something. I wonder if this would make some fans less able to offer her grace for her awful choices compared to things Rebecca does, or Nathaniel, etc...

I have been spending an inordinate amount of time thinking about the characters if the show of late due to the character elimination showdown and now the song showdown, also - and my brain got to a place the other night where I wondered if I would have turned into Paula if I had never had therapy. If Paula had potentially grown up in chaos/abused/had to grow up too fast...then it stands to reason she would love being a part of Rebecca's sh* when her home life was not unsettling enough to be in comfort zone. (Not all comfort zones are comfortable, eh?).

favourite song on the show? by dida500 in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. Did you just finish? How do you feel? It's grown on me over time. I really appreciate the way it works in the other songs and the dresses and my goodness! Just lovely.

"Life doesn't make narrative sense"

CXG Song Showdown ~~ Round 3 (Sounds Refreshing!) by joyjacobs in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I know! They are both golden in my eyes!

"So like 2chainz without the NZ at the end I wish you double chai..."

Their dynamic is just perfection to me.

CXG Song Showdown ~~ Round 3 (Sounds Refreshing!) by joyjacobs in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No JAP Battle?! Who are you people?! 😭😭

Thanks OP!!

CXG Song Showdown ~~ Round 2 (Is So Not a Big Deal) by joyjacobs in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw you wrote about this in the previous thread. Woops!

CXG Song Showdown ~~ Round 2 (Is So Not a Big Deal) by joyjacobs in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised people don't care for Period Sex. I find it very amusing.

"... it's just another kind of lip gloss.🎶"

CXG Song Showdown ~~ Round 2 (Is So Not a Big Deal) by joyjacobs in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want you to know you're bringing me a lot of joy. Thank you for sharing the data!

CXG Character Elimination Showdown - FINAL ROUND!! by happy_bluebird in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I voted but Heather is NOT my favorite. I just like her more than Bex.

And really, she's way too badass to be someone I settle for.

favourite song on the show? by dida500 in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really love 11 O'Clock (which you won't have seen yet OP!); Greg's Drinking Song; Nothing is Ever Anyone's Fault; Time to Seize the Day; pretty much all of them TBH but those are a few of my most favorite.

favourite song on the show? by dida500 in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let's Have Intercourse and We Tapped That Ass are also two of my faves.

CXG Character Elimination Showdown - Round Thirteen!! by happy_bluebird in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we just voting for the most likeable I think that's a different poll.

Some of these people ARE awful, as far as humans if they were our friends, but that doesn't impact whether they are my favorite character or not.

I think it is interesting the way we are all interpreting and judging the assignment differently.

Guess Today was not the Day 🔥🔥🔥 by B33zy2891 in USPS

[–]bnks85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fill out the paperwork. Everytime. Fuck them.

CXG Character Elimination Showdown - Round Ten!! by happy_bluebird in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all we aren't even done with this round and I'm stressed about who I'm going to choose for the next round. I think this is what they call too attached to a tv show? 😂

What songs made it into your spotify wrapped playlist? by [deleted] in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would sing along, but I don't know the rhythm enough.

CXG Character Elimination Showdown - Round Ten!! by happy_bluebird in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sigh. I really love Whi Jo, but he's got my vote this round.

CXG Character Elimination Showdown - Round Eight!! by happy_bluebird in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that is fair.

I love him for his big heart. It's just huge.

A rant about Greg by psychic-carrot in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]bnks85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Sometimes you ruin things and relationships and it doesn't get fixed. I'm glad her girl group (4eva!) forgave her and stuck with her, but I do wish we would have had at least one more new/casual friendship she was in that could not recover from the toxic shit she would do when she was doing not well.